Ava Devine

Ava Devine's Bad Advice

A Sexuality , Health & Fitness and Society & Culture podcast Explicit

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About the show

Welcome to my show, Ava Devine's Bad Advice On this podcast, I explore sex, relationships, self-image, the taboo and healing through honest, unfiltered conversations. Drawing from my own lived experience and a background in the adult industry, I sit down with experts in psychology, sexology, recovery, and wellness to unpack the things we’re often taught to hide. Nothing is off limits, including questions from my fans. This is a space to question patterns, challenge shame, and better understand who we are so we can start asking: what does life look like without shame? Follow Me: IG: @avadevinesbadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice X: @avadevinespod Got questions, feedback or requests? Email me at badadvicequestion@gmail.com.

Newest episodes

Aubrey Kate: "My Type Is Toxic!" — Dating, Desire & Redefining Trans Adult Entertainment

Nov 11, 2026 1 hr 4 min

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with award-winning trans adult star, director and entrepreneur Aubrey Kate for an unfiltered conversation about adult entertainment, dating, attraction, secret admirers, industry politics and the reality of life at the top. Aubrey made history as Evil Angel's first trans contract performer and built a career that helped change the visibility of transgender women in adult entertainment. But her success didn't come without challenges. She opens up about being rejected by talent agencies early in her career, stepping away from mainstream productions, and making an ambitious comeback that eventually pushed her toward burnout. We also get into the questions fans really want answered. Aubrey reveals her personal dating preferences, why her on-camera chemistry doesn't always reflect her real-life attractions, and what she thinks about men who publicly reject trans women while secretly pursuing them. She also talks about dating other performers, navigating relationships as a successful adult star, and why she's become increasingly selective about the men she lets into her life. But some of Aubrey's biggest revelations are about the business itself. She explains why winning more adult industry awards actually resulted in fewer bookings, why established performers can struggle to compete with influencers commanding enormous paydays, and why she believes the industry's biggest celebrations don't always reward the people who built it. We also discuss her transition into directing, the creative freedom behind her productions, and what she's learned about maintaining boundaries and control both on and off camera. Beyond the glamour, Aubrey reflects on marriage, loneliness, financial success, personal fulfillment and the pressure of constantly proving yourself when you've already reached the top. From bedroom preferences to industry secrets, this is Aubrey Kate beyond the fantasy. Follow Ava Devine In...

Claudia Marie: “My Husband Loves Watching Me With Other Men” On 25 Years Of Open Marriage

Nov 4, 2026 1 hr 0 min

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with veteran adult entertainer and self-described polyamorous hotwife Claudia Marie to talk about open marriage, swinging, jealousy, erotic fantasies, aging and the reality of sharing your partner after 25 years of marriage. Claudia and her husband, Robbie, have spent more than two decades exploring a relationship that challenges traditional ideas about marriage and monogamy. But despite their unconventional lifestyle, Claudia admits that jealousy hasn't disappeared completely. She explains why her husband enjoys watching her with other men, how they choose their partners, and why she's comfortable exploring erotic fantasies but still draws the line at certain forms of emotional intimacy. We also discuss the difference between intercourse and love, whether an open marriage can have stricter rules than a traditional one, and why Claudia believes some fantasies are better left unexplored. At 52, Claudia is experiencing another unexpected chapter in her career. She reveals why younger men are increasingly interested in mature women, how embracing the GILF category changed her business, and why getting older has made her more confident and outspoken. Claudia also shares the story behind her 4,200cc breast implants, how a planned increase turned into something much bigger than expected, and why she eventually embraced her new appearance. From her first nerve-racking adult film shoot with Naughty America to building her own subscription business before modern creator platforms existed, Claudia reflects on nearly 20 years in adult entertainment and the lessons she's learned about men, relationships and desire. We also get into what really happens inside swingers' clubs, why communication matters more than jealousy, and how Claudia and Robbie have kept their marriage together while continuing to explore their fantasies. For Claudia, a successful open marriage isn't about having no boundaries. It's about...

Erotica Divine: From Drag Queen To Trans Adult Star, Surgery, Sex & Finding Confidence

Oct 28, 2026 51 min

Send us Fan Mail Why do some men desire trans women behind closed doors but refuse to love them in public? In this special Halloween episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with transgender adult entertainer, drag performer and activist Erotica Devine for a conversation about trans attraction, fetishization, dating, gender identity, cosmetic surgery, adult entertainment and the difference between being sexually desired and genuinely accepted. Erotica grew up facing bullying and rejection because of her sexuality. She found an escape through theatre and dance, eventually attending the Las Vegas Academy of the Performing Arts before studying gender and sexuality at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. But it wasn't until college that she began to understand her own identity as a transgender woman. Erotica explains how learning about queer history helped her recognize herself, why drag became an important part of her identity, and how she went from being rejected by performing arts programmes to sharing a stage with Kesha. We also discuss her transition, the cosmetic surgeries she's undergone, and why she initially struggled to feel comfortable pursuing adult entertainment before becoming more confident in her appearance. Erotica opens up about the realities of dating as a trans woman, including men who fetishize her body, promise romantic relationships and disappear after sex. She explains why sexual attraction doesn't always translate into acceptance, and why she's looking for a partner who values her beyond her appearance. She also takes us behind the scenes of her growing adult-entertainment career, including the pressure of performing for professional studios, navigating expectations around her body and learning to establish herself in an industry where appearance and sexuality are part of the business. We discuss the differences between drag and adult entertainment, the role of trans representation, the challenges of navigating identity within the LGBTQ+ c...

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Aubrey Kate: "My Type Is Toxic!" — Dating, Desire & Redefining Trans Adult Entertainment

Nov 11, 2026 1 hr 4 min

Claudia Marie: “My Husband Loves Watching Me With Other Men” On 25 Years Of Open Marriage

Nov 4, 2026 1 hr 0 min

Erotica Divine: From Drag Queen To Trans Adult Star, Surgery, Sex & Finding Confidence

Oct 28, 2026 51 min

Adult Star Karen Fisher: Why Bigger Boobs Changed EVERYTHING About Her Career

Oct 21, 2026 39 min

Send us Fan Mail Karen Fisher spent years trying to establish herself in adult entertainment. Then she made one physical change, and suddenly the industry started paying attention. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with veteran adult performer Karen Fisher for a conversation about breast implants, the MILF industry, bisexuality, body image, aging, adult entertainment in the 2000s and what it takes to stay relevant after more than two decades. Karen began her career as an exotic dancer in Oregon before landing her first modelling job with Score Magazine. But breaking into mainstream adult films wasn't easy. Between expensive trips to Los Angeles, cancelled bookings and unpredictable pay, she struggled to make the business financially worthwhile. Everything changed after she moved to California and increased the size of her breast implants. Karen reveals how directors and companies who previously overlooked her suddenly began pursuing her, why she viewed cosmetic surgery as a business decision, and how her image evolved from a young performer into one of the industry's recognizable mature stars. We also discuss her early experiences with bisexuality, how adult entertainment helped her become more comfortable with her sexuality, and the boundaries she's maintained throughout her career. Karen takes us behind the scenes of the adult industry before creator platforms, including inappropriate behaviour she witnessed, long shooting days, and the changes she's seen in professionalism and performer protections. She also explains why fans now value personal interaction as much as adult content, how she handles criticism about her age and appearance, and why having a life outside the industry has helped her maintain her career. After more than 20 years, Karen is still adapting, building her own business and considering a return to more studio productions. We talk about what keeps her going, why she no longer lets strangers define her worth, and th...

