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Trump v. Clinton: Who Won The Last Debate?

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Debate Analysis on Trump and Hillary Third Presidential DebateDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2nMoIXlThe second and third presidential debates between Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton are in the books and everyone is talking about who won but today, we're not talking about policies or strength of argument. I want to analyze who won strictly from a charisma angle so let's get into it. The first thing to note is that previous presidential debates, especially the primaries, were defined by zingers and there were a handful mostly from Trump. There was a different vibe in this debate though since the audience couldn't laugh out loud at Hillary and there were longer uninterrupted stretches to answer questions. Instead of punchy one-liners, these debates came down to two main principles. This is an analysis on the final debate and the election is getting near the end!0:57 Credibility -- being an authority on the issues (Hillary won)1:08 Use of specific numbers to build authority (tie between Trump and Hillary)2:13 Specificity does not equal truth 2:29 Comfort in answering difficult questions (I'd say Clinton won, though Trump had a rougher go from the moderators)6:25 Conviction and congruency being major contributors to charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Avoid Being Socially Awkward

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Join our 5000+ members over at Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3UpWEG9Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe have all had moments in our lives where we were more awkward than we would like to be, and we have all had moments where we surprised ourselves with how charming, charismatic and confident we can be. The questions is: how do we go from one to the other on command? I think that Elon Musk is a great example of someone that represents the best of both worlds. That's why in this video, I want to dive into some clips of Elon to see what you can learn, and how to turn those moments where you are awkward and turn them into ones where you are charming and charismatic.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.1:58 - #1: Elaborate on the question2:33 - #2: Make consistent eye contact.3:47 - #3: Crack an understated joke.5:06 - #4: Embrace the silence.6:08 - #5: Prime yourself.7:22 - #6: Fully commit.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#ElonMusk #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Subtle Tactics To Outsmart Anyone

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How Littlefinger Controls The Game of Throneshttps://goo.gl/uNmVQHSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2FGX6ujLittlefinger Is probably the single best player in the Game of Thrones. He’s indirectly led to the downfall of at least 3 major houses and has advanced his station at every opportunity. In this video we’re going to do an analysis on what it is that he does that makes him win and how deviating from his strategy may lead him to the end of his winning streak.2 caveats. First spoilers through season 6 and some speculation into season 7. And two, don’t do the things little finger does. It’s fun to analyze Littlefinger manipulations and learn how you can avoid them in your own life - Sansa Stark would benefit for certain - just don’t be a liar and backstabber. It’s not cool.Let’s begin - Game of Thrones is all about power. Some people, like Cersei, use their position to command others. Or people like the Mountain who literally just dominate through brute force. But in the long run, it’s those who wield power more subtly who excel at the game. And perhaps no one is more subtle the Petyr Baelish. He is the ultimate power player in the game because he gets other people to do what he wants, without them even knowing he’s influenced them 01:10 Littlefinger got the power subtly and not by force in Game of Thrones07:53 Cersei Lannister is opposite of Petyr Baelish in terms of subtlety08:14 Petyr Baelish in HBO Game of Thrones lets other think they control him09:46 Marriage scene with Tyrion Lannister13:15 Littlefinger talks to Sophie Turner as Sansa StarkConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):In...

This Scene Will Change How You Handle Conflict

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Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/013-26-MikeThere are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference.0:00 - Intro2:05 - Be Explicit3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why3:56 - Don't Take Full ResponsibilitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Edited by Akash RajpurohitWritten by Charlie HoupertDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Habits That Make Your Personality Irresistible

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As requested! A breakdown analyzing Loki's charm and appeal :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThe Marvel Cinematic Universe is pretty much the only thing guaranteed to get me to the movie theater on opening night. I am literally counting down to Thor: Ragnarok! But even though the Marvel movies are amazing, there is popular criticism that their villains are kind of weak. And yet, from Thor to Avengers to Thor The Dark World, Loki is the one villain that everybody seems to adore and root for. While most Marvel villains get killed off or captured after just one film, Loki has now played a major role in 4 films. Loki won MTV's sexiest Avenger. There’s even been petitions for Tom Hiddleston to star in a Loki standalone movie. I believe there are four major reasons why Loki has literally gotten away with murder and become one of the biggest fan favorites in the Marvel universe.And understanding these four things will help so you too can get away with making mistakes or screwing up, without it being something people hold against you. 0:55 Loki is the best villain as he is charming3:38 We understand and relate to Loki 7:32 He is a tortured soul as shown in these Loki best scenes9:50 You can't keep Loki down being the brother of ThorConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Become A Master Of Influence

