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Dr. Nick Myers - Sexual Health Podcast

She Cums First

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She Cums First: Promoting equitable pleasure and sexuality education. Good day, Dr. Nick Myers here. This podcast is focused on sexual health and all of the pleasure that comes with it. In the education section of my Facebook group, there are sessions called Selfless Sex where you think about viewing your entire body as a sexual playground. Above all, lets start a movement where we introduce "sexual chivalry," and guys are gentlemen. Who is with me? #SheCumsFirst #SCF

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#239 - What's the 37% rule in dating?

8 min

Good day. One of the newest trends in dating involves another math problem.  Its called the 37% Rule.  To me, its just too complex for anyone to have any success.  If you decide to try it, good luck and please keep me posted if you get married. Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#238 - PSA for Meds: Trazodone

6 min

Here is a PSA for you regarding Trazodone.  Its been around for many years and of course, it has a few side effects.  Well, take this medication and I am experiencing one of the more "unique" sexual side effects.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#237 - What is "Gooning?"

9 min

Good day, Dr. Nick here.  So...what is Gooning? Well, there is an online community called "Gooners," and it also involves porn, and masturbation - to the point where members enter the "Goon Zone!" Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

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#239 - What's the 37% rule in dating?

8 min

Good day. One of the newest trends in dating involves another math problem.  Its called the 37% Rule.  To me, its just too complex for anyone to have any success.  If you decide to try it, good luck and please keep me posted if you get married. Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#238 - PSA for Meds: Trazodone

6 min

Here is a PSA for you regarding Trazodone.  Its been around for many years and of course, it has a few side effects.  Well, take this medication and I am experiencing one of the more "unique" sexual side effects.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#237 - What is "Gooning?"

9 min

Good day, Dr. Nick here.  So...what is Gooning? Well, there is an online community called "Gooners," and it also involves porn, and masturbation - to the point where members enter the "Goon Zone!" Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#236 - The G Spot: The Lick Series (3 of 3)

10 min

Hello again, Dr. Nick here. To end the Lick Series, we needed to talk about the G Spot. You have to have a tongue like Gene Simmons from KISS to actually lick it, but you get the idea. In this podcast, I discuss plenty of other ways to stimulate the G Spot. Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#235 - Cunnilingus: The Lick Series (2 of 3)

12 min

How to lick.  In this podcast, I discuss the very basic moves to have fun while performing cunniligus.  Gentlemen, yoou have to pay attention to your partner, start slow and for God sake, please cut your fingernails.  Please like and subscribe so you will be notified when the final podcast arrives. Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#234 - Cunnilingus: The Lick Series (1 of 3)

10 min

On today's podcast, I want to talk to you about one of my favorite topics...cunnilingus. I decided to create a new podcast series called The Lick Series. This is the first podcast where I answer the question - Do women enjoy receiving oral sex? (The answer may shock you.) Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick.  PS - Since this is a series, be sure to like & subscribe to follow along. 

#233 - Thirteen sex questions you probably need to ask your partner

10 min

Good day, Dr Nick here. If you want to find out about your partner, sometimes you have to ask a few questions and have a discussion. Here are 13 questions you can ask your partner, to see how things are going in the bedroom. Be sure to prepare yourself for the honest answers too!  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#232 - "Sextinction": A Sexless Society

12 min

Good day. This is a follow-up from last weeks podcast.  Besides the low birth rate, people are just not having sex like they used too.  The internet has biased dating to a few specific individuals, and everyone else is just '"shit outta luck." Even married adults are not having sex! What are the solutions, if there are any.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#231 - Low birth rate vs No sexual activity.

12 min

People have been talking about the declining birth rate for years. So, why do these same people ignore the fact that people are not having sex like they used to? The last time I checked, people needed to have sex in order to make babies.  I wonder if there is a connection?  Well, DUH. Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#230 - What is your Lust Language?

13 min

Good day. If you remember about 30 years ago, a book about Love Languages was extremely popular.  A few years ago, the idea of Lust Languages appeared.  Some think there are 4 Lust Languages, others five. In this podcast, I take a look at a few of the more popular Lust Languages. Personally, I believe there are more than 10! Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick.

#229 - Nagged to Death?

10 min

Good day. I stumbled across an old article that basically said that men who are nagged by their wife die earlier.  Well, thats how the information was presented in the media.  After reading the actual study, the devil is in the details. Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#228 - Dating trends in 2026

8 min

Hello again. An article in Cosmo detailed certain trends in dating. I have so say, some of these things are down right mean and evil. Maybe this is where we are as a society.  Enjoy, if you can. Dr. Nick M. 

