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Charisma on Command

A Self-Improvement , Education and Science podcast

About the show

Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.For Charisma University, go to https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/Thanks!Links:Charisma University: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-universityFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CharismaOnCommandInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/charismaoncommand/

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6 Flirting Habits Women Actually Love

Nov 11, 2026 13 min

Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University:http://bit.ly/3VpDBhPSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, you’ll learn 6 habits that instantly make you more attractive.We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Jack Harlow, because he has an easy, authentic style of flirting that many women find extremely attractive.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:21 - #1: Approach without hesitation1:59 - #2: Assume good intent3:37 - #3: Use the push/pull method5:27 - #4: Be honest in situations where a lot of guys would lie6:12 - #5: Don't be desperate for a romantic connection6:57 - #6: Have standards beyond beauty--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JackHarlow #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How A Small Insecurity Can Grow Into Narcissism

Nov 11, 2026 14 min

Join Over 21,000 Members at Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-005-25Elon Musk recently pretended to be one of the best in the world at a video game—only for the truth to come out. But this isn’t just about a lie; it’s about the sad pipeline of toxic shame, where the fear of not being enough leads to deception, compulsive validation-seeking, and, in some cases, malignant narcissism. This video breaks down how it happens—and how to break free.0:00 - Intro0:29 - Elon Musk was caught pretending1:00 - The context3:39 - The psychology behind Toxic Shame5:20 - Where Toxic Shame comes from6:06 - The opposite of Toxic Shame6:20 - It can get worse...7:18 - How to address Toxic Shame9:12 - Want to level up your confidence and charisma?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo Editing:SkyeAndre RingkjoebHenry Houpert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Ways To Break The Ice

Nov 11, 2026 11 min

3 Easy Ways to Start A Conversation With AnyoneDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2Eytv4T How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation: https://www.youtube.com/edit?o=U&video_id=QXiAPiw7vfcOne of the most common questions I get is how do I start a conversation in this situation or that situation. And so what I thought would be helpful is to give you 3 simple ways to start a conversation (aka conversation starters) that you can use anywhere. You don't need to be a genius, they’re super versatile and I use them pretty much every day. 0:44 Being a human Google is one of the conversation starters and openers 3:27 Being a human Twitter to develop how to start a conversation Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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All episodes

6 Flirting Habits Women Actually Love

Nov 11, 2026 13 min

How A Small Insecurity Can Grow Into Narcissism

Nov 11, 2026 14 min

3 Ways To Break The Ice

Nov 11, 2026 11 min

4 Reasons You Are Losing Friends

Nov 11, 2026 17 min

4 Surprising Things That Sabotage FriendshipsDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2EQVPAGFriendships are some of the most important things in life. Yet sometimes it can seem difficult to start friendships - other times friendships you have simply dissolve. And that may be because you are doing something to sabotage them. Either having an idea of how to make friends or keep a friendship and relationships, you will surely realize something new in this video that maybe you haven't.00:42 Lack of integrity in a friendship or relationship03:43 Manipulating your friend with guilt06:57 Being inconsiderate of your friend08:40 Your values have diverged from your friend'sSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Make People Like You Immediately

Nov 11, 2026 9 min

One Simple Tip To Make People Like You - Tom Hiddleston Charisma Breakdownhttps://goo.gl/qgN8BYWatch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes. It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl. After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you.Subscribe to Charisma On Command. https://goo.gl/qgN8BYConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Habits That Kill Your Likeability

Nov 11, 2026 13 min

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University Today!https://bit.ly/3UtD0t3Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeShark Tank has had roughly a thousand pitches air so far, and one stands out as possibly the worst ever. This pitch goes SO badly that after it aired Maneesh even started to get threats. Now this video isn’t a critique of Maneesh, we don’t know anything about his personality based on a TV show. But there’s a lot we can learn from this pitch.Specifically, we’ll go over 5 fairly common mistakes that instantly make people like you less. We’ll also review what you can do instead to make better impressions in business meetings, job interviews, and even when meeting new friends or going on dates. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro1:18 - #1: A bad first impression in the first 7 seconds2:03 - #2: Reacting defensively to laughter3:13 - #3: Trying to hide your weaknesses3:20 - #4: Not answering the question behind the question6:18 - #5: Being critical of a person rather than their behavior-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SharkTank #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Be Extremely Captivating To Those Around You

