Dwayne Bond — Guarding Family Time | Start and Stop Times | Setting Expectations with Elders
11 min
How does a pastor protect his family when the congregation’s urgent needs never stop? On this episode of The Shepherding Time podcast, Dr. Dwayne Bond, a lead pastor and a leader in pastoral care for other pastors, shares the practical habits that protected his family through years of demanding ministry. Dwayne admits that for years he let the people and crises of his church set his schedule. Once kids were in the picture, he stopped. He explains how he started his days early, set a firm start and stop time he learned from the corporate world, and kept family dinner as a core value. He let the voicemail catch non-urgent calls, and he committed to an annual family vacation and a couple’s getaway around his anniversary. He also describes the step that changed his church’s expectations: bringing his elders into the conversation, setting boundaries together around Slack and cell phones, and softly telling the congregation that non-emergency texts get answered the next day. He closes with what is energizing him now, a growing church and a new adult education plan to help measure discipleship over time. About Dr. Dwayne Bond:Dr. Dwayne Bond is a lead pastor of [church name] and a leader in pastoral care, helping pastors navigate the many areas and issues of life. He is a friend of the podcast. This episode is a companion to the book Shepherding Time: A Pastor’s Guide to Time Management by Rush Witt and Joe Keller (New Growth Press). Get your copy: New Growth PressAmazon RESOURCES MENTIONED Dwayne Bond's Counseling Shepherding Time: A Pastor’s Guide to Time Management, NGP and Amazon links aboveSubscribe to The Shepherding Time wherever you listen, and share this episode with a pastor who needs it.