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Frederick Van Riper

Dads Interrupted

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What does it mean to be a good man—and a present dad—in a world that never taught you how? Dads Interrupted is a podcast about fatherhood, masculinity, and the journey to becoming the man your family actually needs. Hosted by men’s coach and dad of 12+ years Fred Van Riper, Dads Interrupted dives deep into the conversations men aren’t having—but desperately need. We explore what it means to lead with purpose, break free from outdated roles, and build the kind of relationships that change everything—at home, at work, and in your own head. You’ll hear honest, real-world stories from men navigating fatherhood, marriage, emotional growth, and the myths that hold us back. As a Certified Fair Play Facilitator, Fred offers tools for shared responsibility, emotional leadership, and creating a home that works for everyone. This isn’t about losing power—it’s about gaining something far greater: Respect. Intimacy. Legacy. If you’re ready to break the cycle and build something better—this podcast is your starting point. Support the show here so we can keep bringing you powerful conversations: https://dads-interrupted.captivate.fm/ Visit https://www.seatatthetablecoaching.com/ for more tools and coaching resources.

Newest episodes

The Moment That Redefined Fatherhood with Jeff Hittner

46 min

When Jeff Hittner learned he couldn’t become a biological father, it shattered his definition of success — and ultimately transformed it. In this episode of Dads Interrupted, Jeff shares how grief, therapy, and courage helped him redefine what fatherhood really means. Together, we explore the tension between career and family, why asking for help is a leadership superpower, and how healing yourself is the first step to being the dad you want to be. Topics: Redefining fatherhood through griefThe balance between ambition and presenceEmotional courage and asking for helpThe messy middle of modern fatherhoodWhy healing yourself changes everything Takeaway: Jeff reminds us that ambition and fatherhood don’t have to compete... but only when we lead from alignment, not ego. Learn more: Ambitious Dads — About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate fluff. No outdated "authority" models. Just real conversations about the invisible forces that shape how we show up—and practical tools to transform them. My approach combines unconventional methods with proven frameworks because breakthrough moments happen when we bypass the analytical mind and access our authentic leadership wisdom. Think leadership archaeology, emotional weather systems, and connection as a competitive advantage. Ready to go deeper? The Connection Blueprint is my flagship 3-week leadersh...

From Aerospace to Alignment with Alex Egeler

47 min

When aerospace engineer turned executive Alex Egeler stepped away from his high-powered career, he expected freedom. What he didn’t expect was the identity crisis that followed. In this episode of Dads Interrupted, Alex shares how becoming a dad “interrupted” his career in the best possible way—and why letting go of outdated ideas of success helped him find purpose, presence, and a career that truly fits his life. Topics include: The leap from aerospace executive to lead dad and coachWhy success isn’t about hours worked, but energy and impactHow empathy became Alex’s greatest leadership (and parenting) superpowerThe myth of working parents being “less valuable”Practical steps for finding work that aligns with family lifeA simple daily practice to rebalance work, parenting, and self Takeaway: Alex reminds us that being “interrupted” isn’t a setback—it’s an invitation to realign with what matters most. Need career coaching? ↓ Connect with Alex: empathicegg.com Alex's Custom Career Clarity GPT: Career Clarity GPT Find Alex on LinkedIn About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate fluff. No outdated "authority" models. Just real conversations about the invisible forces that shape how we show up—and practical tools to transform them. My approach combines unconventional methods with proven frameworks because breakthrough moments happen when we bypass...

