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Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Dear Shandy

A Relationships , Society & Culture and TV & Film podcast

#5 in Relationships · 🇨🇦 #10 in Relationships · 🇺🇸
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About the show

Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance. Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them—and they have the stories to prove it! Have a relationship quandary or Am-I-The-Asshole question? Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental advice in their fan-favorite Q&A episodes and Caller sessions. As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week. Email your questions to: dearshandy@gmail.com

Newest episodes

The Traitors New Blood: Episode 10 Recap & Review - Ep 509

33 min

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 10. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:12 - Episode 10 30:36 - Shandy’s Predictions Sharleen is wearing: - cardigan: https://bit.ly/4eE4Uz0 - skirt: https://bit.ly/4BYpDrj - belt: https://bit.ly/3WzCQ9P If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind S11: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 508

1 hr 20 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down the Season 11 REUNION, aka Episode 13! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.ulta.com or your nearest Ulta Beauty to grab Saje’s Peppermint Halo or Fortify Cough Suppressant Oil! - Go to https://uncommongoods.com/SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Go to https://brickhousenutrition.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:24 - The Reunion  3:16 - Sarah & John, Part 1 15:40 - Erika & Blake 30:43 - Wilnie & Wilson 36:04 - Jax & Stew 41:55 - Michaella & Rob 51:40 - Aneha & Cam 55:27 - Sarah & John, Part 2 1:15:25 - “Stop The Wedding” 1:17:43 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Traitors New Blood: Episode 9 Recap & Review - Ep 507

33 min

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 9. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:25 - Episode 9 26:50 - Shandy’s Predictions Sharleen is wearing: - vest: https://bit.ly/4zy5Nl6 - pants: https://bit.ly/4sNHjSi - belt: https://bit.ly/4A8nk2U (use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order) If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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The Traitors New Blood: Episode 10 Recap & Review - Ep 509

33 min

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 10. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:12 - Episode 10 30:36 - Shandy’s Predictions Sharleen is wearing: - cardigan: https://bit.ly/4eE4Uz0 - skirt: https://bit.ly/4BYpDrj - belt: https://bit.ly/3WzCQ9P If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind S11: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 508

1 hr 20 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down the Season 11 REUNION, aka Episode 13! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.ulta.com or your nearest Ulta Beauty to grab Saje’s Peppermint Halo or Fortify Cough Suppressant Oil! - Go to https://uncommongoods.com/SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Go to https://brickhousenutrition.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:24 - The Reunion  3:16 - Sarah & John, Part 1 15:40 - Erika & Blake 30:43 - Wilnie & Wilson 36:04 - Jax & Stew 41:55 - Michaella & Rob 51:40 - Aneha & Cam 55:27 - Sarah & John, Part 2 1:15:25 - “Stop The Wedding” 1:17:43 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Traitors New Blood: Episode 9 Recap & Review - Ep 507

33 min

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 9. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:25 - Episode 9 26:50 - Shandy’s Predictions Sharleen is wearing: - vest: https://bit.ly/4zy5Nl6 - pants: https://bit.ly/4sNHjSi - belt: https://bit.ly/4A8nk2U (use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order) If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind S11: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 506

1 hr 6 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand FINALE, aka Episode 12! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear! - Go to https://uncommongoods.com/SHANDY to get 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:40 - Episode 12 17:04 - Aneha & Cam Wedding 36:30 - Sarah & John Wedding 58:23 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:04:39 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Traitors New Blood: Episode 8 Recap & Review - Ep 505

44 min

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 8. Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:08 - Episode 8 28:54 - Round Table 42:08 - Shandy’s Predictions Sharleen is wearing: - sweater: https://bit.ly/4ieKBub If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind S11: Episodes 9-11 Recap & Review - Ep 504