#227 - Tips to spice up your sex life

13 min

Good day, Dr. Nick.  Have you ever wanted to try something new in the bedroom and were afraid to bring it up? Believe it or not, there is a technique to it.  But the most important thing you must do is talk about it.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#226 - The Heritage Foundation saves America?

9 min

The Heritage Foundation, a right-wing think tank, created a 250 plan for America.  It include marriage bootcamps, no on-line dating and limited IVF.  Of course, there is a push to revive old "Blue Laws," a focus of marriage and having as many babies as possible. I wonder if the color of the babies also matter? Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#225 - MGTOW in 2026

12 min

Hey. In this podcast, I decided to return to a topic I discussed a few years ago. Well, MGTOW is still around and in certain circles, its even expanding.  Lets take a shallow dive into the world of MGTOW.  

#224 - Sexual Resolutions for 2026

8 min

Yes, I know its March already and this is still an important topic.  Plus, it gives me an extra week to work out the "kinks" in my ol' setup, setting and get my voice back.  With that said, I still say you and your partner(s) should try something new.  You might like it. Enjoy, Dr. Nick. 

#223 - Twelve things that turn women on.

7 min

Well hello again. Its been more than 2 years. I'm trying again so please bear with me.  So to get this podcast restarted, here are 12 things women say turn them on.  #BilingualOrgasm?

#222 - Sex in Self Driving Cars

5 min

It seems that people are having sex in the back seats of self-driving cars.  Well, if you get pulled over, simply ask the officer to talk to the driver. #Katt

#221 - Sexual Resolutions for 2024

10 min

Hello there. Its been far too long.  Let us start of 2024 with a few sexual resolutions for better sex in 2024.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick . 

#220 - "Trad Wives" and their movement.

7 min

After watching the documentry on Amazon Prime called Shiny Happy People about the Dugger clan, I also discovered a movement called "Trad Wives," or traditional wives.  On the surface, it seems benign but, if you dig deeper, you'll discover racist beliefs and spousal abuse.  Thanks for listening. #Duggers #ShinyHappyPeople #TradWives

#219 - Oral sex can cause throat cancer (HPV)

3 min

Here is a quick PSA today.  With the more people having oral sex, this increases the chance that you will contract HPV.  Luckily, there is a vaccine that can protect you.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#218 - Laughter during sex

7 min

Yes, laughter during sexual activities is a good thing...a great thing.  So, when something "awkward" happens, be sure that you do not laugh at your partner.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#217 - PSA for Meds: Zoloft

4 min

This is another PSA for sexual side effects.  In this podcast, I discuss Zoloft, another popular antidepressant.  Please talk to your doctor if you are having side effects that affect your sexual health.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick.

#216: The 2023 GQ Survey on Sex

9 min

Well, hello.  Its been a while. In this podcast, I discuss the 2023 GQ Survey on dating, porn and sex.  With only 600+ participants, take what you will and still, the results were concerning. I did not know people's "body counts" were a concerns.  Thanks for listening, NM.  PS: Sorry for the 'morning voice.' 

#215: The importance of reclaiming

6 min

After a lifestyle party, couples typically take time to reconnect with each other mentally, and in some cases, physically.  This act of reclaiming/ reconnecting is a crucial element of their relationship.  Some couples even have a ritual they use to reconnect with each other.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #lifestyle #reclaiming

#214: Asexuals need love too.

11 min

More and more people are coming out as asexual.  In this podcast, I provide a few tips on being in a successsful relationship with an asexual.  For starters, you both have to be honest with each other.  Thanks for listening. 

#213: Can you be a swinger and a cop?

6 min

In the United States, there was a situation where a hotwife was fired for having sex with her fellow officers.  Granted, some activity took place at police headquarters, but she and other officers were fired.  With the ever increasing number of people in the lifestyle, are the policies behind the times? 

#212 - PSA: The Hook Position

4 min

Here is an oldie, but a goodie sex position.  Now, it has a new name, but with the same results.  If you are flexable, give it a try.  You just might like it.  Enjoy, NM. 

#211 - SS: Why is it so tough to talk about sex?