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Link to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence:https://goo.gl/y2CvdQGame of Thrones: How Power Really WorksGame of Thrones is all about power games. What many people don't realize is that behind those power games are clashes of the way people see the world. There are clashes of frames. The people who can control these frames (like Tyrion Lannister and Tywin Lannister) tend to win over the Game of Thrones people who struggle more often (like Robb Stark).There are tons of ways you can use this understanding of frames in your normal life. We'll look at three in this videoNote: the spoilers go up only through season 4, so if you haven't seen all the way to season 6, you are still good to watch1) Breaking frames for persuasion (Tyrion vs. Shagga)2) Frames in insults (Tyrion vs Robb Stark and Robb Stark vs. Jaime Lannister)3) Frames to create options (Tyrion vs. Tywin and Tyrion vs. Lysa Arryn)Let me know how you feel about these fictional breakdowns! I have never done one in the past and would love your feedback. Especially let me know if you like Game of Thrones related breakdowns, because there is a lot more I could potentially cover (like Tyrion's charisma and persuasive abilities)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ted Lasso Leadership Lessons That Work

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Join Over 8000+ Members At Charisma University:http://bit.ly/3VnzumsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThe character Ted Lasso is probably most well known for his wildly positive attitude. This is an awesome trait we may cover in a future video. But in today’s video, we’re going to dive into leadership.While the show is pure fiction, Ted demonstrates techniques that real life leaders like Steve Jobs, Larry Page, and Phil Jackson used to achieve great success.If you already naturally do these things, it’s a sign that under the right circumstances you could be a fantastic leader.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:59 - #1: Make everyone feel like they matter3:12 - #2: Align your goals.4:15 - #3: Create lieutenants.7:07 - #4: Actively solicit feedback and try to improve.8:45 - #5: Have empathy for the people you lead.9:51 - #6: Celebrate other people's wins.11:38 - #7: Create belief in a motivating vision.13:20 - #8: Don't deny reality.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TedLasso #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Surprising Psychology Of OnlyFans Simps (Explicit)

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Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $40 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe With credit card in hand, I signed up for an OnlyFans investigation. What I found surprised me, not only what it said about human psychology, but also the direction that consumerism is taking all of us. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰0:00 - Intro1:26 - #1: Dopamine hooks3:48 - #2: Recognition, intimacy and community5:22 - #3: "Guaranteed acceptance"--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#BellaThorne #CharismaOnCommand-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Funny Jokes You Can Copy Today

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Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoCGervaisReynoldsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, we’ll break down some jokes from Ryan Reynolds and Ricky Gervais so you can learn how to make people laugh and love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:22 - #1: The Sincerity Fakeout1:44 - #2: Say the opposite2:06 - #3: Use an absurd answer2:49 - #4: Create a ridiculous mental image5:58 - #5: Tease something that's unlikely an insecurity-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RickyGervais #RyanReynolds #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Avoid These Body Language Mistakes to Be Liked

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Animation: https://zeino.tv/Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-ZeinoCharismaMistakesToday, we're delving into 5 pitfalls that can diminish your charisma, and what you should do instead, to steer clear of these mistakes. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Scanning the room0:27 - #2: Don't let someone interrupt while someone else is talking to you1:13 - #3: Trapping1:37 - #4: Communicating shame2:12 - #5: The eyebrow flash-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Zeino--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To ACTUALLY Improve Your Self-Esteem

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Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free 30-day trial today by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeJoin our email list to learn more about our Emotional Mastery course (we'll be launching it next week):http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTDIt’s obvious that confidence and self-esteem are the defining traits of happiness and success. And for a long time I thought that high self esteem was the end all be all. If you had that - you were set, but I actually think there is another internal mindset that’s even more important. That concept is self love - unconditional self love - and that's what I want to share in this video.0:00 Self Esteem and self love and self improvement and personal development and more!Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This Is Why Logan Paul Keeps Winning

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Why Logan Paul Is A GeniusSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2DaJYvFLogan Paul has the fastest growing channel on YouTube and he’s unlikely to slow down. I originally wanted to cover him for this reason alone - after all you have to do something right to accrue millions of new fans a month. But after digging in, I found out that he is doing something special on the business business - so this is as much a charisma breakdown as it is a business and sales breakdown. I spoke about this at length in the Pewdiepie video, but the jump cuts and intense emotion keep the video incredibly engaging since the human brain is trained to pay attention to people showing strong emotion as well as anything that changes rapidly. Logan Paul is a natural performer and comedian who is willing to be goofy in public.Together with his brother Jake Paul, the two are poised to move from Vine and conquer YouTube. 1:40 Chloe Bennet comments but Logan knows what has to be done2:52 Logan Paul loves what he does as shown when he does his vlog8:51 Paul shows the merch and Maverick clothes plus the hollywood hero trophySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Be Confident Under Pressure (Even if You're Shy)

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The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:👉 https://bit.ly/016-26-IndePressure can destroy your confidence when you need it most. Your mind goes blank, you stumble over your words, and opportunities slip away.In this video, we break down how Inde Navarrette stays charismatic in high-pressure moments, despite being naturally shy. You’ll learn how to prime yourself for confidence, mirror the energy in any room, and turn nervousness into connection.You’ll also discover why admitting you’re nervous can make you look more confident, and how to stop holding back so you can express yourself freely at work, on dates, and in your social life.0:00 - Intro1:10 - Priming4:00 - Energy Mirroring5:29 - Announce Your NervesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Jokes That Will Make You The Most Liked Person In The Group