Nov 11, 2026 9 min

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nRAxuABody Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown Tony Robbins is a master of body language. These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations. By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out. He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video. If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stop Ignoring These Toxic Dating Red Flags

Nov 11, 2026 13 min

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3kujtZmSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeFew things can ruin your life faster than a toxic relationship. But most people hide their issues, so signs of being toxic aren’t obvious right off the bat. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 early signs you or someone you love is in a toxic relationship so that you can change things before it ruins your life. Keep in mind that none of these mean you must break up immediately. Toxicity exists on a spectrum and these are just signs that you need to move things back towards the healthy side or get out. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:30 - #1: Using totalizing language in arguments1:30 - #2: Feeling compelled to gather evidence against your partner2:04 - #3: Justifying aggressive behavior by making it a sign of love3:00 - #4: Not believing someone when they show you’re not compatible5:12 - #5: You don’t know the traumas that formed your childhood experience of love--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JonnhyDepp #AmberHeard #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Stand Up For Yourself If You Hate Conflict

Nov 11, 2026 22 min

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2Frs8WXAnd for more on Dealing With Conflict, check out Charisma University: www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university_ _ _ _ _**Hello! Adding this in because some people missed the video on How To Stop People From Talking Over You. This is Ben! I'm the guy in this video. I founded Charisma On Command with Charlie four years ago. You can catch a bit of my story towards the end of this video when I introduce myself. Charlie is still creating videos! He's going to release his next one on Monday. Hope that clears things up a bit :-)_ _ _ _ _Have you ever had a tough conversation in front of you and not known exactly how to handle it?Maybe it was with your boyfriend or girlfriend, amongst friends or roommates, with your family, or at work. Difficult conversations are stressful because if you handle them poorly, it can do irreparable damage to your relationship or your career. And we never get taught how to do it correctly! So in this video I go over the principles you can apply to make almost any difficult conversation go well for you. You don’t need to use all of these in all situations. What I want to do is arm you with options so you can choose the right tool for whatever situation you're in.00:36 3 things to consider BEFORE tough conversations and difficult conversations00:42 Draw your line. Define what's acceptable and what's unacceptable.02:20 Thinking things through as if you're the other person 03:38 Set the tone that YOU want the conversation to have 04:10 Things to consider DURING a tough conversation04:30 State facts and feelings to prevent someone from being defensive05:30 What to do when someone is making jokes at your expense that you don't like06:48 Go on the record early so that a tough conversation isn't a surprise08:11 Have mutual understanding and don't assume about what the other person is thinking08:50 What to do when you're the one who made a mistake or how to receive fee...

Wharton Business School: Entrepreneurship Speech (former private equity Associate)

Nov 11, 2026 25 min

Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship. It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-)Link mentioned: http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTDIf just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Psychological Tricks To Read Anyone

Nov 11, 2026 16 min

How To Read ANYONEhttps://goo.gl/Za6Y2JToday we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything.But we won’t stop thereBecause one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it. So let’s get into1. Increase self-awareness2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge)3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site: http://www.microexpressionstest.com/m...4. Identify common patterns5. Make predictions based on people's body language6. Experiment in your own lifeHope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Stop Caring What Other People Think Of You

Nov 11, 2026 13 min

Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500 to try Audible today!How To Be Charming In Any Conversation:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oBzqzLa7-5MSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Whether we admit it or not we’ve all felt insecure at different points in our lives. And that insecurity can hold you back from things like pursuing your dream job, approaching someone you want to connect with, or just feeling good about yourself.But it doesn’t have to be that way. There are tricks you can learn to actually use your insecurities to your advantage. To instantly look more confident and eventually to build deep genuine confidence and stop caring so much what other people think about youThat’s exactly what we’ll be covering today in this video featuring Pete Davidson, someone who has stated many times that he battles with insecurity, yet still has a lot of friends, relationships, and career success.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - intro1:05 - #1: Embrace that you are not good at everything2:38 - #2: Use self deprecating jokes4:23 - #3: Answer questions honestly where most people would lie6:06 - #4: Raise the people around you--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#PeteDavidson #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Secrets Every Shorter Guy Needs To Know