1 hr 54 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 3, aka Episodes 9-11. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://AirDoctorPro.com and use code SHANDY for up to $300 off ANY AirDoctor plus a free 3-year warranty! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite bras, underwear and loungewear! - Go to https://jonesroadbeauty.com and use code SHANDY for a FREE full sized Mascara on your first purchase! - Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:45 - Episode 9 45:08 - Episode 10 1:29:47 - Episode 11 1:46:22 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:51:34 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Traitors New Blood: Episode 7 Recap & Review - Ep 503

41 min

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 7. Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:22 - Episode 7 37:54 - Shandy’s Predictions  If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind S11: Episodes 6-8 Recap & Review - Ep 502

1 hr 30 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 2, aka Episodes 6-8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://AquaTru.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your purifier! - Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:21 - Episode 6 34:04 - Episode 7 1:05:30 - Episode 8 1:27:30 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:28:45 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind Netherlands: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 501

1 hr 11 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the REUNION, aka Episode 10. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:24 - Reunion 1:03:20 - Best Dressed 1:04:07 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Traitors New Blood: Episode 6 Recap & Review - Ep 500

41 min

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 6. Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:37 - Episode 6 35:14 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind Netherlands: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 499

42 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand FINALE, aka Episode 9. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Referenced Reddit thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/comments/1wyewzw/mika_posts_her_perspective_on_jurriaans_comments/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:54 - Finale 10:25 - Yasemin & Miguel’s Wedding Day 25:02 - Mika & Jurriaan Wedding Day 39:39 - Shandy’s Predictions 40:09 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind S11: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 498

1 hr 49 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-5. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your night guard! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:42 - Episode 1 28:19 - Episode 2 45:12 - Episode 3 1:05:20 - Episode 4 1:27:05 - Episode 5 1:37:31 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:45:05 - Who We Would Go For Sharleen is wearing: - cardigan & pants: https://fabletics.com/SHANDY (sign up as a new VIP for 70-80% off) If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Traitors New Blood: Episode 5 Recap & Review - Ep 497

30 min

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 5. Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:56 - Episode 5 27:23 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind Netherlands: Episodes 6-8 Recap & Review - Ep 496

1 hr 27 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 2, aka Episodes 6-8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://AirDoctorPro.com and use code SHANDY for up to $300 off ANY AirDoctor plus a free 3-year warranty! - Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! - Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:50 - Episode 6 35:00 - Episode 7 1:04:30 - Episode 8 1:25:35 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:26:13 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind Netherlands: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 495

1 hr 22 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-5. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system! - Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:04 - Episode 1 17:11 - Episode 2 28:07 - Episode 3 41:27 - Episode 4 57:20 - Episode 5 1:18:24 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:20:29 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dear Shandy Turns 6! Anniversary Q&A Answering YOUR Questions! - Ep 494

1 hr 7 min

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 6 years old, and what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, Ruby, and everything in between! Thank you, Shandies, for 6 WHOLE YEARS of laughs, kinship and community. We absolutely adore you! Come join us in our living room to chat! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite bras and underwear at https://www.skims.com Previous Anniversary Q&As... 1-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/r_ZxevOVS9o?si=e00pKFmKXxXcN4GE 2-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/OyAa9zSvvvo?si=ZwnQzIo_hGQ9BUvC 3-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/a_qIhKlUj0k?si=li3AirGKtYteOJrS 4-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/WBusMzUEx4E?si=PH0q3omvLy1Qd0Tm 5-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/jHbE2wU3HPA Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:41 - How Has Ruby Changed Since You First Got Her? 3:47 - Would You Get A Second Dog? 4:22 - Did You Watch The Love Island Reunion? 8:14 - Do You Miss Recapping The Bachelor/ette? 8:47 - Will You Have More Hot Topic Experts On? 10:01 - At The Beginning, You Interviewed Friends—Would You Do This Again? 12:37 - What Are Your Favorite Kinds Of Questions To Answer? 13:40 - Will You Go Full Time? What’s Next? 16:55 - Can You Make A Living From Podcasting Or Does It Have To Be A Passion To Be Worth It? 23:51 - How Do You Split Business Responsibilities? 25:38 - Does Podcasting Feel Like A Job To You? 28:23 - What’s The Hardest Part Of Your Relationship At This Point In Life? 33:50 - What Are Your Home & Outside Pet Peeves For Each Other? 36:26 - What Other Controversies (Other Than Moon Landing Denial) Enrage Andy? 39:10 - When...