15 min

Ellen Degeneres' Tips To Making People Instantly Like YouDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2nWBHVUWe all want people to like us. And Ellen Degeneres seems to have that down to a science. Ellen Degeneres is one of the most likable hosts on TV. And it’s largely due to the types of jokes that she makes. Almost all hosts are funny, but Ellen’s style of comedy has a way of instantly endearing her guests to her.Today we are going to talk about the most common types of jokes that Ellen makes, how you can use them to get people to immediately like you, and some habits that you can work on to just generally be funnier throughout your day. 1:10 - The kind of jokes that make people sad, ones that Ellen rarely makes2:08 - Self-deprecating jokes make people feel comfortable around Ellen3:10 - Poking fun at subjects that people are not insecure about allows Ellen to crack jokes without upsetting people5:20 - Making ego boosting jokes that make other people feel good, makes Ellen someone that people want to spend more time with5:59 - Ellen can also joke around and just simply be silly Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupertSnapchat: @charliehoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Psychological Tricks That Won The Election

21 min

Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $40 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma For more charisma, politics and philosophy check out our podcast:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xA7WMqhiKgSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeFour and a half years ago I made a video predicting long shot candidate Trump would beat Hillary Clinton to become President. I talked about how he had better slogans, better media strategy, and better zingers.I’m not making the same prediction this year because Trump’s campaign savviness is no where near where it was in 2016.  But in my opinion, the race is NOT as far apart as the polls show and the messaging in this final stretch could turn the tide.  In fact, I don’t think I’ve ever seen 2 more beatable candidates than I did in the first debateWhich is why in this video we’re going to cover the persuasion, political strategy, and dirty politics Trump could use to beat Biden.  I also want to show how Biden could use the same to counter Trump and put him away.  So don’t worry, no matter who support, there will be something to love and hate in this video. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:57 - #1: Trump's position coming into the election.3:40 - #2: How Trump can attack Biden.6:21 - #3: Each candidate needs to dictate the core issue.11:33 - #4: Both candidates needs to speak in sensory language.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#Trump #Biden #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If You Want To Charm People, Play The "Opposite" Game

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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2FqI2AMSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeAlso as promised, here is our breakdown on why Chris Pratt is so awesome:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_SmshF2ynwAnd here is our recent video “How To Create An Attractive Voice”:https://youtu.be/RuXkEJzmp50If you’ve ever wanted to know what personality type leads to being beloved by men and women alike, you’re going to like this video about Chris Hemsworth and Thor: Ragnarok.I started researching for this video intending to make something around “Thor: Ragnarok”. But I very quickly realized that the real person worth studying is Chris Hemsworth. A single Chris Hemsworth interview can make you laugh, smile, and say "aw". It's really hard not to like him!There are four things about Chris Hemsworth that seem to truly make people love being around him.Even castmates that started out wanting NOT to like Chris Hemsworth end up raving about him and saying how funny he is or how sweet he is.And the hype for his latest movie Thor: Ragnaraok is off the charts! The Thor Ragnarok trailer looks amazing and it's because we finally found a director that’s willing to let Chris Hemsworth and Thor bleed their personalities together just like Robert Downey Jr. and Iron Man.And as you see in the video it literally transformed Thor from the worst ranked Marvel film on Rotten Tomatoes (Thor: The Dark World) to the highest (Thor: Ragnarok).Which reflects even more impressively on how funny Chris Hemsworth is when you consider that director Taika Waititi claims Thor: Ragnarok is ~80% improvised.So let’s take a look at Chris Hemsworth’s personality and what makes him so special.2:33 How To Make Jokes That Elevate The People Around You (and make them love you for it)4:16 How To Be Funny By Teasing And How To Be Genuine5:30 How To Touch In A Way People Like And How To Touch Without Being Creepy10:11 How To Share Embarrassing...

How Tom Hardy Turns Social Anxiety Into Charisma

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Join Over 8000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3T8Y9YvDespite having social anxiety growing up, Tom Hardy has transformed himself into someone that oozes confidence and is incredibly popular.Tom’s charisma is unusual because he doesn’t follow the normal advice you might see on something like a body language list. He’ll often slouch or fidget in conversation, doing things you’re quote unquote not supposed to do.But Tom has a few core mindsets you can steal that will instantly make you more confident in almost any social situation. These mindsets allow him to project a confident “I don’t give a f**k” attitude that draws people to him.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:50 - #1: Be willing to polarize1:35 - #2: Allow yourself to have authentic reactions3:45 - #3: Stop trying to look flawless5:23 - The shadow rule6:47 - #4: Prioritize your own comfort8:38 - Are your fears holding you back?10:49 - Links & more videos-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHardy #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Masculine Move Most Men Are Too Afraid to Make