Nov 11, 2026 13 min

Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3MldAd8Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeSome people are extremely judgmental about height. And it sucks to be judged for something that’s totally out of your control. There’s no magic formula to get every single person to stop being prejudiced BUT there are tricks you can steal from some of the world’s most charismatic men to help you command more respect from the people around you. Regardless of your height.This video isn’t meant to be a one size fits all solution. Instead, think of it as a menu to choose from. Pick the advice that fits the charisma style you like most. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:25 - #1: Addressing your height0:39 - Option 1: Go there first1:09 - Option 2: Talk about it like it's no big deal2:16 - Option 3: Don't make it a part of the conversation3:04 - #2: Be a big presence3:10 - Option 1: Be the loudest person in the room3:37 - Option 2: Use expansive hand gestures4:24 - Option 3: Freely use neutral space4:57 - Option 4: Use platonic touch5:52 - #3: Celebrate other people's success----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------#TomCruise #TomHolland #KevinHart #CharismaOnCommand----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma

Nov 11, 2026 6 min

Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meethttps://goo.gl/janZ3FDaily Tip: What your Body Language says about your CharismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Subtle Ways To Create Attraction With Anyone

Nov 11, 2026 18 min

Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free 30-day trial today by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charismaWhy Daenerys Loves Jon SnowWhy does Daenerys Targaryen fall for Jon Snow? I mean he’s a powerful handsome guy, but Daenerys has had plenty of offers from powerful handsome men, like Jorah and Daario, and none truly interested her. Something is different about Jon Snow though. The show gives us some clues that actually can teach you a lot about attraction and love in the real world, which is why I wanted to explore exactly what it was that created that spark of love - because you also you might learn something for your own life. 3:00 Jon Snow by Kit Harrington showed confidence to Khaleesi by Emilia Clarke6:30 Jon Snow of House Stark can be honest to Daenerys Targaryen9:30 Winter is here and in Game of Thrones GOT everyone can count on Jon SnowSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown

Nov 11, 2026 11 min

How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma BreakdownHow to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton. The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters.When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact. But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps. Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Stop Caring What People Think

Nov 11, 2026 7 min

How To Stop Caring What People ThinkDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2nNVCa0Have you ever lied about an odd hobby you have? Or maybe your job status? Or your height? Or even just avoided putting yourself in a situation in which you knew you were likely to fail?Why did you do that?Short answer: because you were embarrassed. Embarrassment comes from trying to control how other people perceive you. So instead of just showing the world your nerdy hobby, say you collect Beanie Babies, you go “I don’t want people to think I’m a dweeb.” and you pretend you don’t have one. The same process plays out with hobbies as it does with mistakes we’ve made, areas in which we are weak, and areas where we might get publicly rejected. We hide what we don’t want people to know about us. We conform to what other people would like us to be. But that doesn’t have to be the answer:Because there is another, more empowering mindset:Instead of focusing on other’s perceptions and feeling embarrassed about what they may think…Focus on whether or not you live up to YOUR OWN values.That's what this video is about and that's how you'll learn to stop caring what people think about you.Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupertAnimations by RSDF Studios, Jakarta (http://rambatansaddhadhika.co.id/)Art: Bonni Rambatan, Dwinanda EdoEditing: Bonni Rambatan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Trait That Makes Women Feel Safe

Nov 11, 2026 19 min

Join our 6000+ members at Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3U5DRQKSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn this video, we’ll break down some clips of Robert Downey Jr and Charlie Hunnam to highlight 4 different personality traits you may have that are psychologically attractive to a lot of women. We’ll also go through how you can show you have these traits in a way that feels natural, rather than try hard or braggy. You don’t need every single trait in order to attract someone, this video is meant to give you a menu to choose from. Some come through in the stories you tell, others only require one sentence for you to establish.And yes, both these guys are handsome, but the techniques in this video will help anyone to be more attractive regardless of how you look. Also it’s worth noting, these are far from the only ways to be attractive. There are many other traits we can cover in future videos if this turns out to be a topic you’re interested in. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:40 - Use the story baiting method3:02 - Show that you're a protector4:11 - Be the first to be playful in serious situations4:17 - Make yourself the director of any situation4:44 - Give the spotlight to someone who hasn't had it6:01 - Be a successful risk taker8:47 - Be playfully cocky9:26 - Go over the top with your cocky persona9:54 - Follow cocky statements up with a joke10:31 - Be quick to compliment others11:58 - Tell the story in an attractive way--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#RobertDowneyJR #CharlieHunnam #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Stick To Your New Years Resolutions

