Swapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or full-time kinky, expect sharp insights, consent-driven conversations, and the kind of laughter that lasts long after the microphone turns off. Released bi-monthly. Tune in, subscribe, and never miss a secret.
Is ethical non-monogamy just cheating with better PR? Apparently, some people think so!
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are tackling the assumptions people love making about ethical non-monogamy (ENM), open relationships and swinging.
We've all heard them. If your partner satisfies you, why would you want anyone else? If you get jealous, surely you're not cut out for an open relationship? And isn't the whole lifestyle just one big orgy?
Well, we've got some thoughts.
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Bloody messes, bedroom injuries, terrible threesomes and possibly a haunted swingers club. Happy Halloween, you filthy animals!
This week on Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are getting into their Horny Horror Stories, sharing personal disasters, reading your anonymous confessions and reacting to some of the most ridiculous dating and sex stories from Reddit.
Some stories are hilarious. Some are horrifying. And some really make you question people's decision-making.
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Jess and Lawrence play Two Truths and a Lie with OSS staff Anna, Conny and Ilona. Everyone’s brought a few stories, someone’s lying, and there are water guns waiting for the wrong answer.
Anna has some after-hours office antics to explain, Conny drops a former NRL player into the conversation, and Ilona tells us about inviting two dates to the same venue. Jess and Lawrence ask plenty of questions. Whether that actually helps them is another matter.
Get to know Anna, one of our managers and educators; Conny, our concierge and drag performer; and Ilona, who also hosts trivia and singles events. These are some of the people you’ll meet at Our Secret Spot, Sydney’s adult play party venue in Annandale. Apparently, there’s quite a bit we didn’t know about them.
Play along and pick your answers before the reveals. Surely you can do better than our hosts.
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Is ethical non-monogamy just cheating with better PR? Apparently, some people think so!
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are tackling the assumptions people love making about ethical non-monogamy (ENM), open relationships and swinging.
We've all heard them. If your partner satisfies you, why would you want anyone else? If you get jealous, surely you're not cut out for an open relationship? And isn't the whole lifestyle just one big orgy?
Well, we've got some thoughts.
Visit our Patreon for extra spicy content 🔥 https://ap1.hubs.ly/H015Cmd0
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Bloody messes, bedroom injuries, terrible threesomes and possibly a haunted swingers club. Happy Halloween, you filthy animals!
This week on Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are getting into their Horny Horror Stories, sharing personal disasters, reading your anonymous confessions and reacting to some of the most ridiculous dating and sex stories from Reddit.
Some stories are hilarious. Some are horrifying. And some really make you question people's decision-making.
Got a horny horror story of your own? We want to hear it! Send it through to our Instagram or Reddit, and you might feature in a future episode.
Visit our Patreon for extra spicy content 🔥 https://ap1.hubs.ly/H015Cmd0
Get your Halloween tickets 🎃 (Want both nights? Have 20% off!)
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Jess and Lawrence play Two Truths and a Lie with OSS staff Anna, Conny and Ilona. Everyone’s brought a few stories, someone’s lying, and there are water guns waiting for the wrong answer.
Anna has some after-hours office antics to explain, Conny drops a former NRL player into the conversation, and Ilona tells us about inviting two dates to the same venue. Jess and Lawrence ask plenty of questions. Whether that actually helps them is another matter.
Get to know Anna, one of our managers and educators; Conny, our concierge and drag performer; and Ilona, who also hosts trivia and singles events. These are some of the people you’ll meet at Our Secret Spot, Sydney’s adult play party venue in Annandale. Apparently, there’s quite a bit we didn’t know about them.
Play along and pick your answers before the reveals. Surely you can do better than our hosts.
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See all the show notes: https://oursecretspot.com.au/sexiest-moments-of-the-year-part-2/
The Sexiest Moments of the Year aren't done yet.