The Traitors New Blood: Episodes 3-4 Recap & Review - Ep 493

1 hr 2 min

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 3 & 4. Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear! - Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:50 - Episode 3 23:35 - Episode 4 59:22 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Q&A! Backing Out As Maid Of Honor & Is It OK To Flirt While Married? - Ep 492

1 hr 24 min

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're dating a guy but can't tell if the pit in your stomach is dread or butterflies... is it your anxiety or the infamous Ick? You regret agreeing to being your childhood friend's Maid Of Honor. Is it ever OK to back out of the role? You're a devoted daughter but your dreams extend beyond your duty. Between the crushing guilt and the desire to break free, which one wins? You're a mom of two young men and worry about their dating prospects—Shandy weighs in on your worries! Finally, you're married with kids but find yourself enjoying flirty banter with a co-worker. Is a workplace crush harmless fun or playing with fire? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://factormeals.com and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus one free breakfast item per box for one year! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:50 - Q1: Is It My Anxiety Or Am I Just Not That Into Him? 12:56 - Q2: I Regret Agreeing To Be My Friend’s Maid Of Honor—Can I Back Out? 38:36 - Q3: I’m Living The Life My Dad Wants For Me—How Do I Break Free? 52:47 - Q4: I’m Worried My Sons’ Girlfriends Aren’t Right For Them—Shandy’s Thoughts? 1:07:43 - Q5: I’m Married With Kids, But… Can I Still Flirt At Work? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machine...

The Traitors New Blood: Episodes 1-2 Recap & Review - Ep 491

43 min

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 1 & 2. Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://AquaTru.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your purifier! - Go to https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:06 - Episode 1 18:26 - Episode 2 39:53 - Who Shandy Has Their Eye On Sharleen is wearing: - sweater dress: https://bit.ly/3VENco7 (use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order) If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Dated Him For 6 Months... But We Never Met" - Ep 490

54 min

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by lovely caller Dani who has been dating a guy for 6 months. Except... she's never actually met him?? Was he never interested enough to progress things further, or was she too guarded? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Dani! 47:28 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Q&A! Confessing To Cheating A Decade Later & Crushing On Your BFF's Boyfriend - Ep 489

1 hr 20 min

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between devoted daughter-in-law and de facto therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on your best friend's dashing boyfriend? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:48 - Q1: My Coworker Always Cuts Me Off—How Do I Handle This? 11:30 - Q2: It Has Been 10 Years Since I Cheated—To Confess Or Not To Confess? 37:35 - Q3: I Have A Crush On My Best Friend’s Boyfriend—Help! 58:53 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Treats Me Like Her Therapist—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/pr...

Love Is Blind UK S3: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 488

48 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the Reunion, aka Episode 11. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:43 - Ciara & Ajay 10:33 - Cuba & Ryan 22:23 - Sophie & Taylor 26:20 - Francesca & Joseph 29:35 - Yasmin & Jordan 34:18 - Faye & Jack 44:14 - Reviewing Shandy’s Predictions  45:41 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind UK S3: FINALE - Episodes 9 & 10 Recap & Review - Ep 487

1 hr 6 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand Finale, aka Episodes 9 & 10. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:20 - Episode 9 29:53 - Episode 10 58:00 - Shandy’s Reunion Predictions 1:02:04 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind UK S3: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 486

1 hr 45 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 5-8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your new night guard from now until the end of August with Remi Club Subscribe & Save! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:34 - Episode 5 20:57 - Episode 6 56:50 - Episode 7 1:14:42 - Episode 8 1:33:02 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:40:21 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Is Blind UK S3: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 485