Nov 11, 2026 6 min

Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDSo I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Flirt With A Girl Without Being Creepy

Nov 11, 2026 16 min

How to approach and flirt with women that you like without being creepy.Get The 3 Ways To Start A Conversation: https://goo.gl/YcTueWThe first ever study of creepiness was done just a few weeks ago, and it had a really interesting result that men and women think of creepiness differently. Men think of creepiness as taxidermy, scary movies and clowns. Women have those same associations plus one more... Women also associate creepiness with men. Somewhere in the course of every mans life while he was flirting he has done something creepy. The reason is that men don't have the same understanding of creepy that women do when flirting.How to Flirt Time-Stamp Guide:0:47 The Goldilocks rule of eye contact when flirting and approaching2:04 Warm Up to social interaction (start making brief eye contact with everyone)2:44 Add a smile, wave or high five and speak to the women who smile back 3:50 When flirting combine your compliments with jokes to release tension5:05 1-3 Second touches on the arm are enough to indicate interest without being creepy 6:25 Pay attention to how receptive she is to physical contact and respond accordingly8:05 Critical Flirting tip avoid making her feel trapped by positioning your own back to the wallLink to Russell Brand Flirting Breakdown:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8kSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Master Stressful Situations

Nov 11, 2026 23 min

How Conor McGregor Can KO Floyd MayweatherConor McGregor's unshakeable confidence and extremely powerful visualization rituals make him almost unstoppable.Every boxing analyst is saying Conor McGregor doesn’t stand a chance against Floyd Mayweather. And maybe they’re right - but I have a different perspective because while I don’t know much about boxing, I AM a student of human psychology. And I’ve never seen anyone with a better mental game than Conor McGregor. He is insanely confident, which creates the optimal emotional state for dominating a fight. And a big part of that confidence is how Conor uses visualization to see his victories before they happen.00:30 Three Conor McGregor predictions tmt01:11 Visualize the pregame like in the coming Floyd Mayweather fight03:07 The details: what Conor chooses to visualize04:21 Creating physical manifestations of your vision in the world 06:52 Grounding what you visualize into reality which is pop in Vegas and sports09:10 Time of Visualization like back in UFC as in boxing on Showtime12:00 One also needs to speak as shown in this McGregor VS Mayweather fightSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see our personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupert and @IAmBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How He Won Using Charisma When Under Attack (How You Can Too)

Nov 11, 2026 16 min

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3wYo2SRSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeJohnny Depp’s relaxed confidence on the stand has helped make public perception around his trial with Amber Heard pretty one sided. But as many other witnesses have shown, staying calm and confident is not easy under that kind of pressure. Which is why in this video we’ll be covering 5 things Johnny has done and that you can do to radiate extreme confidence that makes others trust and like you even in high pressure situations. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:32 - #1: Control the cadence of the conversation1:01 - #2: Maintain non reaction seeking body language3:28 - #3: Catch and refuse frames you do not agree with7:03 - #4: Confident people are able to control the emotional tone of an interaction8:39 - #5: Confidence is easier to feel when you have positive reference experiences--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JohnnyDepp #AmberHeard #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Influence People With Your Word Choice

Nov 11, 2026 12 min

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2simGTtHow To Influence People (And What Not to Do)Want to know how to influence people? Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do. This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden. You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say.Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Instantly Make Someone Like You

Nov 11, 2026 15 min

How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma BreakdownGet the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nN0H2CPeople like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport.That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you. Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Quietly Take Control of a Room

Nov 11, 2026 17 min

The fastest way I know to build your social confidence:https://bit.ly/003-26Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves.He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn.0:00 - Intro1:11 - Find out what people respond to1:58 - Join the chaos3:37 - Make the agreement explicit6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it8:12 - Take them somewhere new11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidenceConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Visko MatichEdited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Stop Negative Self Talk

Nov 11, 2026 13 min

BEST FRIEND BRAINDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2EaYfJoSo this is going to be one of those times where I share something I am just getting started on. In fact, I stumbled across this idea this week.I was reading this book recommended by a friend and one of the lines stuck out to me, it was “I’m trying to be a best friend to myself”And I thought hmmmm - so many of the times when i have been upset in my life come from times when I’ve not been a best friend to myself. I want to invite you to spend one week changing your thinking to be more of a best friend towards yourself. I'll be trying the same thing :-)2:49 Feel isolated mentally3:56 Your best friend brain is solution-oriented5:13 Best friend brain has high standards and gives you tough love 6:03 Your best friend brain is flattering Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why You’re Still Lonely, Even If You “Go Out”