Part 2 digs back into another year of Swapping Secrets with Jess, Lawrence and some familiar guests for the conversations, stories and complete derailments that were too good not to hear again.
We're talking dating red flags, open relationships, relationship stigma, consent, safer sex, boundaries, three-way encounters, fantasies, attraction and what happens when being horny gets in the way of better judgement.
You'll also hear highlights featuring Kim Cums, Miranda Cheng, and Bradford & Angela from By the Bi Podcast, alongside listener stories and some classic Jess and Lawrence moments that probably made a lot more sense at the time.
If Part 1 wasn't enough, here's another reminder of just how much happened on Swapping Secrets this year.
Swapping Secrets is officially one year old, and apparently the best way to celebrate is to drag some of our funniest, filthiest, smartest and most chaotic moments back into the light.
Jess and Lawrence revisit the clips they still can’t forget, alongside some brilliant moments from the guests and community members who’ve joined them over the past year.
We’re talking open relationships, swinging, consent, communication, first-time nerves, bisexuality, sexual health, stage fright, relationship agreements, awkward confessions, questionable Google searches and plenty of things that probably sounded like a better idea before somebody turned the microphones on.
There’s been a lot of sex, obviously. But there’s also been a year of learning how people communicate, explore relationships, navigate boundaries, laugh at themselves and find their place in this wonderfully weird community.
Thanks for coming along for the ride.
And if you’re new here? This is one hell of a place to start.
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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Lawrence sits down with adult entertainer and content creator Kim Cums to find out what life behind OnlyFans and the adult entertainment industry actually looks like.
Kim’s path into the industry wasn’t exactly conventional. After studying archaeology and environmental science, an online relationship, kink exploration and early webcam modelling gradually led her into escorting, adult content creation and eventually building her own platform, KimCums.com.
But what audiences see online is only a small part of the job.
It’s a conversation about OnlyFans, adult entertainment, sex work, stigma, relationships, censorship, identity and what really happens behind the camera.
Check Kim out here!
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Reddit has questions about bisexuality… and some of them are MESSY.
With Jess away on maternity leave, Lawrence is joined by returning guests Bradford and Angela from By the Bi to tackle Reddit’s wildest bisexual dilemmas.
From women refusing to date bisexual men and the double standards surrounding bi relationships, to discovering same-sex attraction later in life, the trio unpack where personal preference ends and biphobia begins — and why bisexuality still gets tangled up with assumptions about cheating, masculinity, monogamy and commitment.
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What if better intimacy had less to do with technique and more to do with understanding your body?
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Miranda Cheng, founder of We The Femme and a practitioner in pelvic care and holistic sexuality.
Together, they explore how the pelvic floor, nervous system, stress and breath can influence desire, arousal and pleasure. Although many people focus on what they should do during sex, Miranda explains why noticing what is already happening in the body can be just as important.
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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess, Lawrence and producer Gabe revisit the movies, television shows and characters that quietly shaped how they understood queerness, gender, relationships and acceptance.
They discuss the difference between meaningful representation and tokenism, why some of the strongest queer characters are simply allowed to exist without their identity becoming the entire storyline, and how children’s television can normalise different relationships without turning them into a lesson.
The conversation also examines masculine stereotypes, gender expression, family attitudes and the impact of seeing people live outside traditional expectations on screen.
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For Pride Month, we’re diving into the realities of modern queer relationships with elite gay matchmaker and relationship expert Daniel Cooley.
From dating app burnout and modern matchmaking to monogamy, non-monogamy, communication, and the biggest misconceptions people have about LGBTQIA+ relationships, this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes.
Daniel shares what thousands of conversations with gay men have taught him about love, loneliness, dating, commitment, and why many people are still searching for genuine connection despite having more options than ever before.
We also explore what heterosexual couples could learn from the way many queer relationships approach communication, boundaries, relationship structures, and emotional honesty.