Tyler Faith: Why I WALKED AWAY From Adult Entertainment — And Why I Came Back

Oct 14, 2026 48 min

Send us Fan Mail What happens when an adult star walks away from the industry, only to realize she's not finished? In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with veteran adult performer Tyler Faith for a conversation about the golden age of adult entertainment, Jill Kelly Productions, contract stars, relationships, consent, career burnout and making a comeback on her own terms. Raised in a strict Italian household in Boston, Tyler was determined to live differently. She began exotic dancing at 18, entered adult films through Pleasure Productions and eventually stepped away from the industry for a relationship that left her feeling suppressed. Everything changed when Jill Kelly offered her a contract. Tyler takes us inside the era when adult performers signed exclusive studio deals, appeared in magazines, travelled for feature dancing and starred in elaborate productions with scripts, storylines and creative control. She explains how Jill Kelly became both her mentor and lifelong friend, and the most important lesson she taught her: you can always say no. We discuss the realities of working in adult entertainment before VIP Channels, how much freedom contract performers actually had, and why Tyler believes today's newcomers shouldn't feel pressured to do everything to become successful. Tyler also opens up about launching her own production company, navigating relationships that became intertwined with business, and the burnout that eventually led her to leave Los Angeles and return to Boston. After years away, she made her comeback. Now, Tyler explains why she prefers controlling her own content, choosing her collaborators and working on her own schedule rather than returning to the demanding studio system she once knew. We also talk about the difference between Tyler Faith the performer and the woman she is away from the cameras, the changing business of adult entertainment, and why knowing your worth matters more than any paycheck. Follow Ava...

Becoming Blake Lovely: Transitioning, Adult Entertainment & Making Music & Refusing To Be Controlled

Oct 7, 2026 58 min

Send us Fan Mail Blake Lovely spent years trying to make it in music while hiding a part of herself she had understood since childhood. Eventually, she reached a point where she couldn't do it anymore. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with musician, adult performer and director Blake Lovely for a conversation about transitioning, the music industry, adult entertainment, identity, rejection, creativity and building a career on your own terms. Before entering adult entertainment, Blake moved to Los Angeles to pursue music. She recorded albums, toured with her band Animal Sun and eventually earned recognition for her work. But behind the music was a much more personal story. Blake opens up about writing "Girl in Blue" about her desire to transition, why meeting transgender fans after shows affected her so deeply and the moment she decided that living authentically mattered more than protecting the career she had built. Blake discusses the reaction from people around her, the challenges she says she experienced in the music industry and why adult entertainment eventually became a place where she found something she hadn't expected: community. Some of the transgender performers Blake once watched and admired eventually became her friends, mentors and co-stars. Within a few years, she went from performing music on an awards stage as the only transgender person in the room to returning to that same venue to accept an award for her work in adult entertainment surrounded by people she felt understood her. But Blake didn't want to remain only in front of the camera. She opens up about moving into directing, creating Once Upon a TS Summer and her goal of bringing cinematic storytelling back to adult films at a time when much of the industry has shifted toward creator-driven content. We also discuss her latest project, Nobody Walks In Clean, why she assembled a cast of prominent transgender performers and her ambition to push transgender adult entertainmen...

Lauren Strong & Krystyna Lauren Teach You How To Be Sexy On Command | Sexxy: The Show Vegas Dancers

Sep 30, 2026 56 min

Send us Fan Mail What does it actually take to be sexy on command? Behind the costumes, choreography and confidence of a Las Vegas showgirl are years of auditions, rejection, competition, body pressure and learning how to walk onto a stage and perform even when you don't feel your best. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with professional dancers Lauren Strong and Krystyna Lauren from Las Vegas' Sexxy The Show for a conversation about professional dance, burlesque, bodybuilding, body dysmorphia, confidence, rejection and what really happens behind the scenes when being sexy becomes part of your job. Long before becoming Vegas showgirls, Lauren and Krystyna were already accustomed to high-performance environments. Lauren spent years in professional dance and cheer, performing across the NFL, NBA and NLL worlds while experiencing firsthand how competitive auditions can be. She opens up about making an NFL team, being cut the following season and learning how quickly your identity can become attached to the career you've worked so hard to build. Krystyna spent years auditioning for professional dance opportunities while also building a career in competitive bodybuilding, fitness and coaching. Together, they open up about something both worlds taught them: when your body becomes part of your profession, it can become very difficult to stop evaluating it. Krystyna discusses struggling with body dysmorphia, analyzing her body even when she didn't need to and eventually stepping away from bodybuilding competition to figure out whether she still wanted that life. Lauren reveals that she experienced body pressure from both sides. While bodybuilding rewarded one physique, professional cheer told her her upper body had become too muscular and needed to look more feminine. Eventually, both women found themselves entering a very different world: burlesque. And something unexpected happened. Performing in Sexxy The Show didn't make them more critical...

Ava Devine Goes To Pole School With Claudia Renée | She Talks Confidence, Sensuality & Her Journey

Sep 23, 2026 59 min

Send us Fan Mail Pole dancing has spent decades being dismissed because of its connection to strip clubs and erotica. But what happens when women stop seeing sensuality as something they perform for somebody else, and start discovering it for themselves? In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with international pole dancer, instructor, and Team Basework founder Claudia Renee to talk about pole dancing, confidence, sensuality, strength, body image, sexual independence, and what really happens when women discover what their bodies are capable of. What started as a birthday gift eventually became a career that has taken Claudia around the world, teaching thousands of women from different backgrounds and ultimately building Team Basework, her virtual pole dancing community with instructors from around the world. But Claudia's approach to pole goes far beyond learning tricks. She explains why pole dancing can transform the way women see themselves, how physical strength can translate into emotional confidence and how she has watched women begin asking for what they want after discovering a different side of themselves through movement. We also talk about something Claudia refuses to separate from the conversation: where pole dancing comes from. Pole has increasingly entered the worlds of fitness, competitive sport and mainstream entertainment, but Claudia believes respecting the art also means respecting its relationship with erotic dancers and spicy workers. She takes us behind the scenes of training Constance Wu for Hustlers, the controversy she witnessed surrounding the production and why she believes pole dancers, midnight ballerinas, and spicy workers should be supporting each other rather than fighting over who is allowed to participate in the art form. Follow Ava Devine Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice X: @avadevinespod...