Raising Resilient Sons in a World That Undermines Them with Jeff Nelligan

36 min

How do you raise confident, resilient kids when the world feels stacked against them? Jeff Nelligan, a father of three and author of Four Lessons from My Three Sons, joins the show to break down how everyday dads can build ambition, emotional strength, and personal conduct into the DNA of their kids — no yelling, no lectures, just strategy and presence. In this episode, Jeff shares his story: from Capitol Hill to the bleachers with his boys, from military discipline to emotional safety. We also get personal about how generational resilience, Māori heritage, and structured rituals shaped how he raised three sons who went on to thrive at West Point, Williams College, and the Naval Academy. Topics include: Why culture will parent your kids if you don’tHow to raise emotionally tough sons without shutting them downThe underrated power of “bleacher time” and nightly walksBuilding lifelong trust through small daily actionsWhy resilience in parenting starts with personal resilience Takeaway: You don’t need to be perfect. You need to be present, intentional, and unafraid to lead. Fatherhood is a team sport — start playing like it. 📚 Connect with Jeff: 📖 NelliganBooks.com 📬 Jeff@ResilientSons.com 📘 Four Lessons from My Three Sons - Get the Book Now 🗞 Featured in: USA Today, NPR, Fatherly, Parents Magazine About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate...

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The Moment That Redefined Fatherhood with Jeff Hittner

46 min

When Jeff Hittner learned he couldn’t become a biological father, it shattered his definition of success — and ultimately transformed it. In this episode of Dads Interrupted, Jeff shares how grief, therapy, and courage helped him redefine what fatherhood really means. Together, we explore the tension between career and family, why asking for help is a leadership superpower, and how healing yourself is the first step to being the dad you want to be. Topics: Redefining fatherhood through griefThe balance between ambition and presenceEmotional courage and asking for helpThe messy middle of modern fatherhoodWhy healing yourself changes everything Takeaway: Jeff reminds us that ambition and fatherhood don’t have to compete... but only when we lead from alignment, not ego. Learn more: Ambitious Dads — About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate fluff. No outdated "authority" models. Just real conversations about the invisible forces that shape how we show up—and practical tools to transform them. My approach combines unconventional methods with proven frameworks because breakthrough moments happen when we bypass the analytical mind and access our authentic leadership wisdom. Think leadership archaeology, emotional weather systems, and connection as a competitive advantage. Ready to go deeper? The Connection Blueprint is my flagship 3-week leadersh...

From Aerospace to Alignment with Alex Egeler

47 min

When aerospace engineer turned executive Alex Egeler stepped away from his high-powered career, he expected freedom. What he didn’t expect was the identity crisis that followed. In this episode of Dads Interrupted, Alex shares how becoming a dad “interrupted” his career in the best possible way—and why letting go of outdated ideas of success helped him find purpose, presence, and a career that truly fits his life. Topics include: The leap from aerospace executive to lead dad and coachWhy success isn’t about hours worked, but energy and impactHow empathy became Alex’s greatest leadership (and parenting) superpowerThe myth of working parents being “less valuable”Practical steps for finding work that aligns with family lifeA simple daily practice to rebalance work, parenting, and self Takeaway: Alex reminds us that being “interrupted” isn’t a setback—it’s an invitation to realign with what matters most. Need career coaching? ↓ Connect with Alex: empathicegg.com Alex's Custom Career Clarity GPT: Career Clarity GPT Find Alex on LinkedIn About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate fluff. No outdated "authority" models. Just real conversations about the invisible forces that shape how we show up—and practical tools to transform them. My approach combines unconventional methods with proven frameworks because breakthrough moments happen when we bypass...

Raising Resilient Sons in a World That Undermines Them with Jeff Nelligan

36 min

How do you raise confident, resilient kids when the world feels stacked against them? Jeff Nelligan, a father of three and author of Four Lessons from My Three Sons, joins the show to break down how everyday dads can build ambition, emotional strength, and personal conduct into the DNA of their kids — no yelling, no lectures, just strategy and presence. In this episode, Jeff shares his story: from Capitol Hill to the bleachers with his boys, from military discipline to emotional safety. We also get personal about how generational resilience, Māori heritage, and structured rituals shaped how he raised three sons who went on to thrive at West Point, Williams College, and the Naval Academy. Topics include: Why culture will parent your kids if you don’tHow to raise emotionally tough sons without shutting them downThe underrated power of “bleacher time” and nightly walksBuilding lifelong trust through small daily actionsWhy resilience in parenting starts with personal resilience Takeaway: You don’t need to be perfect. You need to be present, intentional, and unafraid to lead. Fatherhood is a team sport — start playing like it. 📚 Connect with Jeff: 📖 NelliganBooks.com 📬 Jeff@ResilientSons.com 📘 Four Lessons from My Three Sons - Get the Book Now 🗞 Featured in: USA Today, NPR, Fatherly, Parents Magazine About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate...