1 hr 15 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-4. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off! - Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box and one free breakfast per box for one year! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:31 - Episode 1 22:42 - Episode 2 37:16 - Episode 3 57:11 - Episode 4 1:04:41 - Ibiza 1:09:54 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:12:52 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Q&A! Your Argumentative Boyfriend & Wedding Guests Who Don't Give Gifts - Ep 484

1 hr 9 min

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're excited to move in with your boyfriend, however, the geographical and financial benefits are impossible to ignore—is your judgment being clouded by the perks? You're a Gandy and your girlfriend looks young... TOO young. Is your self-consciousness warranted? Your wedding guest came but didn't send a gift—is it acceptable to ask about the gift, and if not, do you still need to write a Thank You card? Your social life has taken a hard hit by your post-COVID anxiety—what is Shandy's advice? Finally, you love your boyfriend but your parents do not—whose side should you choose? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:55 - Q1: Are The Perks Of Moving In With My Boyfriend Clouding My Judgment? 17:57 - Q2: My Girlfriend Looks Super Young & It Makes Me Self Conscious—Help! 21:50 - Q3: My Guest Attended But Didn’t Give Us A Wedding Gift—Is It OK To Ask About It? 33:43 - Q4: My Social Anxiety Has Reduced My Friend Circle To Non-Existent—Help! 52:02 - Q5: My Opinionated Boyfriend Is Rubbing My Parents Wrong—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.co...

LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483

1 hr 22 min

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum! Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and just how accurate (or inaccurate) was their edit? We talk growth on and off the show, navigating the public's assumptions, their high school personas, their first kiss, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a Newlyweds Game that proves these two go waaaay back! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off! - Go to https://skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear! - Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! More Monica: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/monicapaynee TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@monicapaynee More Luke: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lukaswesselhoff TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lukeboxxx Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Monica & Luke! 1:30 - What We Didn’t See On The Show 6:56 - Luke’s Journey 13:36 - Monica’s Journey 19:33 - Would They Be Engaged Today Without ‘The Ultimatum’ 23:37 - Why They Went On The Show 32:00 - The Intimidation Of David/Luke’s Confidence 42:16 - High School/First Kiss 51:53 - Monica’s “Professionalism” 57:19 - Conflict Resolution 1:06:06 - The Newlyweds Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy I...

Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482

1 hr 20 min

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your friend regularly makes passive aggressive digs about your childfree-by-choice lifestyle, is a confrontation in order? How can you navigate your in-laws' past financial issues becoming YOUR future problem? If he ends it because of his father's diagnosis, is that a sign you should wait, or is the illness a red herring? And what to do if you love your guy but hate his vegetarianism? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your night guard! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:08 - My Friend Keeps Making Digs About My Childfree Lifestyle—Do I Confront Her? 13:15 - My Husband’s Parents Are Likely To Become Our Financial Burden One Day—Any Advice? 30:25 - After 2 Months Of “Bliss”, He Ended It Due To His Father’s Illness—Do I Wait For Him? 57:05 - I Love My Guy But Not His Vegetarianism—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481

1 hr 34 min

Content note: This episode contains discussion of alleged domestic violence and may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or texting START to 88788. Please listen with care and skip this episode if needed. This week, we're joined by Blake Robertson, whom many viewers know from The Ultimatum. Since his time on the show, Blake has also been the subject of public allegations of domestic violence—a topic that understandably evokes strong emotions and one we strived to approach with care in this conversation. Our goal with this interview is not to tell listeners what conclusions to draw, nor to minimize the seriousness of domestic violence. Rather, we believe difficult conversations are best approached thoughtfully, with honesty, attention to detail, and room for nuance. In this episode, we ask Blake the questions many viewers have had since the allegations became public. He also discusses public scrutiny, accountability, personal growth, and what life has looked like after the cameras stopped rolling. More Blake: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theblakerobertson - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theblakerobertson Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Blake Robertson 1:35 - What Terms He’s On With Hayley Currently 2:13 - Why Did He Propose? 7:31 - The TMZ Article 10:28 - After Filming The Show 19:30 - Charleston 40:49 - Scene 2 55:51 - Night Of The Arrest 1:14:25 - The Affidavit 1:17:24 - Finances 1:22:40 - Did The Show Accurately Represent Their Relationship? 1:26:06 - Beliefs 1:28:43 - Regrets 1:31:44 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.inst...