Mia Isabella: The Fullness of Her Freedom, The Tyga Scandal, Trans Identity & Taking Her Life Back

Sep 16, 2026 1 hr 4 min

Send us Fan Mail For most of her life, Mia Isabella refused to let other people decide who she was allowed to be. Long before becoming one of the most recognizable transgender performers in adult entertainment, Mia was an artist, fashion designer, student, caregiver and young woman trying to build a life entirely on her own terms. Then fame came. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with Mia Isabella for an intimate conversation about her childhood, transgender identity, race, family, fashion, adult entertainment, relationships, fame, the Tyga controversy, depression and what it actually means to live freely. Mia takes us back to growing up in East Tennessee, where she says she understood herself as feminine from the age of five despite having no concept of what being transgender meant. Raised by powerful women who encouraged her to tell the truth about who she was, Mia says she never learned to view being different as something that should limit her. But her childhood was also complicated by race, family conflict, and eventually discovering prejudices within the people she loved most. As a biracial child growing up between different sides of her family, Mia opens up about confronting racism and colorism, becoming estranged from her grandmother for nearly a decade and eventually learning that loving someone doesn't mean accepting everything they believe. She explains how she helped create an image of transgender women that went beyond reducing them to their bodies: full glamour, fashion, femininity and fantasy. But behind the public persona was a much more complicated private life. Mia opens up about relationships with powerful and wealthy men, getting married extremely young, living what appeared to be an extraordinarily privileged life and eventually realizing that money, houses, jewelry and security could still become a cage. She describes the moment she finally chose freedom over that life, leaving almost everything behind, driving to...

Victoria Vale: Aging, Plastic Surgery & Why Your 40s & 50s Might Be Better Than Your 20s

Sep 9, 2026 55 min

Send us Fan Mail Society has an unwritten rule for women: youth is beauty, beauty is value, and eventually you're supposed to become quieter, less desirable and less visible. Victoria Vale completely rejected that narrative. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with adult performer and model Victoria Vale for an honest conversation about starting over later in life, aging, confidence, beauty standards, plastic surgery, sexuality, career reinvention and why women do not have an expiration date. Long before becoming Victoria Vale, she lived two very different lives. She began dancing while putting herself through college before eventually leaving the entertainment world, completing graduate school and building a successful corporate career in HR. For roughly two decades, she lived what she describes as a normal suburban corporate life. But part of her never forgot the freedom and excitement she had experienced before. Years later, Victoria decided to explore that part of herself again. What initially began as a bucket-list opportunity to model eventually became something much bigger: a complete reinvention of her life in adulthood. Victoria opens up about returning to an appearance-driven industry at an older age, becoming comfortable in front of the camera, entering adult films later in life and discovering that getting older didn't make her less confident. Chapters 00:00 Women Do NOT Have An Expiration Date 00:01:05 Starting Over Later In Life 00:01:58 Who Was Victoria Vale Before Adult Entertainment? 00:02:42 Dancing Her Way Through College 00:04:27 Why Victoria Chose Corporate Life 00:05:07 Living Two Completely Different Lives 00:05:54 Did Victoria Ever Feel Like She Truly Fit In? 00:06:40 Shame & Growing Up Without Guilt 00:07:23 Education vs. Real-World Experience 00:08:07 What Adult Entertainment Taught Victoria About Men 00:08:58 Why Victoria Believes The Industry Can Empower Women 00:09:54 Why Victoria Returned To Adult...

Sassee Cassee Gets Real About Her Height, Dating, Fetishization, Self-love & Her Love For Dancing.

Sep 2, 2026 48 min

Send us Fan Mail People have spent Sassee Cassee's entire life noticing what makes her different. But there is far more to her story than what people see. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with entertainer, feature dancer and content creator Sassee Cassee for an honest conversation about confidence, dating, fetishization, self-worth and learning to live without needing validation from other people. Sassee takes us back to a childhood where her mother made the decision not to shelter her. She talks about being bullied in school, learning to defend herself, becoming a gymnast and developing the resilience that would eventually follow her into adulthood. Then an unexpected opportunity changed everything. After appearing on The Jerry Springer Show, Sassee began travelling, performing and eventually built a career as a touring feature dancer before joining Micro Maidens, an all-women burlesque show featuring little people. But behind the performer is a woman who has spent much of her life navigating the difference between being seen and being objectified. Sassee opens up about what dating is really like when you constantly have to question someone's intentions, how she separates genuine attraction from fetishization, why being attracted to a little person shouldn't be considered taboo, and the boundaries she refuses to compromise in her career. ## Chapters 00:00 Meet Sassee Cassee 00:00:33 The Mother Who Refused To Shelter Her 00:01:17 Growing Up With A Minister For A Sister 00:02:00 Family, Faith & Spicy Entertainment 00:03:14 How Spirituality Helps Sassee Handle Negativity 00:04:05 What Growing Up Different Was Really Like 00:04:45 The Bullying That Changed Her 00:05:37 How Sassee Learned To Handle Haters 00:06:22 From Gymnastics To Jerry Springer 00:07:18 Why Sassee Felt She Had To Prove Herself 00:08:02 Searching For Acceptance Through Self Love 00:08:54 Sassee Cassee On The Jerry Springer Show 00:09:38 Moving To California &...

Katie Kush: Working At A School, Modern Adult Entertainment & How To Actually Survive The Industry

Aug 26, 2026 57 min

Send us Fan Mail Most people see the finished product of adult entertainment. They don't see the business decisions, long hours, rejection, boundaries, social media restrictions, relationships, mentorship, and discipline required to build a career that lasts. This week on Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with adult performer and entrepreneur Katie Kush for a conversation about what it really takes to build a career in the modern adult entertainment industry. Before becoming Katie Kush, she worked at a school supporting children with special needs and behavioural challenges. After a relationship ended and she found herself financially responsible for a home on her own, Katie began camming while continuing to work at the school. Eventually, she faced a decision: continue pursuing a career she loved or take a chance on adult entertainment. Her mother gave her one piece of advice that would shape the way she approached her career: treat it like a business. And that's exactly what Katie did. We talk about her transition from amateur content into professional films, why it took her more than a year to fully commit to the industry, what happened when her school discovered her adult work, and how veteran performers helped teach her how to navigate the business. Katie also explains the massive shift she has witnessed from the traditional studio system to today's creator economy, and why she believes performers now have more control over their careers than previous generations. This is a conversation about adult entertainment, the creator economy, consent, social media, work ethic, mentorship, confidence, burnout, and what building a sustainable career actually looks like behind the scenes. Chapters 00:00 Meet Katie Kush 00:00:51 Why Ava Wanted A Gen Z Performer On The Show 00:01:35 Katie Kush's Business Approach To Adult Entertainment 00:02:16 Who Was Katie Kush Before Adult Entertainment? 00:02:57 From Special-Needs Assistant To Camming 00:04:12 Trying To K...