Why I Quit Being the Breadwinner (And My Marriage Got Better) with Brian Page

43 min

What if running your home like a business could bring more love, peace, and partnership into your marriage? In this powerhouse conversation, certified Fair Play© facilitator and founder of Modern Husbands, Brian Page, shares the systems, mindset shifts, and real-life hacks that transformed his marriage from survival mode to thriving teamwork. We talk about ditching outdated gender roles, redefining what it means to provide, and how to stop micromanaging each other into burnout. With humor, depth, and practical tools, Brian pulls back the curtain on what it actually takes to build a home life that supports your dreams — not drains them. Topics include: Why “helping” at home isn’t the same as taking ownershipThe Fair Play© system and how it eliminates resentmentDitching gendered tasks: how to think like a team, not a stereotypeA father’s money story — and how it shaped a new legacyReal hacks for managing domestic labor (yes, there's a spreadsheet involved) Takeaway: You don’t have to choose between being a strong provider and an engaged partner. You can be both — especially when you install the right systems, stop chasing approval, and start building the life you and your partner actually want. About Brian Page Brian Page is the founder of Modern Husbands and a nationally recognized personal finance educator, Fair Play facilitator, and advocate for modern marriage systems. With over 15 years of experience teaching economics and personal finance — and a slew of honors including being named a CNN Money Hero and a Milken Foundation award recipient — Brian blends practical expertise with lived experience. He’s Fair Play Certified®, holds a Master’s in Education, and has served as a consultant to institutions like the Wharton School, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, and Next Gen Personal Finance. Married since 2002, Brian and his wife — an executive in the financial sector — have three kids and have traded roles as breadwinner and caregiver. His work helps couples...

Why Great Couples Still Break Up (and How to Make Sure You Don’t) with Nick Brancato

54 min

When did your relationship stop feeling like a team effort? In this power-packed episode, Frederick sits down with Nick Brancato—relationship strategist, personal development coach, and author of Prioritize Us—to unpack why so many couples fall into “priority drift,” and how to realign before it’s too late. Nick shares the simple but powerful Total Difference Score (TDS) test, a practical framework to help couples measure their alignment, spot silent tension before it explodes, and build back daily connection. This conversation is honest, heartfelt, and full of actionable tools for anyone ready to stop coasting and start co-creating in their relationship. Topics include: What “priority drift” is—and why even loving couples fall into itThe Total Difference Score (TDS) and how to use it to measure alignmentWhy commitment is a daily decision, not a one-time promiseSimple rituals that build trust, intimacy, and shared directionHow to have the right conversations before resentment sets in Takeaway: If you don’t check in with your partner, you risk checking out of your relationship. Alignment doesn’t happen by accident—it happens by design. NICK BRANCATO is a seasoned personal development coach and educator with over 25 years of experience helping individuals and couples connect, communicate, and thrive. With a master’s degree in education and a background as a Microsoft systems engineer, Nick blends practical tools with data-driven frameworks to guide clients through life’s challenges, including career shifts, financial pressures, and personal growth. Nick’s holistic process incorporates meditation, guided visualization, and hypnotherapy, emphasizing both emotional insight and actionable steps. By fostering deeper connections and mental clarity, Nick empowers couples to transform tension into trust and misalignment into mutual success, creating lasting, meaningful change in their relationships. Get a digital copy of Nick’s book Prioritize Us FREE at nickbrancato.com Find...