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Build the confidence to take direct action in conversations, dating, and real life: https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacherMost men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples.You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want.0:00 - Intro0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct actionSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Skill That Lets You Speak Without Freezing

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Click here to level up your charisma:http://bit.ly/3IqmZ6FCheck out our new show, Improv & Dragons:https://bit.ly/ImprovAndDragonsImprov comedians have some of the fastest wit. Getting to that speed is tough, but you can implement just a few basic habits to make people think you’re much wittier in normal conversation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:36 - #1: Purposely misinterpret2:31 - #2: Create improv scenes5:47 - #3: Lower your filter-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BrennanLeeMulligan #RussellBrand #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

100,000 Subscriber Thank You + Giveaway

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100,000 Subscriber Thank You + GiveawayDidn't think I'd get to do this soon! We just hit 100,000 subscribers earlier this week and I wanted to thank everyone who has watched, subscribed, and shared our channel. Aside from just extending our thanks, we're offering 10 of our subscribers a chance to win a brand new module on Dealing With Conflict. It will cover how to come out of those difficult situations getting what you want while still maintaining a strong relationship.So if you're interested in participating, here's how:1) Share your favorite video of ours on Facebook2) Make sure to tag Charisma on CommandThat's it. We'll add your submission up to 3 times for 3 shares over the next week. The giveaway ends Thursday April 21st. We'll randomly choose the 10 winners then and contact them in the following days.Thanks for making this possible :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Dangerous Side Of Tom Cruise’s Charisma

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The Dangerous Side Of Tom Cruise’s CharismaSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandHere, we try to look into the dangerous side of Tom Cruise's charisma. Tom Cruise is known as one of the most charismatic celebrities in Hollywood. When Rolling Stone writer and author Neil Strauss met him, he described him as “the perfect specimen” who has “a natural ability to remain dominant in any social situation without seeming to exert any effort.”As amazing as that sounds, that kind of superhuman charisma does have a dangerous downside. And it’s both of those things that we’re going to explore in this video: the specific behaviors that make Tom Cruise such a dominant social force. And the potential cost of being so charismatic. Below are the ones that make him so charismatic.0:36 Tom Cruise commands his physical space as in The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon 2:20 He genuinely smiles all the time and with other celebrities2:53 He mentions the name of the person he's talking to as in this NBC interview3:37 Tom Cruise keeps eye contact and in Oprah as well4:28 His talent in conversation also shows when he leans in when talkingSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The 3 Mindsets That Secretly Ruin Your Happiness

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Subscribe to get more videos like this:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThis video is about how to be happier for the rest of your life, starting today. We’re going to cover 3 common mindsets that lead to unhappiness. Most people don’t even realize they have these mindsets, or if they do, they don’t know how to stop them. We’ll also discuss some lessons from Stoicism so that you can feel more joy every day. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:16 - #1: Unmet desire4:12 - #2: Isolated upward comparison7:26 - #3: Expectations--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#Stoicism #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Links:“You Are Living The Dream Life” meditation:https://dynamic.wakingup.com/course/CO6B78897 Waking Up app free trial:https://www.wakingup.com/jayshetty Invisible People:https://www.youtube.com/@InvisiblePeopleSpecial Books By Special Kids:https://www.youtube.com/@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids Breathwork for internally generated peace and joy:https://youtu.be/hzwVp7W-ghM?si=SBpSlg1SGCJNBmpnCharisma University:https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ More Celebrities On Being Rich But Unhappy:https://youtu.be/0N19fJbA6GQ?si=jxW_pdLLPabefakRhttps://youtu.be/6Fvmq638E3Y?si=q71eMer9csvRbEGEhttps://youtu.be/KqtRTc3VYq4?si=jeHrLMenMrjlIhauhttps://youtu.be/WrkT079iRYU?si=oVW1zJzop0p12FQOhttps://youtu.be/1ebEIhS0Zms?si=pKULiWHkQBqOGF_v https://youtu.be/6RcrnuZg_Z4?si=cWR554On8WzNUlEF https://youtu.be/Xn9olk63hVE?si=u3og8q_PWrN-nnWHhttps://youtu.be/IHJSWDSlie8?si=22tRnla-xdVpC445https://youtu.be/Zz5DHufWlCM?si=TGYXIF_PTtb1T9zDhttps://youtu.be/OmWrqelCAJA?si=6Tg45Jum7sJl8G8u Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to Instantly Save Any Awkward Moment

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Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3FL8h6uSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday we are reacting to cringe, and we will try to find out how you can save an awkward situation and turn it into a fun interaction! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:54 - #1: Crack an understated joke.2:01 - #2: Lower the filter.4:16 - #3: Acknowledge the situation.4:52 - #4: See yourself out and never come back.8:01 - #5: Go first.Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What Narcissistic Manipulation Looks Like

