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Calm It Down Conversations: When There’s Nothing Left to Fix, with Jeff Krasno

35 min

What do you do when someone you love is hurting, and there's nothing you can do to make it better? For Jeff Krasno, co-founder of Wanderlust and Commune, that question became deeply personal during his father's final days. He arrived at his bedside with a plan to make things better. But it wasn't until his brother turned on some old jazz records that something remarkable happened. In this first episode of Calm It Down Conversations, Jeff and I explore the difference between fitting in and belonging, the unexpected ways our childhood shapes us, and why sometimes the most meaningful thing we can offer someone isn't a solution. It's a conversation about family, forgiveness, music, and learning when to stop trying to fix everything. Join us as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

The Quiet People Leave Behind

12 min

Have you ever walked into an empty house and immediately turned on the TV? Not because there's something you want to watch. You just want to hear someone. It's funny how a familiar voice can make a room feel less empty. How people we've never met can become part of our everyday lives without us even realizing it. But what happens when that voice goes quiet? And whose life might you be quietly touching without ever knowing? This week, we're exploring the invisible ways we keep each other company, the little pieces of ourselves we leave behind, and how even the smallest presence can mean more than we'll ever know. Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

The Hobby With No Future

2 min

Permission to have an interest that remains an interest, without turning enjoyment into a business or a bigger plan.

Nothing to Show for It

13 min

What did you do today? If the honest answer is "not much," you're not alone. The list hasn't moved since 8 a.m. Meanwhile someone online has journaled, cold-plunged and started a small business before breakfast. Good for them. This week is about the work that never makes the list: getting out of bed on the hard days, keeping your voice steady, not sending the text. Why we erase it, and why it might be the most important thing you did all day. I'm Chad Lawson and let's Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Why We Sit in the Driveway

12 min

Ever sit in the driveway for a minute before going inside?Sometimes we’re not avoiding home. We’re trying to figure out what version of ourselves is about to walk through the door.This week, we’re talking about what we carry home, what we hand to the people we love, and why “How was your day?” is rarely as simple as it sounds.I'm Chad Lawson and let's Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Wide Awake at 2 A.M.

16 min

At two in the morning, even the smallest worry can suddenly need its own microphone.This week, we look at why the things we carry get louder when everything else gets quiet, what happens when there’s nothing left to distract us, and why some feelings may need to be held for a while before they can be solved.Listen in as we Calm it Down. 

The Day After: When the Mental Health Posts Move On

13 min

Last weekend, everyone was talking about mental health. The posts, the green ribbons, the reminders to check in. Now the feed has moved on. But whatever you were carrying is still here.This episode is for the days after, when the conversation gets quiet and you're still right in the middle of it. Come join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Letting Go of the Guilt of Doing Nothing

12 min

Have you ever finally sat down, only to immediately think of six things you should probably be doing instead? The laundry suddenly looks urgent. That email feels strangely important. Even the dishwasher starts making a compelling argument. For a lot of us, rest isn’t really rest. It’s something we allow ourselves once everything else is finished. Which, of course, means almost never. This week, we’re looking at why doing nothing can make us so uncomfortable, where that little voice saying “you should be productive” comes from, and what might happen if rest didn’t need to be earned at all. I’m Chad Lawson and let’s Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

The Puzzle of Self-Identity (Encore Episode)

14 min

Ever feel like you’re just going through the motions, unsure of who you really are beneath the labels and expectations?In this episode, we’ll explore how to reclaim the missing pieces of your identity, let go of what doesn’t fit, and rediscover what truly makes you you.Join me as we Calm It Down in 3…2…1.

The Art of Being Wrong (Encore Episode)

13 min

Have you ever argued over something completely absolutely trivial, like the “correct” way to load a dishwasher, as if everything depended on it?We get oddly attached to being right. But sometimes, being wrong is where we can actually let go, embrace freedom, and sigh a bit of relief.I’m Chad Lawson and let’s Calm it Down in 3...2...1

The Puzzle of Grief (Encore Episode)

18 min

Grief. Even the word bears a heaviness like no other.We've all had a loss in some way or form. But perhaps there's a different way of looking at the word 'grief'.Because in order to grieve, you actually need something first. And that something may not be what you thought it would be. Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Someone Was Thinking of You

17 min

Someone thought about you today. You probably won’t ever know it.Maybe a song came on. Maybe they passed a place you used to go together. Maybe you just popped into their head for a second.We think about people all the time and almost never tell them. Let's find out how come. Join me as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

The Last Five Percent

15 min

You’re almost done with it. The email, the application, the project you’ve been staring at for weeks. There’s barely anything left to do, and somehow that tiny bit feels heavier than everything that came before it.Why do we sometimes stall right at the end?Join me as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