The Strongest Thing a Man Can Do Is Grieve Out Loud with Jason Tuttle

58 min

What does it mean to keep showing up when life gives you the unimaginable? In this moving episode, Jason Tuttle shares the story of his son Zachary—who lived with a rare condition and left an unforgettable mark on everyone he met. Jason opens up about the realities of raising a child with special needs, the grief of losing him, and the ongoing journey of turning pain into purpose. From walking away from his job to be present with his son… to creating a coloring book that honors families navigating loss… to challenging the myth that men must always appear “strong”—Jason’s story is a masterclass in love, legacy, and vulnerability. If you’ve ever struggled with what it means to provide, to process grief, or to parent through heartbreak—this one will hit home. Topics include: Navigating fatherhood and special needs parentingGrief, anger, and the emotional layers beneath lossRedefining what it means to be a “provider”Creating legacy through storytelling and creativityBreaking male stereotypes around strength and vulnerability Takeaway: You don’t have to carry it all in silence. Real strength isn’t about pretending you're fine—it’s about finding the courage to feel, to share, and to love again anyway. Connect with Jason: Letters To Zachary -- https://letterstozachary.com/ Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/letterstozachary2022/ Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/134438966423994 LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason-tuttle-4264112a7/ TikTok -- https://www.tiktok.com/@letterstozachary2022 Resources Letters to Zachary Coloring Book -- https://amzn.to/4iijmvU About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather...

Strong. Silent. Stuck? The BS That’s Holding Men Back with Jeremy Roadruck

1 hr 1 min

What happens when a former factory worker, martial artist, and hypnotherapist turns his focus to helping men master their emotions, show up as better partners and dads, and stop suffering in silence? This conversation with Jeremy Roadruck is a powerful blend of personal story, practical insight, and radical redefinition of what it means to be strong. Topics include: The belief systems that shape men’s reality (and how to rewrite them)Emotional intelligence and the power of self-awarenessCommunication strategies for marriage, parenting, and self-leadershipHow to turn frustration into fascinationBreaking the cycle of shame, silence, and isolation in men’s livesShifting from “being right” to “getting results” in relationships Takeaway: If you're tired of defaulting to anger, shutting down, or feeling like you have to fix everything—this episode offers a new path. Jeremy shows us how strength, presence, and leadership start on the inside. It’s not about being harder—it's about being wiser. More about Jeremy: Jeremy Roadruck is a men’s mentor, relationship strategist, and multi-time best-selling author, known for his no-nonsense, results-driven, yet playful approach to helping men fix their marriages, reconnect with their kids, and lead with confidence. A husband, father, international champion, and 6th-degree Kung Fu Master, Jeremy is also a hypnotherapist, neuro-strategist, former soldier, and former factory worker—so he knows what it means to work hard and play smart. He’s helped high-performing dads master the three relationships that matter most—life, love, and business—in weeks instead of years. His newest book, Lead Like a King: The Proven Roadmap to a Stronger Marriage, Deeper Connections, and Unstoppable Leadership, delivers a proven system to turn respect, admiration, and connection into a natural way of life. Through his book, companion self-study course, and consulting, Jeremy shows men how to stop tolerating “good enough” and start leading with presence, pla...

Smashing the Patriarchy: Leading with Self-Awareness and Emotional Intelligence with Jeremy Stockdale