Kayla Kleevage, The Woman Who Defined an Era: Bimbofication + 90s Beauty + Extreme Plastic Surgery.

Aug 19, 2026 47 min

Send us Fan Mail Before social media made bimbofication, extreme plastic surgery, and exaggerated beauty trends part of internet culture, women like Kayla Kleeavage were already pushing beauty standards to their limits. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with legendary adult performer and feature dancer Kayla Kleeavage to look back at the era of big hair, big glamour, and even bigger implants, and how adult entertainment, plastic surgery, beauty standards, and sexuality have changed since the 1980s and 1990s. Kayla takes us back to the beginning of her career as a house dancer before becoming a touring feature dancer, magazine model, adult performer, and eventually the owner of her own production company. We discuss the legendary "big boob era" of the industry, when performers including Kayla, Lisa Lipps, Pandora Peaks, and other famous bombshells helped create an exaggerated aesthetic that would eventually resemble what internet culture now calls bimbofication. Kayla also opens up about the extraordinary lengths women went to achieve that look. This is a conversation about adult entertainment history, extreme plastic surgery, beauty standards, confidence, aging, reinvention, and the women who helped create an aesthetic decades before social media gave it a name. Chapters 00:00 Meet Adult Entertainment Legend Kayla Kleeavage 00:02:46 How Kayla Kleeavage Became A Household Name 00:03:32 What Was Feature Dancing? 00:04:21 Getting Extreme Breast Implants In The 1990s 00:05:08 From Men's Magazines To Adult Films 00:05:54 The Big Boob Era Of Adult Entertainment 00:06:45 Kayla's First Breast Augmentation 00:07:37 How Kayla Entered Adult Films 00:08:21 Kayla's Early Adult Film Career 00:09:23 Was There Competition Between The Big-Boob Legends? 00:10:14 Why Kayla Started Her Own Production Company 00:10:58 The Race For Bigger Breast Implants 00:11:58 Why Women Were Searching Overseas For Extreme Implants 00:12:48 Kayla's Polypropylene...

Big Girls Wanted: Stefan Wilhelmy Responds To The Pearadise Allegations | The Story You Didn't Hear

Aug 12, 2026 1 hr 3 min

Send us Fan Mail Disclosure: Certain elements of this interview have been censored because I felt they were not relevant to the question and disrespectful to the individual being discussed. The documentary Big Girls Wanted: Escaping Pearadise introduced viewers to a Las Vegas house known as Pearadise, a place created around the plus-size and BBW community that became the center of serious allegations involving consent, boundaries, surveillance, fetishization, and the treatment of women who visited the house. Now, Pearadise creator Stefan Wilhelmy responds. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with Stefan Wilhelmy for a direct conversation about the allegations surrounding Pearadise and his portrayal in Big Girls Wanted: Escaping Pearadise. This is not a declaration of innocence or guilt. It is an opportunity to question Stefan directly about what happened inside the house, hear his account, and challenge him on some of the most controversial claims raised by former visitors and in the documentary. Stefan explains how Pearadise began as his private Las Vegas home before becoming a gathering place for members of the BBW and plus-size community. He responds to questions about who was invited into the house, whether visitors understood what they were entering, the absence of written agreements in its early years, household responsibilities, security cameras, livestreams, social media monetization, and whether women were ever expected to provide labor in exchange for staying there. The conversation then turns to the most serious issue: consent. I question Stefan about allegations that some women felt uncomfortable saying no, claims surrounding physical contact and photographs taken at the house, and whether extensive flirting or previous sexual conversations can ever be interpreted as consent. Stefan disputes many of the allegations made against him, provides his account of specific incidents, and explains why he believes events at Pearadise we...

Carmela Clutch REVEALS What It Takes To Succeed In Adult Entertainment: Private Channels, Fitness & Boundaries on Set

Aug 5, 2026 1 hr 0 min

Send us Fan Mail We discuss Carmela’s fitness and weight loss transformation, emotional eating, body image, creator marketing, personal branding, social media strategy, consent, performer safety, friendships, competition, diversity, dating, and the physical and mental demands of working in adult entertainment. Carmela explains how she entered the industry with only **$27.32**, used her marketing education to build an authentic brand, and transformed her health after experiencing obesity, prediabetes, arthritis, and disordered eating. She also shares the painful experience of being assaulted early in her career, why performers need clear boundaries and support systems, and how community and mentorship can help protect the next generation. Whether you're considering a career in adult entertainment, building an online brand, struggling with body image, or trying to understand the business behind creator platforms, this conversation offers honest insight into the work people rarely see behind the finished product. In this episode, we discuss: 00:00 Why Carmela Clutch’s Body Transformation Was Questioned 00:00:36 The Essay That Defended Her Fitness Journey 00:02:15 How Industry Rejection Motivated Carmela Clutch 00:03:05 Obesity, Prediabetes, Arthritis & Body Image 00:04:48 Carmela’s Highest Weight & Deciding To Change 00:05:30 Emotional Eating, Breakups & Starting Her Fitness Journey 00:07:37 Why Walking, Running & Exercise Helped Her Mental Health 00:08:15 Why Carmela Clutch Entered Adult Entertainment 00:09:02 Starting An Adult Career With Only $27.32 00:11:04 Body Positivity & Breaking Into The Industry 00:11:49 How Carmela Created Her Personal Brand 00:13:57 How A Marketing Degree Helped Her Adult Career 00:15:28 Using Social Media Trends To Build A Brand 00:17:26 Should New Adult Performers Pay For Career Advice? 00:18:42 Why Women In Adult Entertainment Should Collaborate 00:19:32 Carmela Clutch Opens Up About Being Assaulted 00:22:22 Safety Ad...