Whether you’re queer, straight, monogamous, non-monogamous, dating, partnered, or simply curious about modern relationships, this episode offers fresh perspectives on what meaningful connection really looks like today.
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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with renowned sexologist and relationship counsellor Alice Child to answer one of the biggest questions facing modern couples:
Why does intimacy break down, even in loving relationships?
From mismatched libidos and emotional labour to communication challenges, parenting, stress, resentment and screen-time overload, Alice explains the most common reasons couples seek professional help and what actually works when it comes to rebuilding connection.
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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with internationally recognised dominatrix, sex educator, and somatic practitioner Eva Oh for one of the deepest and most psychologically fascinating conversations the podcast has explored yet.
From power dynamics and long-term psychological play to shame, erotic liberation, BDSM, submission, embodiment, and human desire — Eva opens up about the hidden emotional worlds behind kink and why so many people crave control, surrender, punishment, connection, and acceptance.
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Jess and Lawrence are diving into Reddit’s wildest open relationship stories — and things get messy fast.
From ethical non-monogamy dating struggles and first-time anxiety to sex club boundaries, changing rules mid-play, safer sex debates and questionable couple behaviour, this episode unpacks the Reddit posts that made them laugh, cringe and ask: is this real or is this a troll?
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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, we explore people, policy and pleasure podcast conversations with Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller, unpacking the hidden history of sex-on-premises venues in Sydney and how thoughtful legislation has shaped safer adult communities.
From the legacy of the Disorderly Houses Act to the Bodyline precedent, police discretion, planning reform, and the role of local councils, this conversation explores how rules and boundaries can actually create safer, more expressive spaces. The episode also draws powerful parallels between policy, consent, communication, and freedom — both inside adult venues and across society more broadly.
If you’ve ever wondered how sex-positive spaces are protected, why policy matters, or what Sydney can teach the wider world about safety, autonomy and respect, this one’s for you.
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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Dr. Leigh Barlow for a candid conversation about sex stigma, sexual health, STI testing, condoms, herpes, BV, and the choices that help people stay safe without shame. Together, they unpack why stigma around sex still exists, where sex education still falls short, and […]
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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over. We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk away. From cocky […]
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🔥 Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! In this exclusive, sneak-peek clip from our new segment, Raunchy Recaps, Jess and Lawrence share some of the wildest swingers club stories from inside Our Secret Spot. From dungeon encounters and orgy room chaos to hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, these real lifestyle stories […]
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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women. With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a safe, empowering environment where women can explore sexuality, identity, and desire without pressure or judgement. 🔥 […]
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In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play. Plus, voice messages and video questions from our extended community — including familiar faces from the lifestyle podcast space. This episode is raw, honest and unfiltered […]
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What happens when curiosity turns into lived experience — and desire reshapes your identity, relationships, and sense of self? In Part 1 of this raw and reflective episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack how sexual desire can both liberate and destabilise. From early curiosity and boundary-blurring moments to the emotional hangovers no one prepares you for, […]
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Midlife used to be framed as the beginning of the sexual slow-down. Less desire. Less energy. Less spark. But what if that story is completely wrong? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by globally renowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton to unpack what she calls The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance — […]
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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Bradford and Angela from the By The By Podcast to unpack the emotional mechanics of jealousy, envy, fear of missing out, and the boundaries that keep open relationships healthy, sexy, and sustainable. Together, they explore why jealousy often has more to do with […]