55 min

In this episode of Dad's Interrupted, we dive into a thought-provoking conversation with leadership coach Jeremy, known for his bold stance on smashing the patriarchy and rethinking traditional leadership paradigms. Jeremy opens up about his journey from corporate leadership to embracing a more inclusive, values-driven approach to both his work and personal life—centered on emotional intelligence and challenging restrictive masculinity. Throughout the episode, we explore: Smashing the Patriarchy: Jeremy reflects on how his daughter’s t-shirt with the phrase "On Wednesdays We Smash the Patriarchy" sparked a personal transformation. This became a rallying cry for his own evolution from patriarchal leadership to more empathetic, balanced leadership both at home and at work.The pivotal role of self-awareness in leadership—Jeremy shares how understanding your emotions and behaviors can create stronger connections and help you show up more intentionally as a leader in all areas of life.The importance of defining how you want people to feel in your presence, whether they’re colleagues, employees, or family members. Jeremy explains how he shifted his focus from outcomes to the impact of his presence on those around him.Insights from the Positive Intelligence framework, which helps individuals identify and manage their inner saboteurs—like impatience or restlessness—to show up as the leader they truly want to be.Practical advice for parents and leaders on how to visualize success in difficult moments—such as managing stressful parenting moments or tough meetings—and move beyond knee-jerk reactions to become the role models they aspire to be.The power of observing yourself—whether in leadership or parenting—and asking: "Is this how I want to show up?" It’s about understanding the bigger picture and aligning your actions with your core values. Jeremy’s journey isn’t just about personal growth; it’s about challenging outdated norms and creating a world where leadership isn’t de...

Presence, Fatherhood, and the Power of Casual Kindness with Brian Anderson

43 min

In this episode, we sit down with Brian Anderson, founder of Fathering Together and Director of Foundation Relations at i.c. stars, to explore the deeper meaning of presence—in fatherhood, relationships, and everyday life. We talk about what it really means to be present, not just physically and mentally, but spiritually as well. Brian shares insights from his work coaching dads, helping them build deeper connections with their children and loved ones. We discuss: The role of presence in parenting and how to truly see your kidsWhy casual kindness can change lives in ways we don’t always realizeHow spirituality—however you define it—shapes our relationshipsThe importance of recognizing life’s small moments and building meaningful connectionsPractical ways to engage with your kids, from gratitude at the dinner table to shared kitchen adventures This episode is packed with wisdom, real talk, and actionable insights for anyone looking to deepen their relationships and show up fully for the people who matter most. About Brian: Brian Anderson works at i.c.stars as the Director of Foundation Relations. His primary goal is to help the rest of us understand the brilliant tech endeavors of their interns especially if we don’t talk tech very well. Outside of i.c.stars, he’s a committed husband, father, and gender equity advocate balancing his time between building Lego structures and kitchen adventures with his two daughters. Find Brian on: Linkedin Email Brian at: brian@fatheringtogether.org For info on i.c. stars: https://www.icstars.org/ For info on Fathering Together: https://fatheringtogether.org/ About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to archit...

Becoming a Lead Dad with Paul Sullivan

51 min

In this episode, we sit down with Paul Sullivan, accomplished journalist, author, and founder of The Company of Dads, the first platform dedicated to supporting lead dads. Paul shares his journey from writing for esteemed publications like The New York Times and Golf Magazine to creating a community that redefines modern fatherhood. We dive into: Paul's inspiring transition from a thriving journalism career to becoming the "lead dad" in his family.What it means to be a lead dad and how it differs from traditional parenting roles.The pressures and expectations dads face today, and why many feel isolated or underprepared for the role.The joy of uninterrupted moments with family and how to create them in a busy life.How The Company of Dads is fostering connection, support, and advocacy for fathers who take the lead at home. Paul's personal stories, wisdom, and practical advice offer a fresh perspective on the evolving role of dads in the family. Whether you're a lead dad, working parent, or someone striving for balance, this conversation is packed with insights to inspire and empower. What You’ll Learn: Why focusing on one thing at a time can bring unparalleled joy to parenting.The importance of vulnerability and authentic conversations in redefining fatherhood.How embracing the lead dad role can enhance your family life and support your partner's career. About Our Guest: Paul Sullivan is a journalist with over 25 years of experience, having written for publications like The New York Times, Money, Conde Nast Portfolio, The International Herald Tribune, Barron’s, The Boston Globe, and Food & Wine. From 2000 to 2006, he was a reporter, editor and columnist at the Financial Times. He got his start as a reporter at Bloomberg and Institutional Investor. He’s the author of two books, Clutch: Why Some People Excel Under Pressure and Others Don’t and The Thin Green Line: The Money Secrets of the Super Wealthy. As the founder of The Company of Dads, Paul is on a mission to cre...