Nov 11, 2026 22 min

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-FriendshipsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe are in an epidemic of loneliness and it’s a real problem.Roughly half of adults report feeling socially disconnected, and science is showing loneliness is associated with a greater risk of dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and even has a similar risk of premature death as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day. On the flip side, you’ve probably heard that you are an average of the five people you spend the most time with. That means with rare exceptions, your happiness and success are heavily dependent on who your friends are.So in today’s video, you’ll learn how to improve in each of the four main phases for making incredible friendships. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:40 - #1: How To Meet New People0:42 - Proximity1:06 - Join A Flock1:41 - Become A Beacon2:10 - Say Yes To Invitations2:20 - #2: How To Turn Them Into Friends2:40 - Focus On The Process3:22 - Bait For Shared Interests4:13 - #3: How To Make Your Friendships World Class4:36 - A Shared North Star6:04 - Being A Lifeline7:55 - Mutual Vulnerability9:32 - #4: How To Maintain Them For Decades9:37 - Constructive Conflict11:37 - The 5 To 1 Rule12:00 - Replace Jealousy With Joy13:41 - Expect And Embrace Change15:02 - Do you want great new friendships?How To Be Happier For The Rest Of Your Life:https://youtu.be/VTOO_9_ECA8?si=U_G6rMULINOQcEd_How To Make A Great Impression:https://youtu.be/NzVrmGjsGWo?si=qCLL0JRa4gT_MMjb https://youtu.be/zDEfjg6ylFA?si=-y5NNf_CskVrS4ZCConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Covert Attacks To Your Character And How To Beat Each One Calmly

Nov 11, 2026 18 min

Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-00325Malcolm Gladwell’s debate missteps offer valuable lessons in handling arguments and conflict. This video breaks down key mistakes like passive aggression, straw-manning, and defensiveness—and shows you how to avoid them while staying calm and persuasive.Learn how to respond when others twist your words or act rude, and recognize when you’re shutting down so you can stay in control and confident in any situation.0:00 - Intro0:46 - #1: Covert Sniping2:30 - How To Reverse Rudeness 3:03 - #2: Straw-Manning5:34 - Refuse Burdens6:17 - Use The "That's Exactly Why" Response6:40 - Can you pass this test?8:14 - #4: Projecting Bad Faith9:33 - How To Avoid This In Your Own Life10:42 - Notice When You Lose Your Capacity To Listen12:16 - Want To Build That Unshakable Confidence?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandWritten by:Charlie HoupertVideo editing by:Io AnastasakiAndre RingkjøbChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Subtle Habits That Build Massive Respect

Nov 11, 2026 10 min

Join Charisma University today: https://bit.ly/016-25Give me seven minutes and I will teach you five psychological tricks that you can use to command respect instantly.🕒Timestamps🕒0:00 – Intro0:24 – Fill Your Calendar1:18 – Move Like a Predator2:34 - The Friendly Extension3:51 – Remove filler words5:00 – Embrace SilenceSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Habits From Tommy Shelby That Make People Respect You

Nov 11, 2026 13 min

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:http://bit.ly/3K1quRASubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribePeople love Tommy Shelby from Peaky Blinders. He’s a quiet, introverted character, and at the same time extremely charismatic.While you don’t want to be like Tommy in every way, there are 8 habits you can learn from him to instantly command respect from the people around you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:21 - #1: Have slow, relaxed movements0:57 - #2: Hold eye contact, even during conflict1:57 - #3: Be non-reactive to hostility3:00 - #4: Be as big as your audience3:33 - #5: Show conviction with your words3:56 - #6: Show conviction with your tone4:26 - #7: Speak slowly and use pauses between words6:23 - #8: Use carrot / stick motivation-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PeakyBlinders #ThomasShelby #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Look Charming When You're Socially Anxious