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Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoCLoganNarcissismSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeNarcissistic and manipulative behavior can wind up destroying your life, and it can be tough to spot, especially when it’s coming from someone you trust.So in this video you’ll learn 5 red flags that you’re being narcissistically manipulated. You can also use these as signs that you’ve slipped into narcissistic tendencies yourself, so you can cut them out before damaging your relationships.We’ll be using Logan Paul’s reaction to Coffeezilla calling out his cryptozoo project for examples.Links:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-fugWMBwCg&t=1s&ab_channel=Coffeezillahttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Evs2Hcn3nMY&ab_channel=IMPAULSIVEhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viiuS8bOuGE⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:50 - Red Flag 1: Morphing critisism.2:15 - Red Flag 2: Spending more time on their feelings than yours.4:17 - Red Flag 3: Repeatedly insisting on having good intentions.5:20 - Red Flag 4: Projecting badness onto those poking at their self-image.6:14 - Red Flag 5: Narcissistic rage.7:08 - Final Point: Narcissism is not excessive self-love. It’s a lack of self-love.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #LoganPaul #Coffeezilla #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Take Control Of Any Conversation Without Trying

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How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2ENXozaLearning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview. This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Easy Ways To Be Effortlessly Hilarious

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How Louis CK Makes Everything FunnyDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2BOd1InThe humor breakdown I mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRjRgT8QQ3cLouis CK is one of the most respected comedians in the world. And part of it is because he seems so effortlessly funny. There’s no big action like Jim Carrey or Robin Williams, no elaborately clever set ups, just simple truths that make audiences crack upBut it’s not that simple. Because while the truth makes for good art, it isn’t always funny. Louis CK has devised a way of delivering his stories and jokes in packages that are different from what most of us do. And because of that he’s able to create hilarious moments from everyday commentary. Today we’re going to explore 3 of Louis techniques that will make you make just about anything funnier1:00 Louis CK times it where this Stephen Colbert clip shows4:24 Louis CK repeats the punchline like in this Jimmy Fallon clip 7:27 Louis CK acts his jokes out like in The Tonight Show and moreSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Habits That Make First Impressions Amazing

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Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3udCRxISubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeLook under any YouTube video of Simu Liu and you'll see commenters praising his charisma. He’s new to being an A-list celebrity, but he’s making an incredible first impression.So in this video, we’ll go through 6 mistakes most people make during their first impressions, and 6 habits you can learn from Simu that will let you make an amazing first impression instead. These habits are super easy to do, most people just don’t think to do them. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:37 - Make A Strong EntranceMistake: thinking a first impression starts when you start speaking2:03 - Get comfortable taking up the space around youMistake: keeping your arms tight to your body while you speak3:30 - Look for Observational Compliments early in the interactionMistake: trying to be “cool” by coming in aloof or standoffish4:34 - Elevate the people around youMistake: focusing solely on trying to make yourself look good5:29 - Be an Encouraging ListenerMistake: thinking that to make a good impression, you have to do all the talking7:20 - Have great answers for the questions you know you’re likely to be askedMistake: having boring answers to the standard questions you know are coming--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#SimuLiu #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Mindsets That Make You Incredibly Charismatic

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Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/7G2Go26 Mindsets That Will Make You MagneticWhen it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff. Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic. But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions. Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally. In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs. If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you.Those charismatic beliefs are 1. No matter what, I will be okay2. I care more about my character than my reputation3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything5. I share my purpose proactively6. I go there first in humanizing interactionIf you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupertSnapchat: @charliehoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to Be Loved for Your Quiet Presence

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Join Over 21,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-00225Full podcast episode:https://youtu.be/SRLljn_GEHk?si=flYq1iwyUwEC22-TThe most underrated social skill is so subtle it often goes unnoticed—but it has the power to change lives, including yours. In this video, I reveal the transformative art of "holding space," a skill that's not about fixing, advising, or encouraging, but simply being present for someone in their moments of vulnerability.Through Theo Von's deeply empathetic interaction with Sean Strickland, who shares harrowing stories of his past, we explore how this skill can create profound connections. You'll learn to recognize dissociation, switch conversational modes, and offer support without an agenda.0:00 - Intro0:11 - Here is the skill0:46 - Disconnected emotions1:32 - The underlying emotions break through1:57 - Switch conversational modes3:49 - Just listen4:45 - Encourage emotional exploration Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandWritten by:Charlie HoupertEdited by:Io AnastasakiHenry HoupertAndre Ringkjøb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How Being A "Nice Guy" Is Sabotaging Your Relationships