Alignment and Growth with Kiowa Saunders

50 min

Kiowa Saunders didn't have an easy childhood growing up. His mom and dad divorced when he was 9 months old. He saw his dad once or twice a year until age 18. He tells us that it's clear looking back that his parents didn't try very hard to be parents. But he did have a mentor in Oakland, CA who raised him. Big Jim was a father figure for Ki. Ki's story is a story of triumph through adversity. Today, Ki is the founder and owner of GROW LLC, husband, and father of two. Ki's main goals, in his words, are to "be the best husband I can be, to be the best father I can be, and to make a shit ton of money." In this episode, we talk about how important it is to set goals, and get aligned with them, so that you know what direction you're headed. Ki talks about reverse engineering his 1000 day plan, and how he and his wife handle conflict. An entrepreneur since his teenage years selling candy and soda and weed out of his locker, Ki now helps businesses develop and commercialize food products, distribution networks, and sales opportunities. Today, we chat about taking the entrepreneurial spirit and applying it to your most important relationships. Some gold hidden within if you dare to listen... All this and more... This... is Dads Interrupted. To check out what Kiowa's up to: Website: Grow LLC Instagram: Kiowa Saunders About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living....

Breaking the Silence: Men's Mental Health & Fatherhood with John Sendim

54 min

John Sendim is a registered psychotherapist and the Founder & Director of Uplift Therapy for Men practicing in Toronto, Ontario. He is also a husband and a father of his 2-year old daughter. In this episode, John shares the value he sees in joining a men's group to find a sense of community. John lets us in on what Uplift Therapy for Men is all about, shares some common themes he sees men struggle with, and offers insight into using anger as data. He admits to his own biggest struggle . . . and he shares the story of his own father's passing and how he became the caregiver after his dad suffered a stroke. All this and more... This... is Dads Interrupted. To check out what John's up to: Website: Uplift Therapy for Men LinkedIn: John Sendim About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate fluff. No outdated "authority" models. Just real conversations about the invisible forces that shape how we show up—and practical tools to transform them. My approach combines unconventional methods with proven frameworks because breakthrough moments happen when we bypass the analytical mind and access our authentic leadership wisdom. Think leadership archaeology, emotional weather systems, and connection as a competitive advantage. Ready to go deeper? The Connection Blueprint is my flagship 3-week leadership development experience launching September 2025. This li...

Selling To Yourself with Adam Feck

1 hr 3 min

Adam Feck is the founder of Forward 46, a fractional sales management company and the father of 3 girls. Prior to Forward 46, Adam has worked in a variety of roles - from orthopedic operating rooms to volunteering in the fire and EMS service to ski patroller to owning an orthopedic medical device distributorship to growing a SaaS startup - it seems like there isn't much Adam hasn't done or seen. And yet, Adam is humble, still seeking growth and opportunities to learn and share his insights along the way. That's exactly what he has come on Dads Interrupted to do. Today, Adam discusses what he's learned after 25 years of marriage and raising 3 daughters, ages 22, 19, and 16, with his wife Julie. We cover feedback, negative self-talk, sales performance, communication... And he gives away his biggest secret to a successful marriage. All this and more... This... is Dads Interrupted. To check out what Adam's up to: Website: Forward 46 LinkedIn: Adam Feck Book mention: The Four Agreements Happiness Engineering by Dr. Ali Binazir article - "What are the chances of being born?" | "What are the odds?" infographic About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate fluff. No outdated "authority" models. Just real conversations about the invisible forces that shape how we show up—and practical tools to transform them. My approach combines unconventional methods...