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Naughty Christmas swinger stories are the unofficial love language of the holidays — and OSS has plenty to unwrap. In this extra-spicy Christmas special, Jess and Lawrence dive headfirst into naughty Christmas swinger stories sent in by the community, opening listener gifts, reading filthy confessions, and reliving the most outrageous festive moments of the year. […]
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Self-pleasure has quietly shifted from a whispered taboo to a full-blown cultural reclamation — and few people have championed that transformation more powerfully than Rosie Rees. In this episode, Jess and Lawrence dive deep into the world of empowered intimacy, slow pleasure, mindful masturbation, and the quiet revolution happening in bedrooms everywhere. Rosie opens up […]
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Consent is easy when it’s a bright, enthusiastic “yes.” But what about the murky moments — the mixed signals, the non-verbal cues, the awkward pauses, or the moments you only realise after the fact that something felt… off? In this episode, Lawrence, and our guest Prue, dive into the real-world grey areas of consent — […]
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Jess and Lawrence pull back the curtain on one of the most real, raw challenges in the lifestyle: how to balance parenting with swinging, non-monogamy, and staying sexy. From babysitters to bedtime, stigma to scheduling — this episode is a candid look at the juggling act of raising toddlers while still embracing fun, intimacy, and […]
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Get your 👉 Safer Sex Checklist Jess and Lawrence are diving into the practical side of love, lust, and lifestyle — how to stay safe, healthy, and confident in open and non-monogamous relationships. From STI checks to mental health, condoms to communication, this episode busts myths and flips stigma on its head with real talk […]
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No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2) Jess and Lawrence are back with Part 2 of the New Relationship Revolution, joined by special guest Lucy Banks — PR powerhouse, CEO of the Australian Adult Industry Choice Awards, and marketing lead for Sxhibition. This episode goes deeper into how people are rewriting […]
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Jess and Lawrence return with Part 1 of a two-part special exploring the new relationship revolution. In this episode, they dive into how younger generations are rethinking love, intimacy, and commitment — moving beyond traditional models and embracing non-traditional paths like swinging, polyamory, and relationship anarchy. From peer-reviewed studies to app data from Bumble, Feeld, […]
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Welcome to the brand-new Swapping Secrets podcast — the revamped show from inside Our Secret Spot. Jess and Lawrence are back with cameras, lights, and plenty of cheeky stories to kick off the new era. In this episode, we dive into first time swingers club stories — the funny, the awkward, and the oh-so-sexy moments […]
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It’s not Episode 101 just yet, but we couldn’t resist bringing you a mid-season treat — the juiciest, funniest, and most outrageous moments from the pod so far. 🔥 In this special “Best Of” edition, Jess and Lawrence revisit the stories that had us laughing, blushing, and fanning ourselves, plus a few that made us […]
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It’s not Episode 101 (yet), but we’re keeping your earbuds warm with a juicy mid-season treat. 💦 In this special in-between-isode, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Our Secret Spot’s own literary temptress — Natasha Rose — to talk all things erotica, imagination, and the powerful role of storytelling in sexuality. 🔞 What turns us […]
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We’ve officially hit the big 1-0-0! The OSS 100th episode is a celebration of you – our amazing community of listeners, guests, and sexy supporters. To mark the occasion, we asked you to send in your most memorable podcast moments, listener stories, voicemails, DMs, and love notes from the past 99 episodes — and you […]
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We’re coming up on 100 episodes—and we want you to be part of the celebration! In this episode, Jess and Lawrence share some exciting news about what’s next for the podcast. We’re calling on our listeners to send in their favourite podcast moments—whether it’s a wild story, a laugh-out-loud moment, or something that made you […]
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Juiciest June swingers club stories don’t get much wilder than this. In this episode, Jess and Lawrence share everything that went down at Our Secret Spot in June—starting with a woman being fingered at the bar, right in front of everyone, before dragging her lucky companion upstairs to finish what they started. They also recount […]
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In episode 98: Threesomes, Orgies & First-Timer Feels (feat. Ben & Paige), Jess and Lawrence chat with OSS newbies Ben and Paige, a couple who’ve jumped headfirst into the swinging lifestyle. With just two visits to the club under their belts, they’ve already experienced a lot – from spontaneous threesomes to full-blown orgies and one particularly […]