The Queen of MILFs: Sara Jay Reveals The Secrets Behind A 25-Year Career

Jul 22, 2026 43 min

Send us Fan Mail For more than 25 years, Sara Jay has remained one of the most recognizable names in the adult entertainment industry. While thousands of performers have come and gone, she built a career that has stood the test of time by embracing authenticity, adapting to change, and turning herself into a global brand. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with adult industry legend Sara Jay to talk about longevity, success, psychology, entrepreneurship, confidence, body image, relationships, and how the internet completely transformed the adult entertainment business. Sara shares how studying psychology shaped the way she approached relationships and her career, why she never tried to fit the industry's traditional beauty standards, and how confidence, enthusiasm, and authenticity helped her build one of the longest-running careers in adult entertainment. We also discuss the evolution of the MILF genre, the rise of independent creators, directing, producing, mentoring new performers, building businesses outside the industry, and why lasting success is about far more than appearance. Whether you're curious about the adult entertainment industry, building a long-term career, entrepreneurship, confidence, or personal growth, this conversation is full of honest insights from someone who has successfully reinvented herself for over two decades. In this episode, we discuss: • How Sara Jay built a 25-year career in adult entertainment • Why authenticity beats beauty in any career • The psychology behind attraction and relationships • How the internet changed the adult industry forever • Why the MILF genre became one of the biggest categories online • Confidence, body image, and embracing curves • Why chemistry matters more than appearance • Directing, producing, and mentoring new performers • Building businesses beyond performing • Entrepreneurship, branding, and career longevity • The biggest mistakes new performers make • Aging confidently and redefi...

Weight Loss Surgeon: You're NOT Lazy! Why Diets Fail & Ozempic Is Changing Everything

Jul 15, 2026 55 min

Send us Fan Mail Millions of people are told they're lazy, lack willpower, or simply need to "eat less and move more." But according to bariatric surgeon Dr. Bernie Hanna, the science tells a very different story. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with my longtime friend and one of Las Vegas' leading bariatric surgeons, Dr. Bernie Hanna, to unpack one of the biggest health crises in America: obesity. We discuss the science behind obesity, genetics, food addiction, processed foods, bariatric surgery, Ozempic, GLP-1 medications, Tirzepatide, Retatrutide, mental health, body positivity, and why traditional weight loss advice often fails. Dr. Hanna explains why obesity is far more complex than personal responsibility, how hormones, genetics, environment, and ultra-processed foods influence weight, and why treating obesity with compassion, not shame, is critical to improving long-term health. Whether you're considering Ozempic, bariatric surgery, struggling with food noise, or simply trying to understand why losing weight feels impossible, this conversation offers practical advice backed by over 20 years of medical experience. In this episode, we discuss: • Why obesity is not simply about willpower • The truth about Ozempic, GLP-1 medications and Tirzepatide • How bariatric surgery actually works • Why processed foods keep you hungry • Food addiction and "food noise" • Genetics vs environment in obesity • Weight stigma and mental health • Muscle loss while taking GLP-1 medications • Functional training vs endless cardio • Insurance coverage for weight loss surgery • Whether Ozempic is worth taking for cosmetic weight loss • How to choose between medication and bariatric surgery • Long-term weight loss strategies that actually work ⏱ CHAPTERS 00:00 Why Obesity Is One Of America's Biggest Health Crises 00:01:57 Meet Bariatric Surgeon Dr. Bernie Hanna 00:02:54 Genetics vs Environment: What Really Causes Obesity? 00:06:32 Is Sugar Actually Add...

Big Girls Wanted: How Big Big Cherry Survived Pearadise. | Big Girls Wanted: Escaping Pearadise

Jul 8, 2026 53 min

Send us Fan Mail For years, Pearadise was promoted as a body-positive sanctuary where plus-size women could feel beautiful, desired, accepted, and finally seen. But behind the bikinis, social media videos, and messages of empowerment, many former residents have described something much more complicated. In this episode of Ava Devine’s Bad Advice, I sit down with plus-size performer, director, and creator Big Big Cherry to talk about body positivity, BBW representation, self-worth, adult entertainment, feederism, consent, community, and the darker side of what happens when belonging becomes conditional. Big Big Cherry opens up about her own journey as a plus-size woman in the adult industry, how representation helped her build confidence, and why seeing other women who looked like her changed the way she viewed her own body. We talk about BBW performers, plus-size sex appeal, body confidence, fetishization, and the difference between being desired privately versus being respected publicly. We also discuss her experience with Pearadise, the community that many women were drawn to after years of feeling isolated or unseen. Cherry shares what originally attracted her to the space, the friendships she built there, the red flags she noticed, and how the promise of acceptance can sometimes make people overlook uncomfortable dynamics. This conversation explores the fine line between body positivity and exploitation, especially when it comes to feederism, consent, social media attention, adult content, and vulnerable people searching for community. We also talk about her late friend Kass, the importance of speaking up, and why finding your own trusted circle matters more than belonging to a space that asks you to compromise yourself. This episode is about plus-size women, BBW empowerment, adult entertainment, self-worth, consent, friendship, grief, and the human need to be accepted without being exploited. So get cozy if you’re watching from home and turn up the volume...

The Truth About Dating Trans Women. Do You Like Me or My Fantasy with guests, Emma Rose & Eva Maxim.

Jul 1, 2026 1 hr 0 min

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with two of the adult industry's most respected transgender performers to talk about friendship, dating, relationships, fame, identity, burnout, business, and what life is really like beyond the camera. Emma Rose and Eva Maxim open up about how they first met, fell in love, stayed close friends after their relationship ended, and why mutual respect has always come before ego. They share candid stories about navigating relationships as trans women, dealing with dating stereotypes, setting healthy boundaries, balancing public personas with private lives, and protecting their mental health in an industry that often expects performers to be "on" 24/7. The conversation also explores misconceptions surrounding transgender women, the difference between genuine attraction and fetishization, mentorship within the industry, representation in media, cosmetic surgery, gender-affirming care, financial independence, and why authenticity is the key to long-term success. Of course, no episode of Bad Advice would be complete without fan questions, hilarious dating stories, unexpected confessions, and plenty of laughs along the way. Whether you're interested in relationships, LGBTQ+ conversations, personal growth, or simply hearing two incredibly successful women tell their stories with honesty and humor, this is an episode you won't want to miss. ⏱ CHAPTERS 00:00 – Introduction & Meet Emma Rose and Eva Maxim 02:47 – How They Met and Became Friends 04:21 – Dating Each Other in the Public Eye 07:43 – Dating as Trans Women 08:37 – Chasers vs. Genuine Attraction 10:06 – Attraction, Fetishization & Boundaries 11:52 – Dating Inside vs. Outside the Industry 12:43 – Work-Life Balance & Burnout 16:28 – Separating the Performer from the Person 18:15 – Understanding Trans Attraction 19:53 – Relationships, Independence & Personal Standards 21:29 – Mentorship, Career Growth & Business Advice 24:10 – Helping the Next Ge...