The Ultimatum S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 480

1 hr 2 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down the Finale and Reunion for Season 4! *** This episode discusses domestic assault. Please listen with care. *** Thanks to our lovely sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:51 - Episode 9/Finale 13:43 - Episode 10/Reunion 59:43 - Reviewing Predictions  1:00:18 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 479

1 hr 39 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 5-8 of Season 4! *** Note: This episode was recorded before news dropped about one contestant getting arrested for assault ** Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box and free daily greens per box! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:26 - Episode 5 36:46 - Episode 6 49:33 - Episode 7 1:11:13 - Episode 8 1:34:09 - Predictions 1:38:13 - Who We Would Go For Referenced NYT article: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/07/17/well/couples-therapists-fight-advice.html If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 478

1 hr 39 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 1-4 of Season 4! Stay tuned for your recap of episodes 5-8 dropping later. Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:06 - Episode 1 27:49 - Episode 2 43:19 - Episode 3 1:13:45 - Episode 4 1:36:09 - Predictions 1:37:01 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Island S8: Week 6 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 477

1 hr 13 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 6 & the FINALE of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor! - Go to https://furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:10 - Episode 32 28:23 - Episode 33 32:31 - Episode 34 (AfterSun) 35:39 - Episode 35 1:05:46 - Predictions 1:10:09 - Shandy Word Watch 1:11:28 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Island S8: Week 5 Recap & Review - Ep 476

1 hr 33 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 5 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen's favorite Bras and Underwear! - Go to https://zazzle.com to get 25% off your first order! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors! - Go to https://furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:20 - Episode 26 24:02 - Episode 27 36:24 - Episode 29 51:18 - Episode 30 1:13:55 - Episode 31 1:28:29 - Predictions 1:29:10 - Shandy Word Watch 1:31:41 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Let Myself Get Excited & He Promptly Dumped Me—What Happened & WHERE IS HE?!" - Ep 475

1 hr 4 min

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers! Our first caller, Emily, has just been dumped by the first guy in ages she's thought could be The One. After years of dating and actively putting herself out there, she's downright defeated. What happened? And more importantly, WHERE IS HE?! Our second caller, Ryan, has an unpopular choice for her bridal party. Should she overcome her family's judgment, or is it simply better to keep the peace? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily! 36:40 - Shandy Debrief 41:30 - Welcome To Caller Ryan! 1:00:15 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Island S8: Week 4 Recap & Review - Ep 474

1 hr 26 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 4 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://lolablankets.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off! Referenced reel: https://www.instagram.com/reels/DaF_-BWgjsZ/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:16 - Episode 20 15:36 - Episode 21 30:20 - Episode 23 48:24 - Episode 24 1:03:42 - Episode 25 1:22:11 - Predictions 1:22:30 - Shandy Word Watch 1:25:22 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Island S8: Week 3 Recap & Review - Ep 473

1 hr 28 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 3 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors! - Go to https://lolablankets.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:57 - Episode 14 24:00 - Episode 15 31:49 - Episode 17 53:10 - Episode 18 1:04:50 - Episode 19 1:21:38 - Predictions 1:23:11 - Shandy Word Watch 1:26:38 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472

