Murder and a Mother’s Waves that Remain
46 min
Send us Fan Mail Content warning: This episode discusses family and domestic violence, coercive control, and the death of a loved one through domestic violence. Please take care while listening and pause or step away if you need to. In this deeply moving episode of The Grief Ocean Podcast, I’m joined by Anita, a mum navigating the unimaginable loss of her beloved daughter, Alisha, who was killed by her partner in an act of family and domestic violence. Together, we talk about Alisha’s life, the woman she was, and the memories and love that continue to shape the lives of those who knew her. Anita shares her reflections on the complexities of domestic violence, the challenges of recognising coercive and controlling behaviour, and why these conversations are so important. We also explore the profound grief of losing a child, what it means to navigate life after such a devastating loss, and the ways Anita continues to feel connected to Alisha through memories, family, and the meaningful ways she is keeping her daughter’s legacy alive. At the heart of this conversation is a reminder that Alisha was so much more than the circumstances of her death. She was a daughter, a loved one, and a person whose life, memories and legacy deserve to be remembered. I’m incredibly grateful to Anita for trusting me with her story and allowing us to get to know Alisha. My hope is that this conversation raises awareness of family and domestic violence, encourages important conversations, and offers a space for greater understanding of the grief experienced by those left behind. If you or someone you know is experiencing family, domestic or sexual violence, support is available: 1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 The stories and experiences shared in this podcast reflect each person’s personal recollections and perspectives and may not represent the views or experiences of others involved. This podcast is intended to share lived experiences and is not a substitute for professional counselling or a...