Feminist Erotica Matters: Reclaiming Pleasure, Consent & Sexuality

Jun 24, 2026 50 min

Send us Fan Mail What happens when adult entertainment is created through a feminist, queer, and pleasure-centred lens instead of the male gaze? This week on Ava Devine’s Bad Advice, I sit down with Dahlia Von Knight, owner of Sinners Vault VR and co-founder of Queer Crush, two queer-inclusive adult entertainment platforms focused on ethical, authentic, and pleasure-driven erotic content. We explore how mainstream erotica shapes expectations around sex, intimacy, consent, and connection, often prioritizing performance over genuine human experience. Dahlia breaks down why feminist and queer erotica takes a different approach by centring communication, mutual pleasure, representation, and realism. We discuss the importance of foreplay, consent behind the scenes, why many viewers are seeking alternatives to traditional adult content, and how queer creators are challenging long-held assumptions about what sex is supposed to look like. We also talk about representation, inclusivity, body diversity, and why authentic intimacy can be far more powerful than fantasy alone. This conversation isn't just about adult entertainment. It's about pleasure, connection, consent, and expanding the way we think about sexuality. So get cozy if you're watching from home and turn up the volume if you're listening—this is Ava Devine’s Bad Advice. In This Episode: • Feminist and queer erotica • The male gaze in adult entertainment • Why foreplay and intimacy matter • Consent and performer safety behind the scenes • Sinners Vault VR & Queer Crush • Female and queer pleasure • Representation and inclusivity in adult content • The psychology of intimacy and connection • Body diversity and authentic sexuality • Fan Questions & Bad Advice Follow Ava Devine Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice X: @avadevinespod Follow Dahlia Von Knight Instagram: @dvknight Submit your qu...

The Psychology of Online Bullying with Therapist Ryan Wynder

Jun 17, 2026 58 min

Send us Fan Mail What kind of society are we creating when cruelty becomes entertainment? This week on Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with therapist Ryan Wynder to unpack a question that emerged after I became the target of public online ridicule, body shaming, and harassment: Why do some people build audiences by mocking, humiliating, and degrading others? Together, we explore the psychology behind bullying, public humiliation, and internet outrage culture. Ryan breaks down concepts like dehumanization, projection, group validation, cognitive distortions, and the emotional rewards people receive from putting others down. We discuss why cruelty is often disguised as humor, how social media amplifies toxic behavior, and why online attacks can have real consequences for the people on the receiving end. We also examine body shaming, promiscuity shaming, ageism, LGBTQ+ discrimination, toxic masculinity, parasocial relationships, and the double standards that continue to shape public conversations about women, sexuality, and adult entertainment. Most importantly, this episode is about remembering that behind every profile, every headline, and every viral clip is a real human being with feelings, experiences, and dignity. So get cozy if you're watching from home and turn up the volume if you're listening. This is Ava Devine's Bad Advice. Topics Covered: • The psychology of online bullying • Public humiliation and body shaming • Why cruelty gets disguised as comedy • Dehumanization and internet culture • Projection, insecurity, and group validation • Toxic masculinity and outrage content • Promiscuity shaming and double standards • LGBTQ+ discrimination and social stigma • Social media, anonymity, and trolling • Coping with online harassment • Trauma, resilience, and self-worth • Why every person deserves dignity Follow Ava Devine Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice TikTo...

Body Shaming, Sl*t Shaming and The Cost of Online Bullying.

Jun 10, 2026 11 min

Send us Fan Mail This week, I go solo to address the recent online attacks directed at me from comedians, podcasts, and strangers who seem to think body shaming, age shaming, and promiscuity shaming qualify as entertainment. But this episode isn't about being offended by jokes. It's about drawing a line between comedy and cruelty and standing up for the people who do not have the platform or thick skin to defend themselves. I discuss the hypocrisy of people who claim certain topics are off limits while freely mocking appearance, age, sexuality, adult entertainers, LGBTQ+ people, and anyone they believe society will defend the least. We talk about the real consequences of online bullying, why cruelty doesn't become harmless just because it's packaged as a joke, and how public humiliation affects not only the target but entire communities. This conversation also explores society's obsession with aging women, cosmetic surgery, body count culture, and the double standards that continue to shape how women are judged for their bodies, sexuality, and profession. Most importantly, this episode is for anyone who has ever been made to feel disposable because of their age, body, identity, profession, sexuality, or past. You are not the joke. So get cozy if you're watching from home and turn up the volume if you're listening. This is Ava Devine's Bad Advice. Topics Covered: • Online bullying and public humiliation • Comedy vs. cruelty • Body shaming and age shaming • Promiscuity shaming and stigma • Adult entertainers and public perception • LGBTQ+ stereotypes and discrimination • The impact of social media harassment • Self-worth, resilience, and standing up for yourself • Why kindness still matters #AvaDevinesBadAdvice #BodyPositivity #AntiBullying #Ageism #WomenEmpowerment #LGBTQ #AdultEntertainment #MentalHealth #SelfWorth #OnlineHarassment

Society Consumes Adult Entertainers But Refuses To Protect Them | Summer Hart & SWAID Collective

Jun 3, 2026 40 min

Send us Fan Mail Adult Entertainers are some of the most desired people in society, yet when it comes to their safety, healthcare, legal protection, and dignity, they are often treated as disposable. In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with therapist and SWAID Collective co-founder Summer Hart to explore the realities that adult entertainers face beyond stereotypes and stigma. We talk about discrimination in healthcare and society, the psychological impact of shame, and why community-led organizations like SWAID are providing emergency aid, harm reduction resources, and survival support where larger systems continue to fail. Summer shares the story behind SWAID, an adult entertainer-led organization providing emergency financial assistance, reproductive healthcare resources, harm reduction supplies, and crisis support for performers and adult entertainers across the country. We also explore the difference between morality and human rights, why empathy is often made conditional, and what a world that truly protects sex workers could look like. So get cozy if you're watching from home and turn up the volume if you're listening. This is Ava Devine's Bad Advice. Topics Covered: • What SWAID is and why it was created • The safety risks sex workers face • Healthcare discrimination and social stigma • Harm reduction and emergency aid • Why sex worker-led organizations matter • Human rights vs. morality debates • Fan questions • The future of sex worker advocacy and support Follow the guests: Summer Hart Instagram: @ohheysummerhart TikTok: @summerhartxxx SWAID Collective Instagram: @swaidcollective X/Twitter: @swaidvegas YouTube: @SWAIDCollective Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice X/Twitter: @avadevinespod TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice Resources Studio: Level 9 Studios Makeup: Sanaya Beauty / @sanaya_mua (IG) Submit your questions for the show badadvicequestion@gmail.com

Adult Entertainers, Mature Women & The Myth About Who Society Says Isn’t “Relationship Material”