Nov 11, 2026 16 min

Join Our 6000+ Members At Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3T8ngKGHow To Create An Attractive Voice:https://youtu.be/RuXkEJzmp50Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeNo matter who you are, we’ve all been nervous before. And sometimes your nervousness can get in the way of making a good impression or connecting with someone you like.But being nervous doesn’t have to ruin an interaction. There are ways to be incredibly charismatic, even if you’re nervous. That’s what we’ll be learning in today’s video on Tom Hiddleston.Now I’m not saying Tom is always nervous, but he’s a great person to learn this from. He’s incredibly likeable despite showing some telltale signs of nervousness in interviews. Like filler words, fidgeting, and blushing.Despite those habits, Tom is considered extremely charismatic, humble, and charming.So in this video we’ll break down 5 easy tricks you can learn from Tom to come off as charismatic even when you’re nervous.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro1:16 - #1: Anchor a positive first impression2:13 - #2: Use a one second cliffhanger pause4:05 - #3: Keep your voice confident using pace and timbre4:55 - #4: Fully commit7:27 - #5: Focus on having fun rather than looking cool-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHiddleston #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Questions That Reveal What You Really Want

Nov 11, 2026 16 min

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CU-013-25Most people spend their lives bouncing between pleasing others and chasing freedom—never realizing both paths can feel like a trap. This video breaks down the psychological tug-of-war between ego and superego, inspired by a powerful scene from Shogun. If you've ever felt stuck between doing what you should do and what you want to do, this might reframe everything.00:00 - Intro00:23 - Shogun00:59 - The Scene01:56 - Living Ego 03:03 - The Dilemma 03:35 - Super Ego04:44 - Coping05:57 - Finding The Truth06:58 - The Middle Way08:03 - 3 Powerful Questions08:50 - What Happens Next09:30 - Living Your Path Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Ajit SinghIkjotChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Have Fun Without Drinking

Nov 11, 2026 7 min

"How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?"https://goo.gl/0uDf6EIt can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is. People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill. That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink.So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't. Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?" Hopefully these musings help :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Powerful Ways to Command Respect Everyday

Nov 11, 2026 17 min

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3UCIrpgSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThere is a way of gaining respect and power that is not about projecting strength, but the truth of who you ARE So in this video we’ll be using Viserys Targaryen's dinner speech to show how you can influence effortlessly and command respect you for who you truly are. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:28 - Force1:00 - Manipulation3:44 - True power4:35 - #1: Share the complexity of your emotional truth5:04 - #2: Own clearly when you're asking someone else to behave in a way that makes you feel better6:06 - #3: Power is most effective when it's consistent6:51 - #4: Don't pretend your demands are requests7:34 - How to stop confusing demands and requests10:41 - How to build social power quickly-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #HouseOfTheDragon #DaemonTargaryen #ViserysTargaryen--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Facts Beat Feelings

Nov 11, 2026 12 min

Facts Beat Feelings - The Trump PredictionDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2BOeluPSo in the in February 2016, 9 months before the election I started making videos about Donald Trumps impressive powers of persuasion and in May, I made this videohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LibRNYJmZ-IThe video talks about the specific things I saw and I recommend watching all of those, I’ll link to them for the specific things I wound up seeing, but I want to talk about the higher level thinking which led me there. And it’s one of the lessons that I got in 2016.Facts Come Before Beliefs Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why I Left Charisma on Command

Nov 11, 2026 14 min

In this video, I open up about the difficult decision to leave Charisma on Command, the falling out with my co-founder, and the personal struggles that led to this moment.I'm also excited to share what’s next and to continue creating content that inspires and empowers.0:00 - Intro0:20 - The short version of the story0:43 - The long version of the story 4:58 - What's next9:02 - A big thank youSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Spot Dangerous Advice

Nov 11, 2026 14 min

I’ve been thinking a lot about the bad decisions I see people make, and even the bad decisions that I have made and I see a common pattern. First you have someone who is relatively uncertain, in a transition period of their life, and then they take the wrong advice.In this video, I want to clarify how to spot bad advice so that you don't wind up trudging down the wrong path for months or years. Here's what I've learned1. Only take advice from people who have the kind of life you desire - you'll know because of what they've achieved, what the people who have followed their advice have achieved and what testing their recommendations proves.2. When you have aspirations that no one around you has lived up to, you need to find a digital mentor. Get online, read a book, just find the person who has done it and study their path.3. Develop a circle of friends who are supportive of your happiness, even if that means change. Cut the ones that only want you in status quo4. Pick teachers that have strong morals. You can't learn a skill set without also picking up a life philosophy, so be careful who you let inHope that helps you filter out the bad advice and move closer towards the kind of life you dream of :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Mistakes That Are Killing Your Relationship (And How To Fix It)