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The Nice Guy Paradox: How Being A "Nice Guy" Is Sabotaging Your Relationships And How To Get More Of What You Want In Life.Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThe "Nice Guy" gets harpooned in today's society. We're told that nice guys finish last, that nice guys can't get the girl. And this is true of nice women as well. I completely disagree. I think that might be true of a weak person, an indecisive person, someone who lacks confidence or people skills.A "nice guy" can be an incredibly charismatic, strong leading, attractive person. Now that being said, there IS a habit that I see from "nice" people that is sabotaging your relationships. And there's a better way of doing things that can help you get more of what you want while conveying extreme levels of confidence and will make people respect you more.* I'm appreciative to the book No More Mr. Nice Guy and to Landmark Forum. Both contributed to my learning this about myself and starting to observe it in others *1:12 Build confidence and stop scorekeeping as Dr. Robert Glover say2:08 As Dr. Robert Glover said about the nice guy syndrome where guilt is instilled3:58 Nice guys finish last because of the reply no and present being a nice guy4:42 Not necessarily how to stop being nice or how to ask for love but a tip for common caseConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music):Instagram: @IamBenAltmanInstagram: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Signs Someone Is Lying To You

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How to tell if someone is lying to youDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2C4PWg0How can you tell if someone is lying? How many times do you think that you've been lied to today? Go ahead and take a guess because the answer might shock you. Studies show that on the low end, that the number of lies is somewhere around ten times. And on the high end, that number could be up to two hundred times in just one day. You are being lied to constantly so this is a video on how to tell if someone is lying to you. What’s worse, your lie detection capabilities are definitely not 100%. In fact, studies show that they could be anywhere from 50% to 75% wrong. This video is meant to put the odds back in your favor because there are things that you’re probably not taught that can help you become a human lie detector. And I want to cover those four things plus touch on some examples of some masterful liars getting caught in the act. If you’ve enjoyed this one, go ahead and make sure to subscribe to the channel. We have tons of videos on how to boost your charisma, your confidence and of course, your ability to read social situations. So if you never want to miss one of those, click Subscribe and you’ll see us on your homepage every single week. I hope that you’ve enjoyed this video and I look forward to seeing you in the next one.Key points to tell if someone is lying:0:46 How can you tell if someone is lying? Body language1:40 Good liars know how to lie so here's "blocking" as a follow-up2:51 The liars "duping delight"4:36 The "redirection" of the lie6:10 Test the chronology of the lieSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHo...

Common Social Mistakes Most People Make

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9 Mistakes That Kill Your CharismaDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2nVneJxYou may be doing some pretty little things that can have a big negative effect on what people think about you so in this video, we're going to cover nine of the most common mistakes you may be making that can kill your charisma and some quick fixes. Here we go. First — not proactively introducing yourself. Many people feel uncomfortable when they enter into a new group so in order to keep a low profile, they often offer a small hand wave or just stand there quietly — this is uncomfortable for everyone involved. So the next time that you find yourself entering or being pulled into a small group, make sure to make eye contact and introduce yourself to everyone there with the handshake.0:14 Not proactively introducing yourself 0:46 Not introducing your friends when you're in a new group0:55 Talking about things no one cares about1:16 Not soliciting feedback will not help self improvement1:41 Trailing off or mumbling may not show self confidence2:03 Answering questions with single words2:31 Whining will not help with personal development 2:42 Not remembering names won't help with your social skills3:08 Lack of principles won't help with your charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupertMUSIC:https://goo.gl/2sKQlI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To ACTUALLY Deliver A Great Presentation

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Link to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence: https://goo.gl/kaWl1iHow To Give An Amazing Speech Without Using NotesPublic speaking is terrifying. But at some point in your life, no matter how much you avoid it, you’re going to get called on to give a speech. It could be a presentation for work, a best man speech at a wedding, who knows. And if you can’t give it without notes, you’re at a huge disadvantage. Because not only does it come off as less authentic if you’re constantly referencing notes, but if the powerpoint breaks, you’re screwed.This video is going to to teach you how I regularly talk for 10-20 minutes, with minimal memorization and how you can learn to public speak without any notes too.0:32 - Outline your speech in memory friendly form2:00 - Write out everything on paper (or computer)2:43 - Subvocalize your speech without using visual cues4:25 - Memorize the first and last sentences word for wordSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Recurring Dream You've Been Having Is Trying To Tell You Something

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Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions.In this video, I explain why this is a mistake.You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions.0:00 - Intro1:49 - Carl Jung2:43 - The Consciousness Iceberg 9:44 - Step 1 10:01 - Step 210:28 - Step 311:08 - Step 4Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Recover After You Betray People

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Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-007-25Sometimes, the harder we try to make people like us, the more we push them away. Whether it's trying to seem cool, covering up a mistake, or shifting blame, certain phrases can turn a minor slip-up into a lasting loss of respect. In this video, we break down five common behaviors that can make people dislike you—and how to handle these moments better.Timestamps:0:00 - Intro0:43 - Phrase #12:25 - Phrase #23:28 - Phrase #34:38 - Phrase #45:56 - Boundary Poking7:08 - Phrase #57:56 - How to redeem yourself11:05 - The fastest way to improve your confidence and charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: / charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo edited by:Andre RingkjoebIntro edited by:Barcuch & Ikjot Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Signs You're Being Lied To Without Knowing