May 27, 2026 57 min

Send us Fan Mail Today I sit down with Nikole Mitchell and Mellanie Monroe for one of the rawest conversations yet about love, sex work, aging, relationships, self-worth, and the double standards women face every day. Nikole opens up about going viral as the “pastor turned stripper,” leaving behind religion and shame to fully embrace her sexuality, freedom, and identity. Mellanie reflects on nearly two decades in the adult industry, falling in and out of love, taking breaks from the business, and learning the hard way that compromising herself for relationships always led to resentment. Together, they unpack the stigma surrounding adult entertainers and mature women, from being desired privately but judged publicly, to the reality of dating while working in the adult industry. The conversation explores jealousy, honesty, emotional maturity, age-gap relationships, and the difference between real intimacy and transactional sex. They also discuss: • Why many men secretly admire adult entertainers but publicly shame them • The emotional labor and communication required in healthy relationships • Dating younger vs older partners • Why adult entertainers are often safer and more communicative than civilians • How society links sex work with infidelity • The truth about aging, desirability, and confidence • Why sex workers are often portrayed as “damaged” in media • Learning to stop apologizing for who you are • Falling in love with yourself first before seeking validation from others This episode is funny, emotional, vulnerable, empowering, and deeply honest. Whether you agree with every perspective or not, this conversation challenges stereotypes and opens the door to a more human understanding of sexuality, relationships, aging, and identity. ⏱ CHAPTERS: 00:00 – Intro 00:46 – Meeting Nikole Mitchell & Mellanie Monroe 02:49 – Mellanie’s 17-year journey in the adult industry 03:25 – Nikole Mitchell: pastor turned stripper 04:41 – Being desired privately but judged p...

Body Dysmorphia, Plastic Surgery & The Search for Self-worth with Kimber James

May 20, 2026 46 min

Send us Fan Mail Today, I sit down with Kimber James for a deeply honest conversation about body dysmorphia, plastic surgery, identity, self-image, and the lifelong search to feel comfortable in your own skin. From growing up feeling disconnected from her body and being relentlessly bullied as a child, to navigating transition, fame, beauty standards, and the pressures of the adult industry, Kimber opens up about the emotional complexity behind transformation, self-expression, and the need to feel accepted. Kimber reflects on childhood bullying, gender identity, eating disorders, dysmorphia, and the pressure to conform to impossible standards of beauty. Together, we unpack the emotional reality behind cosmetic surgery, the shame society places on women and trans women for altering their appearance, and the painful truth that changing the outside does not always heal what is happening internally. What looks glamorous or empowering from the outside can often come from a much deeper place of insecurity, survival, loneliness, or the need for control. As the conversation unfolds, Kimber speaks candidly about transitioning in the adult industry, living through botched surgeries and medical complications, appearing on *Botched*, addiction to change, social media pressures, relationships, and the exhausting cycle of constantly trying to “fix” yourself. We also explore self-worth, aging, healing, internal validation, and the difficult process of learning how to sit with yourself in a world that profits from making people feel inadequate. In this episode, you’ll learn: How Body Dysmorphia Begins in Childhood How Bullying and Shame Impact Identity and Self-Worth How Beauty Standards Shape the Way We See Ourselves How Plastic Surgery Can Become an Emotional Coping Mechanism How Transitioning in the Adult Industry Creates Unique Pressures How Social Media Intensifies Comparison and Dissatisfaction How Cosmetic Surgery Can Shift From Enhancement to Obsession How Health Complic...

Will Money, Beauty & Attention Make You Happy? Kieta Kieta Has the Answers.

May 13, 2026 57 min

Send us Fan Mail Today, I sit down with Keita Kieta, former 90s supermodel and actress, for a raw conversation about the hidden loneliness behind beauty, fame, addiction, and validation. From modeling for Elite and appearing in magazines like *Vanity Fair* and *Seventeen*, to partying in Hollywood, navigating toxic industry culture, and eventually spiraling into addiction and sex work, Keita opens up about the emotional emptiness that success could never fill. Keita reflects on growing up in an industry where drugs, alcohol, perfectionism, and exploitation were normalized, and how chasing external validation slowly disconnected her from herself. What looked glamorous from the outside often felt isolating internally. Keita details the emotional cost of constantly performing an image, the pressure women face to stay desirable, and how loneliness can exist even in rooms full of celebrities, wealth, and attention. As the conversation unfolds, Keita shares how sobriety, yoga, spirituality, and authentic connection helped rebuild her life from the inside out. Together, we speak candidly about aging, identity, depression, self-worth, body image, the reality of healing, and learning to let go of the belief that money, beauty, or fame can save us. What emerges is a conversation not just about addiction and recovery, but about learning how to come home to yourself. In this episode, you’ll learn: How Fame and Beauty Can Intensify Loneliness How Addiction Becomes a Way to Escape Emotional Pain How External Validation Disconnects Us From Ourselves How the Modeling and Entertainment Industries Normalize Self-Destruction How Sobriety Changes Your Identity and Relationships How Spirituality and Yoga Help Rebuild Self-Worth How to Stop Chasing Perfection and Practice Self-Acceptance How Real Healing Begins Through Honesty, Support, and Connection If there’s one thing to take away from this episode, it’s this: no matter how far you think you’ve fallen, there is always a way back....

From Gang Life to Reinvention with Joseph Martinez

May 6, 2026 1 hr 9 min

Send us Fan Mail Today on Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with Joseph Martinez to explore a powerful truth: you are not destined to become the environment you were raised in. In our conversation, Joseph opens up about growing up surrounded by gangs, violence, and survival-driven thinking, and how that world quietly shaped his identity before he realized it. From having a father serving a life sentence to inheriting “street beef” instead of opportunity, his story reveals what it really means to be raised in a system where certain paths feel inevitable. But this episode isn’t just about where he came from; it’s about what it takes to break away. Joseph shares the internal conflict of wanting that lifestyle, the influence of the people he looked up to, and the moments that slowly planted a different vision for his life. From a cousin who challenged his mindset, to becoming a young father, to confronting his own behaviors later in life, this conversation unpacks how change actually happens. Not overnight. Not perfectly. But through awareness, willingness, and the decision to want something more. In this episode, you'll learn: How Your Environment Shapes You And How to Break Free From It Why Leaving a Negative Lifestyle Is Harder Than It Looks How Small Moments Can Change the Direction of Your Life How to Turn Survival Instincts Into Strength in the Real World How to Control Your Emotions Instead of Letting Them Control You How to Redefine Masculinity in a Healthy Way How to Build a New Identity Without Losing Yourself How to Let Go of the Need for Approval From the Wrong People How to Channel “Hustle Mentality” Into Something Positive How to Move From Just Surviving to Actually Thriving If there’s one thing I want you to hold onto, it’s this: where you start does not have to be where you stay. Change doesn’t come from pretending your past didn’t happen, it comes from learning how to use it differently. I hope you love watching this episode as much as I did fil...