Nov 11, 2026 17 min

Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CU-4HorsemenSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeDr. John Gottman has developed a model that can watch you talk to your partner and then predict with 90% accuracy if your relationship will end. He does this mostly by looking for four common communication mistakes.So today we’ll go over each one AND the four antidotes that can save your relationship if you or your partner have these bad habits. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:25 - #1: Criticism.3:04 - #2: Contempt.6:13 - #3: Defensiveness.8:08 - #4: Stonewalling.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why Everyone Likes Millie Bobby Brown (8 Habits To Steal)

Nov 11, 2026 16 min

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3y4zg8OSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeActress Millie Bobby Brown has a polarizing but effortless charm that has made her incredibly popular. So in today’s video, we’ll break down 8 habits you can steal from Millie that will help you immediately make people like you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:10 - #1: The magnetic effect of having fun0:57 - #2: Soften your tease with a laugh2:17 - #3: Mix in compliments with your teases3:15 - #4: Use warm platonic touch3:32 - #5: Make your life relatable to others5:30 - #6: Give expansive answers6:34 - #7: Turn the conversation back on the other person7:30 - #8: Be a likeable listener--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#MillieBobbyBrown #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Deal With People Who Interrupt You

Nov 11, 2026 11 min

Have you ever been out with a group of people, you start to say something or tell a story, and then somebody cuts you off?It can sap your confidence and leave you in your own head unsure how to get back into the conversation...So today we're going to cover how to captivate a group without getting interrupted!With 6 strategies you can use to engage a group of people so that instead of cutting you off, they're hanging on what you have to say.These strategies touch on both WHAT you say and HOW you say it.0:45 Put pregnant pauses mid-sentence NOT at the end1:17 Express excitement with your voice to activate listener mirror neurons1:48 Be loud enough with your voice and your body so as not to get interrupted2:13 Speak like you deserve to be heard which is also good in group dynamics3:06 Tell tight stories to captivate and develop those social skills3:47 Make yourself enjoyable to listen to4:28 Wrap complaints in story arcs4:50 Relate back to the listenerSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Public Speaking: How To Make An Audience Love You In 90 Seconds

Nov 11, 2026 13 min

6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any AudiencePublic speaking is hard. We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience. https://goo.gl/IpBEnOIn this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds. The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word. And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action.Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-)You can watch the full speech here:https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8sFor the written version: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Concerning Way Modern Men Have Changed

Nov 11, 2026 19 min

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/012-25Jack Reacher and Geralt from the Witcher are fearless in combat, unstoppable in crisis… So why do they shut down around women?In this video, we break down how modern masculinity became passive, what it says about young men today, and how tapping into what you really want can bring your life back online.00:00 - Intro00:18 - Jack Reacher01:00 - The Problem03:30 - How The Male Fantasy Genre Evolved06:06 - The Difference 06:44 - James Bond07:20 - Risking Rejection08:08 - The Witcher08:34 - Social Media09:32 - Monk Mode10:00 - What's Going On?10:46 - The Connection To Male Passiveness12:23 - How To Overcome Your FearsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Ajit SinghChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command

Nov 11, 2026 27 min

How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on CommandSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Become The Biggest YouTuber of All Time

Nov 11, 2026 14 min

Why PewDiePie Is UnstoppableDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2ESHLXzPewdiepie is the biggest YouTuberr by far, its not even close. And with his recent milestone of 50 million subscribers, I thought it would be interesting to look into the factors that contributed to his massive success. And obviously his enormous catalog of videos, and early entry into lets play genre contributed, but in this video we’re going to focus on the psychological factors that make him so unstoppableAnd I promise you, even if you hate Pewdiepie or don’t yet know who he is, you can learn from his success. Because he has tapped into the fundamentals of the way people workWe'll talk about how Pewds got away with not deleting his channel at 50 million subscribers and instead deleted the jacksepticeye channel, how his let's play videos capture attention so well and why he's likely to stay on topSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Adele: How to Be Authentic