1 hr 3 min

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Several friends never respond to your texts—Is this the new social norm, or are you doing something wrong? If you put your foot in your mouth on an early date, is there any recovering? The guy you like *seems* interested but never makes a move—does Shandy still stand by the old adage "If He Wanted To, He Would"? And if you love your fiancé but his flatulence is a damper on the romance, what to do?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:24 - Q1: Our Texts To Friends Are Going Unanswered—Is This Normal?  21:34 - Q2: I Put My Foot In My Mouth On The Second Date—Can I Recover From This? 26:05 - Q3: I Like The Guy But Nothing’s Happening—Do You Still Believe “If He Wanted To, He Would”? 46:06 - Q4: His Bathroom Issues Give Me the Ick—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Island S8: Week 2 Recap & Review - Ep 471

1 hr 38 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 2 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY to get $10 off your first purchase! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit! - Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:49 - Episode 8 11:54 - Episode 9 35:25 - Episode 11 53:57 - Episode 12 1:09:56 - Episode 13 1:21:14 - Predictions 1:22:29 - Shandy Word Watch 1:25:45 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Island S8: Week 1 Recap & Review - Ep 470

1 hr 37 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://zazzle.com for 25% off your first order! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:51 - Episode 1 22:35 - Episode 2 31:32 - Episode 3 39:55 - Episode 4 58:27 - Episode 5 1:09:37 - Episode 6 1:18:22 - Episode 7 1:29:20 - Predictions 1:31:29 - Shandy Word Watch 1:35:09 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469

1 hr 13 min

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your boyfriend is loyal and loving but you have a secret fantasy, is it worth it to risk it all for the Unknown? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:20 - Q1: My Brother Is Dating A Superficial Influencer Wannabe—Help! 24:25 - Q2: My Friend Is Having A Difficult Time Financially—Should I Lend Her The Funds? 36:46 - Q3: I Found My Husband’s Secret Stash Of Deepfakes He Created Of Me—Help! 52:20 - Q4: I Have A Loyal Boyfriend But A Secret Fantasy—Do I Take The Leap? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468

41 min

Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns the thought process that goes into getting a neck tattoo! We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! #netflix #perfectmatch Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! More Dave: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dth_9 - TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@davethomas9 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Dave Hand! 3:20 - What Happened With Sophie 9:08 - Who From Perfect Match Is Most Misunderstood? 15:36 - Did He Feel A Cultural Difference On The Show? 21:09 - Life After TV 24:46 - What Is The Thought Process That Goes Into Getting A Neck Tattoo? 29:37 - Ranking Cast Members 30:04 - Is His Favorite Movie Really ‘The Notebook’? 31:16 - Rapid Fire 38:00 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Perfect Match S4: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 467

54 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE! Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://poshmark.com/shandy to get $10 off your first purchase! - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:45 - Finale Kick Off 25:00 - “Perfect Match” Crowning Ceremony 44:19 - Surprise Couple 47:15 - Final Thoughts & Predictions 49:44 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466

1 hr 8 min

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin and bear it? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our lovely sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/shsandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://dupe.com and tell it what you’re looking to buy! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:14 - Q1: My Longtime Friend And I Are Secretly Crushing But Timing Isn’t Our Friend—Help! 16:54 - Q2: My “Friend” Has Assumed I’ll Help Her Move Homes—Can I Get Out Of This? 26:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend & I Are Finally Moving In Together But I Fear Compromising On This One Thing—Help! 34:12 - Q4: I’m An Adult But These Former Colleagues Make Me Feel Like I’m In Junior High—Help! 44:58 - Q5: My Husband Is Moody And It’s Driving Me Nuts! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465

1 hr 16 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7!  Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:06 - Episode 6 33:53 - Episode 7 1:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions 1:14:44 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464

1 hr 22 min

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5!  Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs at https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:16 - Episode 1 26:10 - Episode 2 35:32 - Episode 3 56:14 - Episode 4 1:07:53 - Episode 5 1:19:11 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463