10 min

Sexuality is everywhere and some of us struggle to talk about sex, especially with intimate partners.  Why is this a hard conversation to have?  I believe in order to have good sex, we have to talk about it.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

#210 - PSA for Meds: Wellbutrin

5 min

Medications are known to have severe sexual side effects. In this PSA, I discuss Wellbutrin, a common antidepressant with surprising sexual side effects.  Thanks for listening, NM. #wellbutrin

#209 - Top 5 SCF Podcasts for 2022

5 min

Well hello everyone.  Its 2023 so, I wanted to take a quick look back at the top podcasts of 2022.  One PSA made it to the list.  I recommend revisiting these top podcasts.  Thanks for listening, NM. 

#208 - Adultery is now illegal in Indonesia.

4 min

In a country with over 275 million people, this is going to be a major change.  Why would they make this change? People typically do not like it when the government comes into their bedroom.  #Indonesia #Adultery

#207 - Sexual Resolutions for 2023

7 min

This year is coming to a close and a new year begins. Time to make a few sexual resolutions for 2023.  Essence Magazine had a few good suggestions to get you started in the right direction.  #resolutions 

#206 - Dr. Nick's Stocking Stuffers for 2022.

10 min

Time to spread the holiday cheer and the sexual pleasure to each and everyone.  These 'stuffers' will actually fit in a stocking too!  Be sure to buy plenty of AA batteries. #sextoys

#205 - Living Apart Together

8 min

An increasing number of married couples are living in seperate locations.  According to an article in the New York Times, women are driving this movement.  Can couples really find a way to make this work? 

#204 - Sperm counts drop worldwide!

5 min

Sperm counts have been dropping all over the planet, with a consistent decrease starting after 2000 (Y2K?)  So, what is really going on?  Gentlemen, we really need to really monitor what we put into our body, including medications.  

#203 - Black Bulls

8 min

In the lifestyle, the cuck & bull relationship is nothing new.  Being a black bull with BBC can be an amazing experience for some men.  At what cost?

#202 - Honey...Can we have an open marriage?

5 min

Many people are in sexless marriages, while there are options out there.  Ladies, if your husband asked you for an open marriage, what would you say? #lifestyle #openmarriage

(#201) - SS: Dating in 2022...WTF? #3: Man Sharing

7 min

Some women are involved in a man sharing situation and do not have a clue.  Could an open relationship solve this issue?  Maybe, if everyone is aware, agree to a set of rules and has the opportunity to make an informed choice.  #dating #mansharing

SS - Tips for successful holiday sex

15 min

Its that time of year when we spend time with inlaws, friends and family.  Trying to find alone time for sex can be difficult, but it can be done.  Here are just a few tips to help you out.  (Plus, its a fun podcast to listen to and share with friends while you are waiting for the turkey dinner.)  

PSA - No Nut November...Say What??

7 min

This is another internet movement which needs to stop.  This madness is getting out of hand.  How and why did this "holiday" appear in the first damn place? #NoFap #NoNutNovember

SS - Internet Sexual Censorship

11 min

The web has become a hostile place for sexual health information.  Sites are shut down or just vanish overnight.  What caused this to happen and a better question is what can be done?  #shadowbanning

PSA - Tips for online dating profiles

5 min

With so many looking for love online, what can you do to make your profile stand out among the crowd?  Hint: Do not follow the crowd!  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

SS - Make Up Sex

12 min

You ever had sex right after a heated argument?  I bet it was rather hot and passionate, right?  Make up sex can be fun but of course, you can only have so much make up sex.  Please do not start an argument for the make up sex either.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

SS - Women and Vaginal Orgasms

12 min

One in five women can orgasm without any clitoral stimulation.  Some women can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone.  What other forms of pleasure can lead to sexual excitment and orgasms for you? #orgasms #pleasure

SS - Women prefer groomed pubes!

10 min

Believe it or not, most women do not like a mouth or nose full of pubes.  They like their men groomed but gentlemen, please avoid cutting a landing strip.  #groomed

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2 min

My first sponsor...Manscaped!  Women prefer men with groomed pubes.  Thank you all for your support, Dr. Nick.  Get 20% off @Manscaped + free shipping with the promo code SCF20 at MANSCAPED.com  #ad #manscapedpod

PSA - Allergic to own semen

6 min

Some men are allergic to their semen.  Imagine having a severe allergy attack right after you orgasm and ejaculate.  Luckily, help is easy to get as long as you are not misdiagnosed.  

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