Raw & Devine: Ava Opens Up | Fan Questions, Industry Realities & Why She Started This Podcast

Dec 24, 2025 32 min

Send us Fan Mail On this special solo episode of Ava Devine’s Bad Advice, Ava sits down on her own to answer her fans’ wildest, most unapologetic questions. No filter, no guest—just Ava being brutally honest. Ava answers her fans’ wildest questions, spills adult-industry secrets you’ll never see on camera, and breaks down what really happens behind the fantasy. Ava gets raw about her personal life, the taboos she’s lived, and why she started this podcast in the first place. Pure, unfiltered Devine chaos and damn bad advice! Follow us on Social Media: IG: @avadevinesbadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice Follow Ava: IG: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine 💌 Submit questions: badadvicequestion@gmail.com Find Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Lovely & Loaded: Ava Devine & Lia Lovely Get Real on Big Implants, Bimbo Life & Success

Dec 16, 2025 30 min

Send us Fan Mail Ava Devine sits down with adult film actress Lia Lovely for an unfiltered, laugh-out-loud conversation about oversized breast implants, embracing the bimbo lifestyle, and the power of building your own platform outside traditional studios. Lia opens up about her life before the industry, the journey that shaped her path, and how plastic surgery became part of her self-expression rather than something to hide. The two also dive into past collaborations, independence in adult entertainment, and what it really means to own your brand. Honest, chaotic, and unapologetically fun—this episode delivers real talk, bad advice, and even a surprise kiss along the way. Follow us on Social Media: IG: @avadevinesbadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice Follow Ava: IG: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine Find Lia Lovely @aiamlialovely 💌 Submit questions: badadvicequestion@gmail.com Find Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Thickk Talk Uncensored: Ava Devine & Amanda Thickk Get Real on BBW Stardom & Body Positivity

Dec 9, 2025 35 min

Send us Fan Mail Ava Devine welcomes adult film star and podcast host Amanda Thickk, a vocal champion for BBW representation and body positivity in the industry. From navigating expectations to owning her curves on and off camera, Amanda breaks down the realities of being a bigger woman in adult entertainment. With Ava’s unfiltered curiosity and Amanda’s honest, empowered voice, this conversation dives into confidence, career challenges, and reshaping beauty standards—one real talk moment at a time with plenty of bad advice. Follow us on Social Media: IG: @avadevinesbadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice Follow Ava: IG: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine Find Amanda Thickk @amanda_thickk 💌 Submit questions: badadvicequestion@gmail.com Find Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Body Talk Unfiltered: Ava Devine Sits Down With Dr. Phillip Dimotsantos of Steadfast Performance Therapy | Strength, Mobility & Better Living

Dec 2, 2025 47 min

Send us Fan Mail Ava Devine and guest host Kyle Ward sit down with Dr. Phillip Dimotsantos of Steadfast Performance Therapy for a fast, funny breakdown of how the body really works. Ava’s fans sent in some truly wild questions—yes, including self-suckers—and Dr. D explains how certain masturbation habits can create real tension and limit mobility. It’s hilarious and unexpectedly informative, with Ava’s unfiltered curiosity driving every moment. A must-listen for anyone who wants answers, laughs, and straight talk about the body. Follow us on Social Media: IG: @avadevinesbadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice Follow Ava: IG: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine Follow Kyle: IG: @kflexfitness TikTok: @kflexfitness Find Phillip Dimotsantos: @steadfastpt (Steadfast Performance Therapy) 💌 Submit questions: badadvicequestion@gmail.com Find Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Taboo No More: Ava Devine Sits Down With Top Vegas Urologist, Dr. Michael Kaplan To Discuss Erectile Dysfunction | New Science Backed Options

Nov 25, 2025 40 min

Send us Fan Mail Ava Devine and guest host Kyle Ward sit down with Las Vegas urologist Dr. Michael Kaplan, the HarderNaturally.com expert known for tackling erectile dysfunction with clarity and honesty. Ava’s fans bring the questions, and Dr. Kaplan brings the answers—breaking down causes, treatments, and real solutions for men looking to regain confidence in the bedroom. With Ava’s unfiltered curiosity and Kyle’s thoughtful insights, this episode is informative, approachable, and surprisingly fun. Follow us on Social Media: IG: @avadevinesbadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice Follow Ava: IG: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine Follow Kyle: IG: @kflexfitness TikTok: @kflexfitness Find Dr.Kaplan HarderNaturally.com 💌 Submit questions: badadvicequestion@gmail.com Find Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Creator of Mean B*tches Glenn King Breaks Down The Fem-Dom Lifestyle & Navigating The Adult Film Industry

Nov 18, 2025 1 hr 20 min

Send us Fan Mail Ava Devine sits down with the owner of Mean Bitches Productions to gain clarity on the fem dom lifestyle and what it takes to be part of his directed scenes. With a strong emphasis on allowing Women to take control and dominate willing Men. Film Director Glenn King expressed some men's desire to be smothered and covered in a woman's back door pheromones. This is a phenomenon that few understand better than this Evil Angel and AVN director. Ava and Glenn go way back, almost 2 decades ago, and they don't skip a beat. With Kyle's inquisitive nature and Ava's shock value personality... This episode is a must-see! Follow us on Social Media: IG: @avadevinebadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice Follow Ava: IG: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine Follow Kyle: IG: @kflexfitness TikTok: @kflexfitness Follow Glenn King: IG: @glennking_xx 💌 Submit questions: badadvicequestion@gmail.com Find Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Muscle Mommy Brandi Mae on Muscle Worship, Dating and Booty Slap Entertainment

Nov 11, 2025 48 min

Send us Fan Mail Ava Devine sits down with Brandi Mae for a candid, fast-paced conversation about dating in the adult film industry and navigating attention as a muscular woman. They break down the new Booty Slap Entertainment competition—a cheeky twist on slap sports—and bring in trainer Kyle Ward to compare experiences, pressure, and body-driven expectations. The trio keeps it unfiltered and funny, flexing pecs, trading stories, and laughing through an unexpected mix of muscles, media, and mayhem. Follow us on Social Media: IG: @avadevinebadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice Follow Ava: IG: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine Follow Kyle: IG: @kflexfitness TikTok: @kflexfitness Follow Brandi Mae: IG: @sexybuffbabe 💌 Submit questions: badadvicequestion@gmail.com Find Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Ava Devine Unleashed: 30 Years In The Adult Industry, Zero Filters, All Bad Advice

Nov 2, 2025 44 min

Send us Fan Mail Follow us on Social Media: IG: @avadevinebadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice Follow Ava: IG: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine Follow Kyle: IG: @kflexfitness TikTok: @kflexfitness 💌 Submit questions: badadvicequestion@gmail.com Find Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

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Created by: Ava Devine
Status: Active
Latest episode: Nov 11, 2026
Episodes: 35
Release period: Weekly
Avg. episode length: 51 min
Explicit: Yes
Language: English

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