Adversity, Sacrifice and Serving Your Community with Nick Brown

46 min

Owner and founder of Black Seahorse Kustoms out of Lincoln, Nebraska, Nick Brown is a dad on a mission to make a positive impact and be the best version of himself. His latest efforts to do just that include feeding the homeless on Fridays at the city mission, and back in April when we recorded this conversation, Nick was about to embark on a 12-mile backpack hike to raise awareness for the Lincoln Public Schools Extra Mile Walk. (To learn more about the Extra Mile walk, click here. To donate to the Food Bank of Lincoln, click here) Nick and I talk about some masculinity myths that he actively pushes back against and some communication challenges a lot of men face. He fills us in on the challenging but rewarding experience of being a foster dad. And this episode just so happens to include one of my favorite stories from this season . . . Nick shares a story from his high school days where he felt his worth and value being dismissed, and what he did instead to create his own value. It's a story of integrity and of turning a negative event into a positive experience. Of how personal sacrifice can show others just how much you value them. This conversation highlights Nick while he's busy trying to highlight everyone else around him. All this and more... This... is Dads Interrupted. To check out what Nick's up to: Instagram - Personal Instagram - Black Seahorse Kustoms To buy some of Nick's artwork: Etsy Website: Black Seahorse Kustoms About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everyth...

Resilience and Redemption with Boyd Clark

1 hr 0 min

Boyd is a former sergeant in the U.S. Marine Corps and dad of 3 girls. He openly discusses his own struggles as a dad, while making it abundantly clear that being a dad is the greatest role he's played . . . and that's saying A LOT. He drops some serious insights on the need for the right mindset around mistakes. Boyd shares the complicated nature of his relationship with his own father, and how he was able to learn what NOT to do as a father from him. This conversation is both heart-wrenching and heartwarming. All this and more... This... is Dads Interrupted. About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate fluff. No outdated "authority" models. Just real conversations about the invisible forces that shape how we show up—and practical tools to transform them. My approach combines unconventional methods with proven frameworks because breakthrough moments happen when we bypass the analytical mind and access our authentic leadership wisdom. Think leadership archaeology, emotional weather systems, and connection as a competitive advantage. Ready to go deeper? The Connection Blueprint is my flagship 3-week leadership development experience launching September 2025. This live "course" is designed for leaders who see connection skills as leadership development, not crisis management. Reserve your spot here. Want immediate insight? Book a free Strategy...

Storytelling & the Power of Community with Dr. Jason Frishman

1 hr 8 min

Dr. Jason Frishman's dad didn't say the words "I love you" often. But he did write him a magical story. Perhaps that's why Jason is a narrative therapist and men's coach today. He openly acknowledges that although he is a men's coach and therapist, he still has his own work to do. Jason tells us his kids are his best teachers and shares how they remind him how important that is. He talks about the importance of accountability, of being on the path to being the best father he can be, and of including adventure, fun and playfulness into your fatherhood journey. Jason shares his unique spin on his core values self-assessment to drive actionable core behaviors. Throughout the conversation, you'll hear insights and tips that emphasize the power of storytelling - how telling our stories in community can heal us from the inside out. And perhaps to consider that you don't just have a story to tell, but a story to craft. The words we use matter, and this conversation doesn't disappoint! All this and more... This... is Dads Interrupted. To connect with Jason, check out: Dr. Jason Frishman, Father. Men's Coach. Psychologist. LinkedIn Jason's website: Connected Fathers About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate fluff. No outdated "authority" models. Just real conversations about the invisible forces that shape how we show up—and practical tools to tra...

Anger, Insecurity & Awareness with Darren Kanthal

58 min

Self-described quasi stepdad Darren Kanthal bravely talks about his struggle with anger and the importance of awareness and repair. Darren is a leadership and career coach and he is a dad to two kids with his girlfriend Rachel. Darren candidly speaks about the challenges of feeling confident as a stepdad and being able to understand and name his emotions. As boys, we are often told to diminish our emotions other than anger, so Darren has "cheat sheets" that help him and his clients identify their primary and secondary emotions. Darren's willingness to open up and share vulnerably with us here inspired me to dive deeper into my own experiences and emotions ... something that is uncomfortable but so worth it. I hope this episode helps you unlock some things that help you in your own life and relationships. All this and more... This... is Dads Interrupted. To connect with Darren, hire him for leadership and career coaching, or see more about the work he is doing, check out: Darren Kanthal, Executive & Leadership Coach LinkedIn His website: The Kanthal Group About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate fluff. No outdated "authority" models. Just real conversations about the invisible forces that shape how we show up—and practical tools to transform them. My approach combines unconventional methods with proven frameworks because breakthrough mome...