52 min

Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance. Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! More Jordana & Jared: - The U Up? Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/u.up.podcast - Jordana: https://www.instagram.com/jordanaabraham - Jared: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreid Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid of U Up? Podcast! 0:47 - What Are The Most Common Themes They See In Their Relationship Qs? 9:34 - Is Dating Today Actually Worse Or Are We Just Talking About It More? 11:51 - Number One Piece Of Dating Advice 21:43 - Dating When You’re Famous 25:22 - Leaving The House 31:57 - Advice They Give That They Struggle To Follow 39:06 - Would You Rather If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Q&A! Your Boyfriend Steals Your Jokes & The Setup From Hell - Ep 462

1 hr 8 min

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your best friend puts zero thought into setting you up with her husband's friend, is that a slight or are you just sensitive? If your boyfriend's new hobby involves regularly "borrowing" your ideas, is it weird to be annoyed or is just a case of "sharing is caring"? At what age is OK to stop sending your nieces and nephews money? And if a family member is addicted to making AI-generated photos of your family, is it worth the awkwardness of saying something? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://Ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 60% off your Welcome Kit today! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:54 - Q1: At What Age Can I Stop Sending My Nephews Money? 17:08 - Q2: My Friend Put No Thought Into Setting Me Up—Am I Being Too Sensitive? 33:00 - Q3: My Boyfriend Loves Doing Standup But Keeps Stealing My Jokes—Help! 50:30 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Is Addicted To Making AI-Generated Photos Of Our Family—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://a...

Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461

1 hr 1 min

*Special Announcement* Dear Shandy will be moderating Amy's Book Launch Event in NYC on May 5th, 2026! For more info visit: https://luma.com/unsingle It's not every day we bring back a Hot Topic guest, but when Amy Chan writes a new book, YOU BRING HER BACK. Dubbed the “scientific Carrie Bradshaw” by The Observer, Amy is a relationship expert, author, and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and Dating Bootcamp, retreats that apply a scientific, psychological approach to healing heartbreak and rewiring dating patterns. It has been 4.5 years since we first had Amy on, and now with her new book, "Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts" (April 28, 2026), she shares the science of rewiring your brain to actually find success in your love life. Today Amy chats your unconscious patterns, how being otherwise "high-achieving" is working against you, and at what leg in the "Dating Funnel" you're getting stuck. We promise you'll never see dating the same way again after hearing Amy's insights. Watch on to get "Unsingle"! Our first episode with Amy: https://youtu.be/FRXrV7AXHwY?si=NRMBdTNNAKy1PwEg Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! More Amy: The Book, 'Unsingle': ⁠https://missamychan.com/unsingle Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missamychan Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome (Back) Amy Chan! 3:30 - Unconscious Patterns 6:44 - Does Being Otherwise “High-Achieving” Work Against You In Dating? 11:00 - The Dating Funnel 16:16 - Expanding Horizons 25:34 - The Experiment 27:37 - Age Gaps 29:13 - Over-Icking 33:15 - Chemistry 49:14 - Situationships 51:29 - People Pleasing 54:18...

Q&A! Blinded By Breadcrumbs & Does His Bad Taste Mean Bad Compatibility? - Ep 460

1 hr 8 min

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you love your husband but find his career boring AF, should you feign interest to spare his feelings, or be 100% honest about your disinterest? Is it acceptable to become close friends with your best friend's partner, even if your best friend doesn't approve? Has Shandy ever dated anyone who brought out the worst in them, and what are their thoughts on "breadcrumbing" in dating? Finally, if your date regularly brings you the ugliest flowers you've ever seen, does that speak to a deeper compatibility and "taste" issue? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:17 - Q1: I’m Bored To Tears When My Husband Talks About His Job—AITA? 21:16 - Q2: Can I Be Best Friends With My Best Friend’s Wife? 30:27 - Q3: I’m Still Hung Up On A Girl Who Brought Out The Worst In Me—Help! 43:42 - Q4: My New Flame Is Great But His Taste Is Not—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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