Borrowing Tomorrow

15 min

You’re sitting on the couch on a perfectly ordinary Sunday, but somehow your brain is already living on Tuesday. It’s in the meeting that hasn’t happened. Reading the result that hasn’t arrived. Rehearsing the conversation no one has started. We call it being prepared. But if Tuesday is going to ask something of you anyway, why are you letting it take Sunday too? Today, let’s figure out how to stop borrowing trouble from tomorrow and come back to the day we’re actually in. Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

The Shelf in the Closet

13 min

Raise your hand if you have a shelf, drawer, or folder where unfinished things quietly collect. It's okay...no one's looking :) Well, we do the SAME thing emotionally, setting aside conversations, decisions, and old hopes without ever releasing them. Sure, they may be out of sight, but are they really out of mind?Let's dive in. Join me as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

Running Late

14 min

You had plenty of time, and you still moved through the morning like the building was on fire. You are up and tidying before the credits finish, and you call it being busy.But what if the speed was never about the schedule, and slowing down would make you notice something you have been outrunning?Join me as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

The Almosts

13 min

You passed the exit again. The road toward the city you almost moved to, the job you almost took, the person you almost stayed with.It is strange how clearly you can picture that other life, and how much better lit it always seems. So why do the lives we never lived feel so perfect?Join me as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

The Empty Chair

12 min

Sometimes it only takes one text message to change an entire evening. Plans get cancelled. The calendar shifts. And somehow, the empty chair across the table begins telling a story about your worth that was never true to begin with. This week, we explore the quiet difference between being alone... and believing you've been left behind. Listen in as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

The Second Draft

13 min

Have you ever replayed a conversation from years ago and suddenly known exactly what you should have said? Maybe you're not really trying to rewrite the conversation. Maybe you're trying to make peace with the person you were when you had it. Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

The Weight of Being the Reliable One

14 min

You're the one everyone counts on. The one who remembers, follows through, and quietly carries more than anyone realizes. But what happens when being dependable becomes the only way you know how to be?This episode is about the hidden weight of always being the reliable one, and what it might look like to finally let someone carry something with you.Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Bad at Receiving

12 min

Someone compliments you, and before they’ve even finished, you’re already brushing it aside. Someone offers to help, and even though you’re overwhelmed, you say, “I’ve got it.”You know how to give kindness. You just don’t always know how to receive it.In this episode, we’ll explore why being cared for can feel strangely vulnerable, and why letting someone show up for you may be one of the kindest things you can offer them in return.Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

When Help Isn't Helpful (From the Archive)

16 min

This week's episode comes from the Calm it Down archives. It's one of those conversations whose message feels just as relevant today as when it first aired.Have you ever tried to fix someone's problem, only to realize they weren't looking for a solution?We all want to help the people we love. But sometimes the support we offer isn't what they need most.In this episode, we'll explore the difference between fixing and simply being present, and how to support others without taking over.Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2..1.

You're Allowed to Choose Wrong

2 min

A start to the week about freeing yourself to decide without the guarantee that it'll turn out perfectly.

The Long Game

7 min

Have you ever looked at your life and wondered why, after all the effort, nothing seems different? You keep showing up, doing the things you're supposed to do, waiting for some sign that it's working. But what if the most important changes don't arrive with a big moment? What if they're happening quietly, somewhere just outside your view? This week, we're talking about patience, progress, and the strange way growth likes to hide. Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

The Things That Hold You

7 min

What do you reach for when everything else feels uncertain? Not the big things. The small things. The familiar coffee mug, the same road home, a favorite song, a familiar voice. The things we return to without even thinking.  Maybe there's a reason for that. Maybe the smallest things in our lives are holding more than we realize.  Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Tender

7 min

You've learned to keep it together. To be the strong one. The steady one. The one who doesn't let things get to them. So you build walls. You thicken your skin. You tell yourself not to care quite so much. Because caring can hurt. Little by little, protecting yourself starts to feel like strength. But what if strength was never about hardening? What if the bravest thing you can do is stay soft in a world that keeps asking you to close?Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

The Company You Keep

6 min

Your phone is always there. Someone is always one click away. There’s always noise, distraction, or something to scroll. But then you turn it all off. And suddenly it’s just… you. No notifications. No escape. No background noise to hide in. And that silence can feel surprisingly uncomfortable.Why is it so hard to simply be alone with ourselves? And what if being alone isn’t the same thing as being lonely? Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

When the Plan Falls Apart

7 min

What happens when life doesn’t go according to plan? In this episode, we explore the grief, confusion, and unexpected freedom that can come when the future you imagined suddenly changes. Join me as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

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