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Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3qHIyTjSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIf you can’t tell when someone is lying, it opens you up to being manipulated, cheated on, or stolen from, and having no idea until it’s too late.So in today’s video, we’ll go through 9 tricks for spotting a liar.We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of actors lying about the movie Spiderman: No Way Home. Fair warning, there will be minor spoilers.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:47 - #1: They avoid answering questions1:08 - #2: Watch for duper's delight2:05 - #3: Establish a baseline of their normal behavior3:17 - #4: They give a soft response3:21 - #5: Watch for deception testing4:47 - #6: They give indirect responses6:15 - #7: The "Bill Clinton" method6:46 - #8: A bigger laugh than normal-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How Timothée Chalamet Makes Awkward Look Attractive (How You Can Too)

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Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:http://bit.ly/4n2UQS8Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeTimothée Chalamet has two traits you don't often see go hand in hand. He's self admittedly very awkward, and yet women find him incredibly attractive.This is interesting because Timothée is not your stereotypical jock alpha male, in either looks or personality. He’s shy and at times seems uncomfortable when speaking: looking down, fidgeting, or putting his hands in his pockets. How can someone who’s self admittedly awkward be so attractive? While he’s definitely handsome, much of Timothée’s attractiveness comes through in his personality. Part of what makes Timothée so magnetic is how well he handles potentially awkward moments.So in this video, we’ll go over 7 tricks you can learn from Timothée to turn your awkward moments into moments where you’re actually making yourself more attractive. 5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You (Brie Larson):https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBCcDrG2NjMHow To Stand Up For Yourself Without Starting A Fight (Jonah Hill):https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSXoI9MDvU0⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.1:12 - #1: Radiate positivity2:57 - #2: Appear unfazed by smiling through a tease4:28 - #3: Don't assume negative intent in ambiguous situations6:22 - #4: Call out the awkwardness9:03 - #5: Pass the conversational spotlight to the other person9:58 - #6: Share your higher purpose12:14 - #7: If this doesn't go well, on with the rest of life--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#TimotheeChalamet #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices...

Only Fans: Exploiting Men's Loneliness For Profit

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Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $40 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe With credit card in hand, I signed up for an OnlyFans investigation. What I found surprised me, not only what it said about human psychology, but also the direction that consumerism is taking all of us. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰0:00 - Intro1:26 - #1: Dopamine hooks3:48 - #2: Recognition, intimacy and community5:22 - #3: "Guaranteed acceptance"--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#BellaThorne #CharismaOnCommand-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Habits That Make You Look Insecure (And What To Do Instead)

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Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoCLowStatusHabitsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video we’re going to show you 6 unattractive habits that instantly make it look like you lack confidence. And what you can do instead to command more respect in your conversations.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:07 - #1: Avoidant body language1:31 - #2: Talking tentatively3:40 - #3: Asking first instinct questions4:50 - #4: Retreating after a miss6:30 - #5: Injecting an unnecessary brag into conversation7:56 - #6: Prioritizing being agreeable over being true to yourself-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Exercises

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Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You MeetLink to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence: https://goo.gl/OJ4dxkDaily Tip: Charismatic Body Language ExercisesDeadlift tutorial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8ghzmmF_FASubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate Anyone

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Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/gQT6DNElliott Hulse's tip for a deeper voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0Original video: https://youtu.be/wiOwqDmacJo?t=2m14s3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate AnyoneNeil deGrasse Tyson is an amazing speaker. He's one of the select group of science educators that appeal to mainstream America. Truly, some of the topics he covers are fascinating. But the truth is that the majority of his appeal comes from the way in which he speaks.In this video, we cover three simple vocal tips that will make you a more captivating speaker. You'll learn how to use your voice in a way that gets people leaning forward and hoping you tell them more.Those tips are, in short1. Take longer, deeper breaths to lower your voice2. Strategically use silence to hook people's attention3. Develop vocal range in terms of speed, cadence, and styleEnjoy, and let us know if you're enjoying the throwback videos!Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Psychology Expert: How To Stop Overthinking All The Time

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How Tony Robbins Outsmarts DepressionDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2EapCafTony Robbins is probably the most gifted communicator I have ever seen. One of his most amazing feats is that in his live seminars, he is able to take people from feeling depressed to empowered in just one conversation. So in this video, we’re going to talk about just one of the techniques that Tony Robbins uses to accomplish this. It’s called a state break and that is anything that you do to shift someone from one emotion to another. It sounds simple, but if you can master this skill, your ability to help other people, to persuade, and to live a more fulfilled life goes through the roof. 0:50 Anthony Robbins gives the opposite of what they expect3:20 Tony Robbins resorts to humor like in I Am Not Your Guru7:35 Calls for body motion for self help and personal developmentSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert personal development Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to Apologize Without Shame: The Upright Apology