Anti-Racism & Raising the BAR with Kyle Cronk

1 hr 8 min

It had been over 6 months and Kyle's son Brody wouldn't talk to him ... wouldn't return his texts. Kyle is a CEO at the YMCA in Seattle and a leading executive leadership coach who, in how own words, is "supposed to be this person that knows how to build relationships and I can't ... do it with my own son." He openly discusses the pain he felt and shares his consistent efforts despite not receiving the outcome he wanted: a connection with his son that he once had. Kyle shares his visionary leadership framework of raising the B.A.R. - Belonging, Achievement, Relationships. We talk about Kyle's unique living situation with his ex-wife so that he could remain a connected dad. We discuss what antiracism is and Kyle's gives us his top actionable tips and reveals how everyone can apply Kyle's B.A.R. framework at their companies and in their communities. All this and more... This... is Dads Interrupted. To connect with Kyle, hire him for leadership training, or see more about the work he is doing, check out: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kylecronk/ About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're leading teams, building businesses, or navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood, everything starts with how you lead yourself. This podcast explores the intersection of leadership, connection, and authentic living. No corporate fluff. No outdated "authority" models. Just real conversations about the invisible forces that shape how we show up—and practical tools to transform them. My approach combines unconventional methods with proven frameworks because breakthrough moments happen when w...

Chaos, Cults and the Importance of Adaptability with Wade Hetrick

1 hr 0 min

Surprise! It's a boy . . . hold on, wait, nope . . . actually, it's a girl! Wade Hetrick is a team building and leadership expert with years of service in the U.S. Air Force and has worked with some of the most elite teams in the Department of Defense. He has recruited, built, and led teams of 5 to 500 people in combat and training operations and has over 3,500 flight hours, mostly in the C-17. But parenting has proven a formidable "opponent" for Wade, as he quickly realized there is no parenting playbook. So, he's developing his own with his wife, Katie. Good thing Wade knows a thing or two about the power of adaptability. He also leans heavily on his military leadership experience while acknowledging that it is strength for men to seek outside help and counseling. In this episode, Wade shares about his relationship with his own father and grandfather, and he talks openly about fathering his son Harvey, who is autistic. And he surprises us when he shares his surprise that he and Katie are, in fact, having a girl, after first being told by the doctors it's a boy. We discuss the advantages of journaling, and Wade drops some nuggets of wisdom about how important therapy is not only for when some more serious mental health issues arise, but also as a preventative measure. Finally, Wade shares a story about the time he and Katie almost accidentally joined a cult! All this and more... This... is Dads Interrupted. To connect with Wade, check out: Wade Hetrick, Personal Coach, Speaker, Leader, Aviator, Consultant LinkedIn | Instagram About the Host: Hi, I'm Fred Van Riper—husband, father, former construction professional, and creator of the Connection Architecture Process. I help growth-oriented leaders become more clear, confident, and connected through transformational leadership development. I work with leaders who are successful on paper but know there's another level available—leaders who want to architect genuine connection rather than hope for it. Whether you're...

Dads Interrupted Season 1 Trailer

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Dads Interrupted aims to inspire men and dads to continue having vulnerable conversations with each other so we can all learn and grow together. It is here to provide a safe space for men and dads to listen, feel a sense of community, not feel so alone, and to chime in with their own stories in the comments and reviews. If you like what you hear, please share, like, review, and follow so you don't miss future episodes. If there is a topic you'd like covered, please let us know!

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