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In Episode 97: Open Legs, Open Invitation: A Newbie Night Tale (Moaning May 2025), Jess and Lawrence return to share one of the most jaw-dropping OSS stories yet—a newbie night sex story about a c**k-hungry guest who arrived with one goal: to say yes to everything. No hesitation, no boundaries, just pure, uninhibited pleasure. They […]
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In From Curious to Climax: John & Jane Get Dirty, we read a listener-submitted story from a couple’s very first visit to Our Secret Spot — and wow, they didn’t waste any time getting into the action. Prue narrates their smutty tale featuring one lucky lady, two men, and a whole lot of first-time fun. […]
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In this episode, Jess and Lawrence dive headfirst into the deliciously chaotic world of threesomes. From spontaneous trios to planned ménage-a-trois mayhem, they recount some of the wildest stories from March and April—because apparently, things come in threes this season. Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a little lust as they unpack why threesomes keep […]
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In this episode of Our Secret Spot – The Podcast, Lawrence catches up with Lauren Hayes, author of the fantastic new book ‘For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love and Life from a Non-Monogamist’. Lauren opens up about her personal experiences and shares the powerful lessons she’s learned about love, relationships, and living […]
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Jess and Lawrence are back to chat about all the fun of Frisky February! They share the highlights from the school-themed event, the good vibes at Mingle and Drinks, and a wild story from the 3Cs g******g. Pour yourself a drink and tune in for some laughs, juicy details, and behind-the-scenes fun! If you have […]
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This week, Lawrence and Jess are featured guests on a new and upcoming podcast called Hot Nerds. Tune in while we pull apart sexual dynamics within ourselves and with others, the patriarchal pressures of sexuality, and putting sex on a puritanical pedestal – plus much much more. If you have any questions, please contact us […]
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In this sizzling episode of Our Secret Spot – The Podcast, Jess and Lawrence dive into the juiciest moments from January 2025, spilling all the tea from the hottest club events. From the wild boat party where someone got double stuffed to the naughty antics at the Class of 2025 event, where students and teachers […]
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Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 90: Debauchery – Sydney’s Newest Kink Event (feat. Mistress Anastasia & The Kink Carpenter) Get ready to dive into a provocative and thrilling conversation on this week’s podcast episode! Hosts Jess and Lawrence are joined by two extraordinary guests who are redefining the boundaries of […]
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Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 89: ‘Thank You for an Amazing 2024 & Delicious December’ Jess and Lawrence reminisce about the delicious month of December and the amazing year that was 2024. Thank you for all your support over the past year. We cannot wait for more fun and exciting […]
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Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 88: ‘Conversation to Have Before the Club’ Join Jess and Lawrence as they dive into the essential conversations to have before stepping into the club. From exploring fantasies and setting boundaries to addressing ‘no-nos’ and building mutual confidence, they’ll guide you through it all […]
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Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 87: ‘You Will Please Me! Naughty November 2024’ Hello everyone, and welcome back to the latest episode, ‘You Will Please Me! Naughty November 2024’. Jess and Lawrence share some of the highlights from the club’s events over November. One of the hottest stories involves a […]
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Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 86. Let’s Talk About Toys (feat. Linda from Flirt Adult Stores) Hello everyone and welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. In today’s episode, Lawrence and Jess talk about toys: sex toys, to be precise. Linda, who works for Flirt Adult Stores in […]
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Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 85. Ariel & Simba Walk Into A Swingers Club (Orgasmic October 2024) Jess and Lawrence share some delightful stories from the Orgasmic October 2024 at Our Secret Spot. Halloween was fantastic, and some dirty Disney from Ariel & Simba shagging was had. Regular listeners will […]
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Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 84 – Relationship Agreements for Swinging (feat. Eri Kardos) During this episode, Lawrence talks with Eri Kardos about having relationship agreements for swinging relationships. Eri is the author of the best-selling book Relationship Agreements: A Simple and Effective Guide for Strengthening Communication, Reducing Conflict, and […]
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