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Learn more about Charisma University: https://bit.ly/021-25Most apologies, whether public or personal, feel fake because they are. This video breaks down why apologies often miss the mark, how shame gets in the way of real growth, and what it takes to make a genuine, meaningful apology.My podcast with Joe Hudson:https://youtu.be/KxiPnflbwJI?si=ocYol2HiZU3DpIB3Joe Hudson's YouTube channel:‪@ArtofAccomplishment‬ Get $300 off Joe Hudson's Connection Course:https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/charisma-on-command0:00 - Intro1:30 - The problem2:28 - How this applies to your life3:02 - A real apology 3:19 - How can we fix it?3:54 - The Shame "Hot Potato"6:14 - The problem with shame5:52 - Why I made this video7:34 - The 4 steps to an upright apology9:26 - How to further improve relationshipsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Persuade And Influence People

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Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People https://goo.gl/SaV6sp Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people. As president, there is very little ha can do on his own. So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions.In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior. Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace.If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCkSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Dating Mistakes That Make Her Think Of You As A Friend

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4 Steps To Escape The "Friend Zone"Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression (join our email list with this link):http://bit.ly/2ExoklEThe dreaded friend zone. Like it or not, it's a common experience amongst many people and escaping the friend zone can be a confusing prospect. That's why in this video I want to show you 4 steps to get out of the friend zone and maybe wind up with a boyfriend or a girlfriend1:11 Take responsibility so as not to be in the friend zone2:00 Focus on bettering yourself 3:23 Steady your nerves and work on that charisma8:00 Reveal your feelings and see how to escape the friend zoneConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Give Me 8 Minutes And I'll 10x Your Productivity

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How to 10x Your Productivity, and Achieve More With Your Time!Interested in learning more about Charisma University?Click here: https://goo.gl/cu5ve2In many ways, I consider myself a lazy person, which doesn't mean that I sit at home and I stuff my face all day while watching bad re-runs. It just means that I like to protect my free time. I want to do the things that I want to do. And achieve the specific things I want to achieve. So when I found out from the beginning of this year to today I've 10x my productivity in this Charisma on Command business, I was very happy because that meant I got to spend more time doing things I love and less time doing things I felt like I had to.This isn't just about making money. This is really about how you spend your life. It's about becoming productive. So if you're interested in more of the good stuff, and less of the things you have to do.Go through these 4 steps to achieve more with me right now. (And make sure you write them down because that's how you're going to get the biggest productivity results from this) 0:46 Identify your goal to achieve (and the biggest driver)1:45 Write down everything that is 'supposedly' taking you to your goal2:51 Eliminate and simplify in order to become productive 4:56 Find and eliminate your 'Herbie' in order to achieve more 7:21 A review of the 4 steps to increase your productivity Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Overcome Your Childhood

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Join The Email List By Submitting Your Email Belowhttp://bit.ly/2EakkYsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Things Sociopaths Do

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Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500 to try Audible today!There are sociopaths in this world who will embarrass, manipulate, and even physically hurt you to get what they want. And because their brains don’t work like most people’s, it can be tough to see it coming until it’s too late.So in this video, we’re going to help you better understand the mind of a sociopath. Then we’ll go over 5 subtle signs to help you tell if someone is a sociopath. While no single trait means anything definitive, if you see these all together it can be a red flag.Special thanks to both Kanika Batra and Dyshae for being so candid about their ASPD.If you want to watch their full interviews, you can click here to see them:Special Books By Special Kids interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bdPMUX8_8MsKanika Batra Q&A: https://youtu.be/NLfgNnGrkQU⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:26 - #1: They lack empathy0:43 - #2: Sociopaths have a strong internal urge to manipulate2:14 - #3: Their first impressions can feel too good to be true3:57 - #4: The sociopath stare7:23 - #5: Their emotional responses seem off-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Sociopaths #Sociopath #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Want to watch more? Check out these videos:5 Signs You're Dealing With A Narcissisthttps://youtu.be/Hg4ws1QPeNE5 Creepy Tactics Sociopaths Use To Manipulate Youhttps://youtu.be/oECsf5y4S7kHow To Spot A Liarhttps://youtu.be/KLvTSMLIPpMConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltmanMusic:Infados by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 licence. https://creativecommo...

6 Things Nice Guys Do That Kill Attraction

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Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/011-25Alec Baldwin’s interview with his wife spirals as she loses all respect for him on camera. But what most people missed is how his 'nice guy' behavior quietly led to this. In this video, we break down 6 common habits that make women lose attraction—and how to stop doing them.0:00 - Intro2:55 - Apologizing to escape discomfort 3:27 - Over explaining and rambling 4:42 - Seeking approval 6:46 - Roping in other people9:08 - Resentment12:51 - Compliment sandwichingSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to Be Effortlessly Likeable

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Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CUPedroPascalSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video you’ll learn 8 habits that make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Pedro Pascal. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:07 - #1: Endearing embarrassment0:59 - #2: Play laugh tag1:54 - #3: Speak in hyperbole2:40 - #4: The fake narcissist joke3:47 - #5: Say this out loud4:10 - #6: Pass the conversational spotlight5:01 - #7: Use a hook that builds curiousity5:54 - #8: Use go to stories-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PedroPascal #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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