Nov 11, 2026 17 min

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2BjiwgXAdele: How to Be AuthenticAdele might be the best singer alive. Her music is soulful and moving. What’s fascinating about her is that the “honesty” in her music extends to her interviews and offstage interactions. So in this video I want to explore what makes Adele come across as so genuine. We'll watch her interviews with Jimmy Fallon on the Tonight Show, James Corden on Carpool Karaoke on The Late Late Show, and Fredrik Skavlan on Skavlan. We'll also listen in on her song "Someone Like You" to watch how she delivers it with such pure emotion.Learning where that feeling arises from will make it easier for you to spot fakers and it will make it possible for you to become more genuine yourself, which will make people you barely know trust you and want to get to know you better.James Corden And Adele Singing Carpool Karaoke: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nck6B...The three things that Adele does so well that will we cover are:1) Smiling Genuinely2) Being Honest And Congruent With Her Feelings3) Praising Others Openly And FreelySubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why Jimmy Fallon Seems Fake

Nov 11, 2026 16 min

Why Jimmy Fallon Seems Fake On The Tonight ShowDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2Ec8iOcJimmy Fallon’s hosts the most watched Late Night show on TV (the Tonight Show). And in an industry where most games, stunts, and celebrities are interchangeable, that says a lot about his likability. But Jimmy is not universally adored. A glance at the YouTube comments shows that some people find him fake. Specifically they think his laugh is fake.In this video we’ll look into the things that may make it seem that way to some. Oddly enough, it’s also his biggest strength.Long story short, I think it isn't (it's probably just a habit Jimmy picked up while working at SNL) but what's most interesting is how his laughter affects the people around him - and what we can learn from that "easy laugh"6:59 Watch videos that make you laugh 7:27 Paying compliments by laughing at someone's joke 8:32 Celebrate stupid little things10:02 Doing goofy things that you find personally amusingFunny videos I like to watch:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IixQox4rhEwhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nEl04eG8EgSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 AWFUL Habits That Instantly Make People Look Down On You

Nov 11, 2026 14 min

Get The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2FU1zsL3 Mistakes That Butcher First ImpressionsYou might be butchering your first impressions without even realizing it. Not cause you’re a self-absorbed jerk, but because a lot of the most well-intentioned advice you’ve received is incomplete. And if you don’t understand the fine points of when that advice applies and when it doesn’t you might miss out on hitting it off with your next close friend, business partner, or even boyfriend or girlfriend.So I want to shed some light on 3 common first impressions mistakes I see that all stem from good advice gone wrong.1) Thinking that harmony “getting along” and not causing waves is the most important thing2) Avoiding disagreements and focusing only on commonalities3) Thinking "fake it til you make it" applies beyond non-verbal communicationSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups

Nov 10, 2026 14 min

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EsiXrrWill Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma. Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in. You might find it hard to hold people's attention. This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower.The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups. And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example. He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation. Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! Check out our book : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Never Go Blank Again: 4 Go To Jokes Anyone Can Use

Nov 10, 2026 10 min

Join Our 8000+ Members At Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3CfNW5P5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charminghttps://bit.ly/2SkU9e0Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all had that moment where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It sucks.So in this video, we’ll go through easy ways to get a laugh in 4 different situations: when someone else is talking, when you get teased and need a comeback, when you’re asked a question, and when you’re telling a story.And rather than go through examples where you need to be insanely witty, these are purposefully some of the absolute easiest ways you can get a laugh. Do these consistently and people will love being around you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:44 - #1: Do the wordless walk off1:55 - #2: Use an appearance analogy3:33 - #3: Say an absurd answer5:00 - #4: Laugh as you tell a joke or funny story-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Comedy--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Sentence Finisher: Make People Love Talking To You

Nov 10, 2026 13 min

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3umpdd9Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all had those moments where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It can be frustrating, especially when you’re talking to someone you really want to like you.So in today’s video, we’ll go through 6 easy ways you can make people laugh or just love being around you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:12 - #1: Finish someone's incomplete sentence with a joke1:48 - #2: Surprise them with unexpected absurd answers2:59 - #3: Pivot to an exaggerated version of your real answer4:12 - #4: Start saying your positive thoughts out loud5:09 - #5: Be relentlessly positive6:34 - #6: Focus on having fun--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#ChrisHemsworth #ChrisEvans #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Created by: Charisma on Command
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Latest episode: Nov 11, 2026
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